but when someone who is unattractive comes along they are quick to diss them
2007-12-05 03:23:58 · 16 answers · asked by mrellis08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cuz women lie. They do make claims that men are mean for looking at looks whereas they do the same as well. It's called the bystander.
2007-12-05 03:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mike L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's not all together true. Not all women do that. I married the man of MY dreams. To me he is more than physically attractive. I am not mean to anyone for physical reasons. Only shallow, cold-hearted people do that. I don't believe all women are shallow and cold-hearted.
Don't generalize next time.
Um, if nobody is drawn to ugly..the way the poster above so eloquently stated it..then why are there people out there attracted to others that YOU may not find attractive??? Geez.
2007-12-05 11:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women like to give the benift of the doubt!
A personality of a guy can quickly over-ride any physical flaws he may have.
you know the saying, "you shouldnt judge a book by its cover"
Well this applies here.
We all do it, even though sometimes we shouldnt and later discover that whats inside the book is actually amazing, despite the cover.
2007-12-05 11:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyones first impression is looks...
But past that-- if you have a bad personality or no personality,
you're back out the door....
unattractive people have to have something to overcome first impressions...
And remember " Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder"
2007-12-05 11:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how they came along. "Not that much into looks" doesn't mean that looks do not matter at all. It just means they don't matter as much. If they came along looking for a romantic relationship then it's going to matter more because we still want someone that we're physically attracted to. Is that too much to ask for?
2007-12-05 11:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is an automatic learned response. Men do the same thing. When one takes the time to get to know the person, perceptions change, looks don't matter.
2007-12-05 11:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are into looks just as much as men. I look at personality first though. But I will not date an ugly man! lol!
2007-12-05 11:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by bluegirl87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people feel the need to be superior over others. It gives them a false sense of hope for their meaningless lives.
2007-12-05 11:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Know It All 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are just ignorant like that, and I'm not saying all of them. There are some who actually think the inside counts.
2007-12-05 11:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Crayon Eater 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We're not! But that doesn't mean a guy can look like a complete scrub and it's acceptable!!! A guy has to take care of himself!!
2007-12-05 11:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋