i love somebody and he even love me but we cann't marry eachother bcz he is from middle class bcz he is my cousin friends and my cousin don't want us to marry plz help me that what should we do if i will not marry we both will die bcz we r in madly love
2007-11-26 05:26:31 · 12 answers · asked by liza d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is your life. Live it.
Good luck.
2007-11-26 05:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a different matter but marriage is different so for marry you have to know the person should be good in finance and healthy and wise , becoz love comes to end after marry and real life starts where money is the first factor for better future and smooth life
2007-11-26 05:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have money you can afford education, & with education one gets the basics of life,culture, manners, ethics....with all this one earns a position in society..........so money is important to have a life without kinks.
as far your relationship is concerned it is very much your cup of tea so how u want it ? with whom u wish to share with ? what u you wish to do with is totally personal, so ur cousion got nothing to do with it.
1).if your bf is capable of taking responsibility, & wish to take
2). if he loves you more then u do.
3). if he too is dertermined to spend his whole life with you
4). if u think u'll be happy with him, a good life which every women thinks off after getting married
5).are u mentally prepared to be with him, have you calculated all the pros & cones........
6). is he your soul mate.........
if answers to all the questions are positive then go ahead,
if some kind of hitch comes in then work on it & then decide as this is your life.
2007-11-26 05:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by the catalyst 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really serious about your cousin friend,get ready to act on it.don't complain or blaim any one .first ask your self 'i am ready for marriage with whole package,,,,,,,,?than talk to your parents with out fear or doubt,,,"i like and love him and i want marry him,if you give permission i am very happy,,,,even you don't i want to marry him and i will,,,that's all.you can't than you just like him lot you don't love him. it's your life not your cousin,,,,silly girl,,,, prove it,you love him.
2007-11-28 09:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by Smita P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always listen to Heart. Heart gives u right choice.
2007-11-26 07:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was your parents then i would of thought of it diff. but if its your cousin to hell with him ! just listen to your heart and do what you feel is right but be sure that you are really veryyy sure you love and he love you too then just take a step furthur and just tell your cousin how you feel right there and then then if he disagrees just tell your decision to him! gooood luuck!
2007-11-26 07:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why care abt ur cousin? what's wrong w/ a middle class man? why should you listen? it's ur life!!! not ur cousin's...think independently
2007-11-26 05:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by tsf_michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course..its ya life..doesnt mean that u can elope or something..u ve the freedom..but u cant misuse it..talk 2 mom n dad..and do what makes them happy..they know how to take a decision better than u do...
coz dats wat i did..it did work finally..always stand by ya parents..
2007-11-26 05:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DATE and enjoy a bunch of new guys..You do not sound ready for marriage...
2007-11-26 05:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dog Rescuer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u got the right to say your opionion and live ur way.
Run away and live happilly ever after.
2007-11-26 05:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bazarragachaa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋