My boyfriend and I were having sex when he shouted out his ex girlfriend's name. what now?

Question

I don't know. we were just there in bed, doing it and then he came and shouted out "Emma!"
I feel used and ill. What do I do? I'm so embarrassed.

Answer 1

shout out 5 different guys names next time.

Answer 2

Don't girl I did the same thing to my boyfriend only this wasn't my ex boyfriends name I call out it was my boss at the time and I don't know if he didn't hear me or what but I had never been with my boss before. I don't know why I said it. It just happened that doesn't mean that he still likes her maybe he thought about her that day, or saw her, or he could have even talked to her, maybe they had an argument or something. I don't think you should break up with him because of it.

Answer 3

For me,that would be grounds for some time apart.I think you should ask him if he still has feelings for his ex.He'll probably say no and he'll probably tell you that he didn't mean to say her name.He'll also say that he don't know why he said it.I know your feelings are hurt.The next time yall have sex,call out your ex bf name and then he'll see how it feels.Better yet, the next time just lay there and look like your really not into it(if at all possible)

Answer 4

Oohhh..not a good thing. How long has she been is ex girlfriend? This doesn't sound good. Sounds like they might possibly still be seeing each other.

Besides that...gross...I never liked it when a guy shouted out my name during sex. Make all the noise you like but don't call my name. Ick.

Answer 5

I know you are probably shocked and hurt but it wasn't intentional and I'm sure he is much more upset and embarrassed by it than you are. I called my husband my ex boyfriends name in bed and I really was not even thinking of my ex but it was more habit. I felt awful and my hubby was pissed but it wasn't intentional. Don't take it too personally and build a bridge.

Answer 6

I would definitely be upset if my husband ever yelled out an ex's name. Talk to him about it and tell him how upset you are and see if he apologizes and seems genuine about it and if it ever happens again, break up with him. There is no point in trying to be with someone that thinks about other people while having sex with you.

Answer 7

well probably he is not totally removing his ex deep inside,or once in a while it happens to all of us its like a mental lapse,especially if your with a relationship that lasted quite a few years,and you've just started another one that happens,but you should not be alarmed,give him a chance but make sure you tell him that you are offended when your doing it with him and he is shouting someone elses name just be clear

Answer 8

It sucks but it could have been an honest mistake. I don't know about you but I've sometimes fantasized about someone else while having sex so I'd let this one time thing go. If it happens again, I'd definitely dump him because he's still hung up on her.

Answer 9

Just pinch his balls real hard and ask him about Emma.

Might've been an honest mistake, he may be cheating. You'd be amazed what a guy will tell you while you're pinching his nuts. Coerce the truth out of him.

A bit barbaric, perhaps, but effective.

Answer 10

firstly, he should be the one who's embarrassed, not you.

secondly, let it go. I know there are a lot of people that wouldn't take that, chopping balls off and kicking a**, etc, but he probably didn't mean it. it was probably an honest mistake, and it happens often. you certainly deserve an apology though.

if he won't apologize (when asked to), then you dump him.