It seems like every time i go out i always come home disappointed. I'm starting to think I intimidate men because absolutely no one talks to me. What should i do to look more approachable...I guess.
2007-12-05 04:39:44 · 21 answers · asked by Pinklipgloss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Just be friendly, but don't do any aggressive or overt approaching as advised by others, who are modern-day liberals.
REPEAT: Don't listen to others who say to approach them. They are liberals who have messed up the world and are ill-qualified to give advice.
To this person we are almost in the year 2008. If you are single and looking to date feel free to approach anyone you want. I am very shy and it is hard for me to approach guys, but most people say that if someone doesn't approach you then you should by all means approach them if you are interested. The worst thing that can happen is they can say they aren't interested. But, in all likelihood they are interested and perhaps they were trying to get the courage up to approach you. If neither of you gives it a shot than neither of you will ever know. Plus, they say sometimes guys like being approached. They don't always want to have to be the one to do the asking Sometimes a little role reversal is a good thing. If you're interested and do nothing then hear from someone else that the person really wanted to talk to you but couldn't bring himself to approach you then you will feel even worse. If you approach him and he isn't interested or he's with someone else then you will know. If a guy gets mad at you for approaching him first and calls you a liberal, maybe the truth is he is the kind of over-controlling guy that you wouldn't want in your life anyway.
2007-12-05 05:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by tkdnsacountry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress nice, look like a real lady and just be your self ...if a man is interested in you he will let you know and will approach you or you can carry yourself like an easy lay and all the one nighters will notice you immediately and this is going to be a sure disappointment if your goal is a long term relationship or possible marriage. maybe you are looking at a guy that is not interested in you and ignoring the one guy that want you. ps you also have to act like a decent lady to catch a real man. A do right woman pulls a do right man. Do not settle for just anything ..get you a good responsible working man. Good Luck!
2007-12-05 12:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by mamatoddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly, but don't do any aggressive or overt approaching as advised by others, who are modern-day liberals.
REPEAT: Don't listen to others who say to approach them. They are liberals who have messed up the world and are ill-qualified to give advice.
Some eye contact and a friendly smile will go a long way, and it doesn't take much for most men to melt. They have a built-in mechanism to pick up on the most subtle of signals.
2007-12-05 12:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm i have the exact same problem. and you know what? the only way to get what you want is to put yourself out there and approach them first. YES YES i know it is really hard and really intimidating but i bet you they feel just as scared to come up to you. Dont wait for things you have to go and get them yourself. Now if you notice the girls who do get the attention from guys get the attentions either bc they are really out there, they are confident, they show off their personality to them, they dont try to hide it. They dont just sit quietly in the corner and wait for guys to approach them they approach the guys. and now you are probably wondering ok then how do i approach them. well you can just go up and be like hey (name), how are you. and get into the conversation and let your personality show, dont hold back. I know this is really scary to do but there isnt really any other way, so be brave and go for it! good luck
2007-12-05 13:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is really good looking and every girl in the room is looking at him and you are a pretty girl then don't look his way, don't acknowledge his presence. Now if it just happens to be that he looks your guy but because you are too pretty for him he gets shy then be the approacher.
2007-12-05 12:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to be the approacher...try to make eye contact with the guy you want to talk too..
2007-12-05 12:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Deta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just make eye contact as much as u can and that guy will repond to u in some manner
2007-12-05 12:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Aakshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Hello, unless he's a jerk or an idiot he'll have no problem with a woman approaching him.
To let him know you are interested lightly touch him on the arm or the shoulder.
2007-12-05 12:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be the approacher
2007-12-05 12:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by uptoyou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, one, we can also approach them gurl, lol, i'm the agressive type when I wanna be. but smiling and winking at them are sign's to let them know that your intersted.
2007-12-05 12:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋