my girlfriend broke up with me after 10 months because she cheated on me. the thing is i still want to be with her she says she doesnt know if she wants to be with me and im willing to wait but she doesnt want me to. is this her way of letting me down easy?? i just want her what do i do??
2007-12-05 04:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by AaronR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay umm she was just using you ...i think you should move on and keep yourself busy if you can ...im sorry that she cheated on you but yeah life is like that ..and she tried to let u down the easy way..i think you should move on and have fun thank you buhbye
2007-12-05 04:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Soni 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey man!!!! You sound like I have been sounding for about 3 months now since my girlfriend gave me the ax. The only difference is that there was no cheating going on with either of us. Now here's a little solid advice from an iron man. First of all, yes this is her way of letting you down easy. First and foremost is DO NOT let her know that you are miserable without her. That was the mistake I made with my ex. Get out and flirt with as many women as you can. Make sure that she thinks that you are having the time of your life. Trust me, I know how you feel. You probably want your ex back so bad it hurts. I know, sometimes I still feel that way about mine but you ABSOLUTELY cannot let her EVER know this. If she knows that you are unhappy without her, then she is in control. YOU must always be in control in this situation. She CHEATED on you once, how do you know she won't do it again? Hey, one woman did you wrong, another will make it right. Get yourself some female FWB's Friends With Benefits and gradually your pain will be eased.
Good luck!!!
2007-12-05 05:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaron i am sorry about what i did, and you know that. but half of these people are just answering to get points or something. that is not how it is at all. iknow i made a huge mistake and nothing i could ever do would make up for it. but there were a few that were right, ido need time, but please dont think im lying and using you. please just let me do my thing. i love you forever, and i mean it. and one more thing, ******* around with other people doesnt "ease pain", it hurts more. thats stupid if you want to ease pain just remember that we will again happen one day, or maybe you will find someone else. but just remember i love you always & forever, no matter what dip shits say
2007-12-05 05:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by **aMaNDa N!c0le** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her let her know how you really feel that you forget her. But remember we forgive but we don't forget. So you are always going to have that in mind you are never going to be able to trust her.Or Probably you love her to much that you could learn how to trust her again. Also stop calling her let her decide what she wants if she loves you she will come back if she don't she was not for you. Am a women as a women am going to tell you this don't call her don't look for her. And she will realize what she wants but if you keep calling her she is not coming back.
2007-12-05 05:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by janet_23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 22:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes the one you want ...y not tell her that you want to be friends with her no matter what ...and you'll always be there for her ...for a couple of months don't bring up the fact that you still love her ....i think its the guilt that's eating her up inside ..so be patient with her .let her come to terms with what she did and forgive herself ..give it sometime and then ask her out again ...she might say yes ....personally id ask you to move on coz once a cheater always a cheater ...and i think you'll never be able to trust her again even if the 2 of u get back together but i also think u'll spend the rest of Ur life wondering 'what if' if you don't go after her now so ..good luck
2007-12-05 05:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by velma dinkley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts man? Move on, find someone else, do you not have any pride? There's a heck of a lotta fish in the sea, go get'em! And you don't wanna love a girl for ever and even worse tell her you do! Don't worry buddy, you'll get over her as soon as you get into a new relationship.
2007-12-05 04:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Soroush 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be part of her not wanting to get back with you is because she carries that guilt of cheating on you and it's easier not to feel the guilt if she's not with you. I think you should give her some time, just trying being her friend. I think she needs to realize that you have forgiven her and moved on even if she hasn't forgiven herself and moved on from the situation.
2007-12-05 04:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Deacon's mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on you?! Talk about adultery, unfaithfulness, backstab, blah blah blah. Ask yourself first if you want to be with the girl that you can't trust, that has hurt you, and is capable of doing it again. If you can, well, good luck. I wouldn't. I want my relationship to have honesty in it.
2007-12-05 04:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her sum space and sum time 2 figure out wat she is doin....most likely she is jus tryi 2 let u down easy......i know exactly where she is coming from (except i didnt cheat on my bf).....if things are meant 2 be then u will find out in the future.....in the meantime i suggest that u dont make urself miserable by waiting around doin nothin.....look around and make sure that u cant find a relationship with sumone else....
2007-12-05 04:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by country_chick_09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋