Ok - my entire life I've been stared at, told I was gorgeous, etc...but I recently got an awful hair cut, I mean AWFUL = boy cut. Guys still stare, but are they staring making fun of me or because they still find me attractive?
I have a nice body, nice face, nice clothes, but AWFUL HAIR!
2007-12-05 06:10:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They wouldn't be staring to make fun fo you.
Your hair won't matter if you have confidence in yourself + "I have a nice body, nice face, nice clothes, "....but still if you don't mind what peopel think you'll stand out better than you did with your long hair.
2007-12-05 06:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT HAPPENED TO ME, TOO!!!!!
I had a very hard time because of it. A couple boys called me a lesbian one day at school. I took it to heart a little bit. But, I got in the guys face and started screaming at him in front of his friends. I really embarrassed him! haha The next day I wore a shirt that I wrote on in big, black letters...
"Yes, I have short hair,
NO, I'm not a lesbian"
and on the back was
"GET OVER IT"
I got stared at a LOT that day, but people kept telling me how awesome I was to stand up for myself. A picture of me in my shirt made it in the yearbook.
You will be fine. It's rough, it really is. Give it some time, keep working with it and you will find ways to do your hair as it grows out to make you feel more confident.
2007-12-05 06:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Who cares? Just take this time to let it grow out and re-discover your friends and your alone time... Start painting or putting your everything into your work or your family (or both) and in the meantime, your hair will grow back and you will feel like your old self again. Of course, if you like the haircut, then stick with it... Who cares what guys think? There will always be jerks in life, but only a select few who will actually see your inner spirit and find out what beauty there is within you! That's more important, anyway... ;-) Good luck...
2007-12-05 06:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by ballistik 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im not a lad...
but alot of boys look at below the head on the girl!
you can tell when they eye you up!
especially when they stare at your ar** lol
most boys wont be bothered about your hair, i meen if i was a lad i think i would go for the personality and partly what she looks like! you wouldnt exactly go for the hair would you?!
even if your hair is awful, it'll soon grow back!
dont be worried what they think! go out have fun, dont care at all!
youll realise if they are taking the mic or liking what they see!
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2007-12-05 06:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. well if your as good looking as you say then your hair shouldn't matter at all and if they laugh wait until it grows back then ignore the ones how talked trash then there going to be like wow look at her..
i guess you can say I'm old fashion but i hate people that judge by look i mean i got my limits to how a girl looks but i never judge at all its stupid because that person can be a good person.
just don't worrie your still gorgeous just different hair and guys look at mostly body and face
2007-12-05 06:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a man, but my guess is that their still looking because you are gorgeous...and perhaps wondering why you did that to your hair...i recently had a bad cut too...been growing my hair out for a year...hairdresser knew i was growing it out then cuts off everything that i grew since the last visit..i'm not going back to her...now i look like Florence Henderson on the Brady Bunch...you may want to try a wig just temporarily till your hair grows out more..they can be a lot of fun..
2007-12-05 06:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh haircuts can be hurtfull to your sexiness. But that does not mean you have to let it bring you down. Try gettin a wig or something that covers your hair. Maybe that will help and people will not even notice your boy cut.
2007-12-05 06:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by Nate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, usually you will be fine. It doesn't matter about the hair cut. Just think positive. They are most likely not making fun of you.
2007-12-05 06:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Dark Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like short hair! Not me personally, but some do! I bet that they are still staring at ALL of you. ;-)
2007-12-05 06:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair does not make the girl. You sound like a great girl and that is what everyone is seeing.
2007-12-05 06:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by mark019 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋