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ok my friend and i are really close and her and her BF is really sweet and kind not exactly "Hot" but ......... IDK i think he likes me like when he is with my friend and has his arm around her he will walk away from her and walk towards me and start talking to me. It makes me feel bad becuz my friend is starting to see that we like each other. i am REALLY REALLY trying not to feel any thing towards him i even avoid him u know he is my friends' BF but i really do like him and u can tell he cares for me

wat do i do !! am i a bad friend ??

2007-12-05 04:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by Alejandra C 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

srry i meant to put MY friends BF ( sounds like a pirate ) oh ya and this one is from my sis

2007-12-05 04:58:37 · update #1

way to make my sis feel bad ppl !!!
she know ths is wrong and she knows that she is a 'bad' friend oh dis sucks!! she DOES distace herself from him and stuff ...... oh ay ppl she is ONLY inthe 9th grade !! nothin serious !!

2007-12-05 08:42:35 · update #2

12 answers

hum...uhm that's a tough one..I say you need to talk to him & your friend...You know!
If you are starting to have feelings for her boyfriend then dont you think she deserves to know?
And if he has feelings for you then Your friend Deffinatly needs to know!!!
That isn't right for him to be dating her & having intrest in you!!
You Know...No wether or not she is gonna think you are a bad friend it's all going to be intirely how she looks at it!
GooD Luck!!!
{And I dont really believe that this for you sis!}

2007-12-05 05:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

I am going to be honest and Sorry to say this, but then you're NOT a true friend. Sometimes the truth hurts, but liking your best friends man is hurting her. Do onto others as you want done unto you. My opinion, find a way to lose the feelings and leave him alone. Dont hang out with them when they are together. It sounds like you may become a future homewrecker with no friends. Don't be selfish, imagine the heartache you would put your BF through. When karma bites back, you'll be in her shoes, then who are you going to cry too? Plus you never cross that boundary with your firends i.e. NEVER LIKE OR DATE your friends man!

2007-12-05 05:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gmarie 3 · 0 0

okay the dude is taken one....regardless of the fact that the dude is with your friend or someone else then you need to move on. He is taken and i know those feelings and i have had them before as well but you need to know that your girl is your girl no matter what the good the bad and the ugly and that you can not have him. now if a 6 months or so from now you get involved then you had the right to. that gives her time to get over him and him time to figure out if he likes you the way you like him and if you two can be. one because they have brokend up and two Because you don't want to be the same girl this time next year.

2007-12-05 05:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Leticia B 2 · 0 0

You are busted between a rock and a hard place! You may wanna talk to your friend because I think this guy is not worth being friends with, you don't just wanna be friends with a guy just because he's hot! If he was worthy, he wouldn't flirt with ya, you wanna be friends with him,OK, go for it but rest assure that he'll do the same to you.

2007-12-05 05:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Soroush 1 · 0 0

If my friend wanted to be with my bf and he wanted to be with her then I would let them be.There are plenty of fish in the sea.Why do you like your friends bf?Maybe you're not her true friend.You should respect her enough to not mess with her bf.That's wrong!How do you know he cares for you?.....by the way he looks at you?No that's not it.You need to ask yourself one thing?Is he worth losing a friend over?Men will come and go.But a friend,a true friend will stay in your life forever.Do some soul searching.Karma does exist!

2007-12-05 05:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie23 2 · 0 0

You can't help how you feel.
I mean if your friend and this guys relationship is going good then maybe you should lay low for a while and maybe even talk to him in a serious matter saying how you feel(:

2007-12-05 05:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lexie 1 · 0 0

yea basically do skrew him, i advise, if he has a challenge with you for somewhat element like that, f*ck him, if your fearful of issues being awkward why dont you carry a buddy (boyfriend?) alongside to boot, then it may desire to circulate right into a double date and additionally you wouldnt could desire to communicate to him, any buddy this is a boy could desire to artwork (: <3 LudaB*tch

2016-10-19 06:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No, your not a bad friend. Your just human. But my advise. Put him in his place. And let your friend know wat the deal is. And let him do him wit your friend. But i wouldn't allow him to come between you and your friend. becuz men come and go. But a good friend you can keep for lyfe! Good luck gurl!

2007-12-05 05:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the thing is hes with her. you need to distance yourself from him out of respect for her. even if she wasnt your best friend you should distance yourself from someone in a commited relationship. its not even right to do what you are doing. stay away from him

2007-12-05 05:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you would be very bad if you pirate you BEST FRIEND'S BF... if you are on her place you would be very hurt too... just avoid him and your feelings for him... there alot man out there. dont ruin your friendship just becoz of him.

2007-12-05 05:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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