MY boyfriend and I love eachother alot but I have never gotten him jealous and I want to go to his friends house this weekend and Have some fun and dance and I want to teach him how to grind and his friend knows so until I can teach him I want to just grind with his friend... Do you think he will get jelaous.... and I am really good friends with the guy too, and if me and my boyfriend ever broke up he would defineitly become my next boyfriend....so What do you think?
2007-12-05 03:37:07 · 35 answers · asked by scarred_soul_princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you need to think about this very carefully,Are you even sure you actually wana be with your bf? Cause you really sholuldnt be thinkin bout you guys splittin up and defo shouldnt be grinding with his mate. Maybe you need to think about if you really wana be with this guy. Good luck!
2007-12-05 03:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Giggles! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be so wrong of you, and make you a bit sleazy! You shouldnt do that. If you love your boyfriend so much like you say you do, i dont think you should go off grinding up on other guys. But, if thats what you wanna do, then you must not love your boyfriend. And it also seems as if you have some kind of attraction to the boyfriend's friend. Especially if you say he'd be ur next boyfriend.
2007-12-05 03:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful_flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealously comes in all shapes and sizes. You'd be better off not doing things that might create some. If you have arguments later, the grinding will only be ammo for him down the road.
Have some fun dancing with your boyfriend. He'll catch on.
2007-12-05 03:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Buddy Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Special things should be reserved for your boyfriend alone.
What do I think?
I think you want to cheat on your boyfriend and are trying to make up an excuse to do so. You sound like you're already planning for this guy to become your next boyfriend.
Would you like your current boyfriend to be planning how to grind with another girl in front of you or even behind your back? You'd probably consider it a slap in the face. If you do it, it's a slap in the face of your boyfriend as it tells him you don't value him.
If you're not going to be faithful to a guy, don't be his girlfriend. Guys want a girl who's faithful, not planning on how to do special things or cheat on them with another male friend.
2007-12-05 03:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he would get jealous and it sounds like you have alterior motives. It's like you are trying to make this sound innocent by stating you are just friends and that his girlfriend knows, but you also state that he could possibly be your next boyfriend. Sounds like you are heading that way already. Do what you want, but I think it's wrong until you have broken up with who you are dating now and the other guys is not dating anyone.
2007-12-05 03:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved him as much as you say you do, you wouldn't even consider grinding with someone else, let alone someone you say would be your next boyfriend if you and the current boyfriend you love so much broke up.
2007-12-05 03:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by takemymulligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay close with your b/f so he can trust u i wudnt advise it but itz sort of a win win sittuation as u sed the guy u want 2 grind with cud b ur next b/f. Hnestly though wudnt advise it
2007-12-05 03:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You end your post stating if you were to break up with your boyfriend, his friend would become your next boyfriend, which means you have given this a though, which means you definetly fancy his friend. Knowing this, no, it is not right, you like his friend and you are acting out on that. Don't lie to yourself, you're pursuing something.
2007-12-05 03:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have already made up your mind.
...and if me and my boyfriend ever broke up he would definitely become my next boyfriend...
No its not ok to grind with your boyfriends best friend.
You should do right by your current boyfriend and break up if you really want to be with this guy. It would not be right if your boyfriend did this to you would it?
2007-12-05 03:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by helponeanother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is what is Grind? then next question is why would you want to make your boyfriend jealous and involve his best friend bring animosity between them? My answer would be NO it is not ok
2007-12-05 03:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Bishop Rashad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋