my parents have knocked down my bedroom wall which is downstairs so technically i don't have a bedroom and i can't listen to music or do my reviion for exams or anything else. insted my bed is in the corner of the lounge and all my stuff is in boxes. i have to listen to crappy football and i'm bored out of my brain. i have nothing to do and i only get 30 mins on the computer per night... i need help i'm going insane not to mention suffering music withdrawal (i sound awfull huh? but i just want to chill out for a while after doing exams all day, i'm 15 btw)
2007-12-05 04:38:35 · 19 answers · asked by pritzy-fairy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
they have been planning to move my room to somewhere else but they just stoped doing it like its some stupid project grrrrrrrrr
i have nowhere else to go and this really sucks!! i'm really annoyed at them and they just laugh at me and don't seem to care...all they say is "life's unfair live with it or not your choice!" how suckish is that!!
2007-12-05 04:54:26 · update #1
they have been planning to move my room to somewhere else but they just stoped doing it like its some stupid project grrrrrrrrr
i have nowhere else to go and this really sucks!! i'm really annoyed at them and they just laugh at me and don't seem to care...all they say is "life's unfair live with it or not your choice!" how suckish is that!!
2007-12-05 04:54:27 · update #2
hmmm...why has your parents knocked down your bedroom wall? are you sleeping in the lounge too??
all i can suggest is either taking some music up into your parents bedroom explaining to them that you need your own space....
or...
get yourself out of the house and go and visit some friends
i hope you get a bedroom or at the very least your wall back!! :)
2007-12-05 04:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by david k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult being your age, and probably your parents haven't taken stock, and really realised how old you are. It's easy for a parent to think of a child as younger than they really are. For an adult 3 years is nothing, but 3 years ago you were only 12 and your needs were different. In turn, you need to show them that you are mature, don't whine about things without coming up with any solutions of your own. Maybe sit down with them and calmly let them see that this isn't nothing to you, but that you realise that things aren't easy for them either, and see if you can find a solution.
Hope it works out
Remember, and it may be a cliche, but life doesn't come with a handbook, and people get things wrong sometimes and parents have so, so ,so much to deal with all the time, most of which you won't know about, so your problems probably seem trivial to them.
Good luck with your exams!
2007-12-05 05:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did they knock down the wall? Are they putting it back up? Tell them that if you don't get your own room really soon that your school work is going to go downhill because you have no privacy, nowhere to study and all the noise and crap is driving you insane!
You don't sound awful but your parents do for doing this to you!
2007-12-05 04:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did they knock out your wall? Well I would tell them how I felt and maybe you should find a place somewhere else in the neighborhood or in the house that makes you happy and you can have some privacy.
2007-12-05 04:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask if you can sleep in the basement or something, or Sit your parents down, start fake crying (optional), and tell them a whole bunch of stupid crap like "I am 15 years old I need my own space" "I am responsible' "Dont you trust me" Your parents will be impressed by your fake responsibility and maturity, and you will have a room in no time
2007-12-05 04:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by :( 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you move to another room? Or make some plans with them to have the whole room to yourself once in awhile. You need privacy and its wrong of them to take that from you. Good Luck.
2007-12-05 04:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by tarie75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, in a few more years you can move out and do whatever you like. Until then they pay the bills so they can do whatever they want. It sucks sometimes but it's the truth.
2007-12-05 04:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by warrior 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can't you listen with headphones?
your parents have control of the house.
in order to control your own space you have to move out and pay the rent yourself.
you could cook dinner for your family.
you can do anything you want, this situation is not really stopping you. you can study in the bathroom or find other solutions.
if you want to find solutions.
but if you want to blame everything on others and be hopeless you can do that too. try breathing and meditating.
2007-12-05 04:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would the knock down your bedroom wall? Are the redoing and planning on fixing? I sure hope so. That doesn't sound fair you need your own private space and soon..Explain this to them..
2007-12-05 04:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get headphones, go to the library, and suck it up. It's not your house and that's just the way life is. When you turn 18 and go away to school or whatever it is you decide to do you'll appreciate the freedom that much more.
2007-12-05 04:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Flavor Vortex 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋