Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

2007-11-26 05:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom forces my sister and me to be vegetarians and she makes us go to YOGA classes and my sister is only 9 years old and I'm 15! She wont let me be friends with this one girl cause her parent's drive a Hummer.... Plus she grounded me cause I threw my empty water bottle in the garbage can instead of the recycle bin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What a freak! What should I do?

2007-11-26 05:56:33 · 5 answers · asked by Robby 1 in Family

2007-11-26 05:55:56 · 5 answers · asked by mira e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy being rather too big for a woman as far as se* goes?

Or does the girl just get accustomed to him?

2007-11-26 05:55:08 · 26 answers · asked by Tet 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I had a really bad week with fighting, (see my other question for details)

he said he'd come over tonight to get his stuff, but i think its too soon. He still has this, "hes right about ending things, we're totally done, no hope for the future" attitude and im determined to make this work I wrote him this really long heart felt letter, but what would you do? im not giving up hope yet, and after everything we've been thorough i can't honestly understand why he's acting the way that he is. When is a good time to sit down and talk to him, and what are some things i can/should do before I lose him for good...

2007-11-26 05:55:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and theres a girl who I have fancied for a while n was going to ask her out.
Me and my mates went out one night to park n she got pretty drunk n started cuddling one of my mates on the floor who was also drunk. Next day I was talkin to her n teasin her bout it and she said she couldn't remember doing it. I also talked to my mate n he said he remembered it a bit.
At school they talk a bit more but aren't goin out with eachother.
Next week we all go to a party n I think they were a bit drunk but knew what they were doing and were sitting together huggin almost whole night. And next day they remember it but still aren't going out with eachother, but I think they will end up dating.
>.?.What should I do, as I still have a huge crush on her but I don't think I can ask her out at the moment.?.<

2007-11-26 05:53:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently living in Kentucky, but in June of 2008 I will be moving to St. Charles, Missouri to go to college. I will be staying there at my friends house for $80.00 a month (includes food and everything else) My parents are paying for my college tuition, but I have to pay for the cost of moving there, a car to drive there, car insurance, gas, etc. the problem is, i currently have no money. I have a job where I make, and can save $250.00 a month. As of right this minute, if i save every cent of that I'll have $1,500.00. It will cost me $500.00 just to move there, plus the first months rent. I'll be left with $920.00 and theres no way I will be able to buy a car with that amount of money. Is there anywhere I can get help with money? Are there scholarships out there that can be used for a vehicle. I'll have to have one to get to colege and a job. Please help me out because my parents wont help me with this.

2007-11-26 05:53:05 · 3 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family

all the couples look alike!? I mean, its creepy - they could be cross-gender twins in most cases. Has anyone else noticed this?

2007-11-26 05:51:39 · 22 answers · asked by dhdaddy2003 4 in Singles & Dating

WHY would this dude I just recently met lie and tell me he is going to wear a condom when we decide to have sex.. then he doesn't AND he cums inside of me.. TWICE!.


I met him about 2 weeks ago.. just had sex twice this morning.. I told him a few days ago that I am not on B/C of any kind and he says "well then i'd for sure wear a condom if we have sex".. well.. he didn't!.. when he got done.. I said.. "omg omg omg" and he is all "what?" I said.. "uhhh.. you came inside of me!". he is all "yeah.. but don't worry cause its very hard for me to get a girl pregnant because when I was younger I got hit down there with a baseball bat".. He got an ex of his pregnanat when he was 19! (he is 24 now). (she had a miscarriage)


He keeps telling me how he really wants to be in a relationship with a girl.. because he has been single for 10 months and is lonely and sick of it.

SO.. what I think that he is thinking is.. he WANTS to get me pregnant so I have to be in his life.

2007-11-26 05:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This happened almost two years ago, so keep that in mind.
I've done a LOT of thinking about it, and have come to my own conclusions, but need some opinions/answers.

My ex-girlfriend, let's call her Jane, met me while I was still broken up over being dumped by a previous girlfriend one year prior.
I turned 'Jane' down at first, but soon learned to love her - I *think*. In retrospect, I never did love her in the same way as my first gf (the one previous).

'Jane' put up with my constant depression over cra**y life events, my ex, school woes, me not having any money, etc. I never was into having sex as much as she was either, and I wasn't very secure in myself as a person, though she kept saying she was fine with that. I wasn't confident in the whole relationship thing anyways, being a little gun-shy over the previous one and that horrible breakup.

She kept saying she loved me more than anything...and I think she really did... :-(

2007-11-26 05:49:27 · 34 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5 in Singles & Dating

He had zero sperm count within 6 weeks after his vasectomy, which was over 12 years ago. He's been married to her for 5 years, she never got pregnant. She recently had an affair, he caught her & left her. She's now claiming to be 3 months pregnant & that it's his child. He's stupid enough to believe this child is actually his, simply because she says it is. I'm trying to convince him he's crazy for taking her back & that he's going to end up paying child support on a child that isn't his (she has a history of getting pregnant, leaving the baby's father, & moving on to the next one). Would a zero sperm count NOW prove that it CANT be his, or does that still leave room for "maybe" - she tells him a zero count now doesn't mean 1 didn't slip through. I can't find any info on the effectiveness of vasectomies after such a long time period...everything I look up talks about surgical reversals after a long time period.

2007-11-26 05:49:11 · 34 answers · asked by RCgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 05:47:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Last time I was at their house I became ill with bronchitis, and I asked repeatedly to be taken to a doctor but they refused, saying I was 'fine' (they live out in the middle of nowhere, so I was 'stuck' at their home). They refused me a bed, I had to sleep on the floor and my mother in law refused to feed me claiming that she 'knew what was best for me'. I had my cell phone with me but couldn't get reception.
They dropped me off at the airport when my visit ended, and I was so sick and pale that I passed out and the lady at the airport snack bar called 911. I was taken to the hospital, my bronchitis had gone untreated for too long and turned into a bad case of pneumonia.
I cannot bring myself to be around my MIL. I have not been to their home since this incident. My husband and I have not seen his parents since this happened (4 years ago) but now he thinks it's 'gone too far' and wants us to smooth things over with them. What do I do to get over this? Should I get over this?

2007-11-26 05:47:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told him and I went out and bought him Christmas gifts. Well on Christmas he accused me of cheating on him and said I didn't deserve to get anything from him. I didn't cheat on him and I don't know why his attitude changed so quick. I was able to take some of the things back but not all. When my birthday and valentines day had passed at the end of February we started talking again and he said he would make it up to me but he never did. He is still being nice to me telling me how much he loves me. Christmas is coming around again. Should I buy him gifts this year also should I be be preparing my heart for him to flip out on me again? I love him but part of me is still holding back because I'm afraid he'll hurt me again.

2007-11-26 05:47:00 · 26 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to join something that the sole purpose is for single ppl
thats desperate ppl ...i to ld my counselor that i had a hard time meeting ppl because i was real shy and now im not really involved int he college i go to (jr college ugh) so he said maybe u can join a single aduld ministry not sole purpose for meeting girls but meet guy friends as wel...is this offensive? (im not sure if he said single adult min. but he did say something about a ministry and)

2007-11-26 05:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. So my boyfriend (16) and I (14) have been dating for 6 months now. As you know Christmas is coming just around the corner and I'm going shopping for him tomorrow I do beleive. I'm so confused about what to get him. I know all that he likes and most of you will probably say think about his interest. But still that doesn't help. What would you get your boyfriend?! I really don't want a corny gift. I want it to be something he loves and wants to keep out forever. You know what I mean?! But it can't be really really really pricey. I'm not made of money. I don't even have a job. I'm just saving up what I do have as I go.Help! GOOD ADVICE PLEASE! Thankies! = )

2007-11-26 05:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by C C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 05:41:35 · 13 answers · asked by paul j 1 in Singles & Dating

But is it diet time?

2007-11-26 05:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and my ex have been broken up for a couple of months and i was the one to brake up with him and that was beacuse he had made it clear that the was getting tired of me well he didnt say it but he would spend more time with his friends then he would with me but any way we stoped talkin and i do still like him and i see him around all the time because we live in the same aptment complex. well yeah like i said we stoped talking and when we saw eachother in the aptments we did even speak to each other he justed looked at me. then a couple mouths later when he was with his new girlfriend he started saying hi to me. and i was like ok whatever you know then after he broke up with her i get a friend request on myspace and its him so i aprove it and he mesged me say hi and we should kick it and stuff like that then i said okay so we kicked one day and he kissed me and now im confused beacuse i thought he just wanted to be friends and i dont know if he still likes me. somebody help!!!!!

2007-11-26 05:38:26 · 9 answers · asked by giggles 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to know what are things to write and email that would make a guy turned on by you?

2007-11-26 05:37:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I am new to a school and it is already coming on December. I have "friends" but those are the kinds that just wave to you in the halls. Also, everyone just thinks I am.. hyper.. I hate it. I have never cried so much in 3 months. And... like all the groups have "closed up" and so I never get to know people.

2007-11-26 05:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by CG 1 in Friends

expect people to read it all? Won't a simple question or answer suffice?

2007-11-26 05:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by janjaley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a forty six years, &married for 22 years. Recently I have found that my husband been unfaithful to me with my best friend. This is been going on since April. He gets irritated for any reason, and argues with me, not to do anything around the house. So few times I confronted him with my anger, and he denied there was anything between both of them. Finally, he mentioned to me she been calling him and talking to him about their family issues and all the negative things about her husband. (Which I never new it before)I noticed that they been on the phone for average 5-6 hours a day. His argument is that they never had any sexual relation, just communications over the phone and email. His excuse is as long as they didn't have any sexual relation, they are not doing anything wrong. Then, why they both hide from their spouses. She came to a point that she could not live one day without hearing his voice. Even, when we went to vacation for a week, they both used to call each othe

2007-11-26 05:33:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like playing sax as I am a musician, like building stuff, dont like to go out much tho. I cant dance or sing, nor will I try to out of respect for mankind. I like go kart racing and movies. Im not in clubs, radio, tv or pop culture in general.

Problem is Im 26 goin on 40. I act like an old man, in my interest only though. I'd like to find someone my age fairly attractive, but nothing anyone does in my age group interests me. I really dont want to have to start hitting on older chicks. I need help

2007-11-26 05:33:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This would be whether or not they actually know the guy. Please indicate if you are a man or woman.

2007-11-26 05:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by Jack01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She can't afford to buy it herself, so she has asked my boyfriend to pay for half of it, and it could be a gift from both of them. I have already bought him an xbox 360 for Christmas, but she wants to keep one at her house as well. I think it was inappropiate for her to ask my boyfriend to pay for half of it, when she could have asked her own boyfriend. He bends over backwards to do everything she asks him, but i dont want him to do this. What should I do? Do you think he should help her out by paying for half of it?

2007-11-26 05:31:54 · 26 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I were recently married ( Sept. 1). We have not sent our pictures to family yet. We are planning on a photo card for our Holiday card this year, with a wedding photo on it. We agree that that would be a good idea.

But, my husband wants the caption to read

" Merry 'Married' Christmas Love, The Smiths "

It is kindda cute. But is it so cute that it is annoying?

Just looking for opinions.

2007-11-26 05:30:49 · 16 answers · asked by lovespring 4 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend now for nearly a year and I love him to bits. We very nearly had a split on fri as he said he needed his space and freedom yet he still claims he loves me. I feel he gets loads of space as i am out working all day and he is out at night. I don't want to leave him as it would kill me to anyone any suggestions to how to make him change a bit, stay in a bit more with me or take me out and spend more time with me and is there a way I could make this happen without all the fighting and arguing about it which is really whats making us drift apart

2007-11-26 05:27:23 · 6 answers · asked by laveryc51 1 in Singles & Dating

I am forty six years, and married for 22 years. Recently I have found that my husband been unfaithful to me with my best friend. This is been going on since April. He gets irritated for any reason, and argues with me, not to do anything around the house. So few times I confronted him with my anger, and he denied there was anything between both of them. Finally, he mentioned to me she been calling him and talking to him about their family issues and all the negative things about her husband. (Which I never new it before)I noticed that they been on the phone for average 5-6 hours a day. His argument is that they never had any sexual relation, just communications over the phone and email. His excuse is as long as they didn't have any sexual relation, they are not doing anything wrong. Then, why they both hide from their spouses. She came to a point that she could not live one day without hearing his voice. Even, when we went to vacation for a week, they both used to call each other

2007-11-26 05:26:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love somebody and he even love me but we cann't marry eachother bcz he is from middle class bcz he is my cousin friends and my cousin don't want us to marry plz help me that what should we do if i will not marry we both will die bcz we r in madly love

2007-11-26 05:26:31 · 12 answers · asked by liza d 1 in Marriage & Divorce