Ok.I'm not gay at all.It's just that whenever I see a woman that is cute,I start comparing myself to her.There are a lot of pretty women in the world and sometimes I ask myself,"Why does my bf want to be with an average looking girl like me when he could be with someone that's alot prettier than me.And I know it's not always about what's on the outside but i get insecure about my looks sometimes.I start wishing that I had a bigger chest size or a bigger butt and other things.Can anyone relate to this?
2007-12-05 06:26:08 · 5 answers · asked by sweetie23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone compares themselves to others in some way...
As for your BF...
I have a male friend who told me once, " You're very pretty, but not supermodel gorgeous like my wife...."
Well, I always wondered why he married her because she wasn't attractive, compared to anyone....
So.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder.... to him you may be the most beautiful woman in the world... just as you are....
2007-12-05 07:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it too but I don't think about why my b/f is with me instead of the prettier girl. Looks isn't everything in that department. I look at the different girls and think it'd be nice if I was skinner with a bigger cheast, straighter nose, etc. just because it's appealling to me. I think the most important thing is to appreciate what you have. When you look at girls who have big boobs and wish yours were bigger remember they have to deal with more jerks staring at the cheast and not their face when they talk, or they'll be saggier at 60 than you, or they have more back pains or bra issues that you do. I try to think of the cons along with pros.
2007-12-05 14:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Honey... It's called being a female!! We all do it and if they say they dont then they are lying their *** off. It's a problem all females have. We will never be satisfied with how we look. Just accept it.
2007-12-05 14:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by jmc24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you should do..make sure you have good footing first to brace yourself, now place both hands firmly on top of your shoulders and as you pull your head out of your own rectum jump to separate the two. Good luck.
2007-12-05 14:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't ever do that - doesn't cross my mind. Why don't you spend your energy on something worthwhile instead of thinking about yourself.
2007-12-05 14:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋