I'm 16 and theres a girl who I have fancied for a while n was going to ask her out.
Me and my mates went out one night to park n she got pretty drunk n started cuddling one of my mates on the floor who was also drunk. Next day I was talkin to her n teasin her bout it and she said she couldn't remember doing it. I also talked to my mate n he said he remembered it a bit.
At school they talk a bit more but aren't goin out with eachother.
Next week we all go to a party n I think they were a bit drunk but knew what they were doing and were sitting together huggin almost whole night. And next day they remember it but still aren't going out with eachother, but I think they will end up dating.
>.?.What should I do, as I still have a huge crush on her but I don't think I can ask her out at the moment.?.<
2007-11-26 05:53:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think she is worth your time if she is going to get drunk all the time. If I were a guy, I'd be afraid to trust her, even if you were together. Maybe wait a while, or tell you friend that you've like this girl for a long time. Or tell the girl straight up, how you feel for her and she how she reacts. Hope this helps!
2007-11-26 05:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would still go for it truthfully. It seems like their relatinship is coming only under the influence of alcohol. If they real,ly liked each other, they'd try to see each other and make an effort to start something sober. I doubt they will end up dating, and the only reason they might have talked more, was to stop rumours, awkwardness, and get to know each other a bit better now that they both know they would and will hook up with each other.
Consider things from their perspective if you can. Not everyone who hooks up with people, really wants a relationshp with them, and chances are that becuse this is a drunken thing, they're probably just enjoying the time being single.. You wont know unless you try though... Goodluck!
2007-11-26 05:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u should ask her out either. or at all. it seems like she is not a respectable person, if she gets drunk, and can't remember what she did. i suggest u get over it. and forget about her. besides if ur so-call friends slep with her, what does that say about her, especially if they both can't remeber. u seem like a nice guy, don't waste ur time...
good luck
2007-11-26 07:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont ask her out just yet. But you do need to do something that will catch her attention. dont do anything crazy but just enough to make her look at you. then when she starts lookin more your way thats when you talk and play around with her. let her know that you are a fun person to be around.
2007-11-26 06:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Momma D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that would be a good idea. Just be her friend and see what happens between her and your mate and if it doesn't work out between them you'll have your opportunity.
2007-11-26 05:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make a move before they do go out together. Let her know you are interested but be careful, she sounds like trouble.
2007-11-26 05:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her....Maybe keep that girl you like and that one mate away from each other! Just have it just you and her...and have a normal confersation and tell her how you feel and see if she likes you or your mate.
2007-11-26 06:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ops! You should find another girl but before that ask her who she loves!!?! GOOD LUCK
2007-11-26 05:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by dr. love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats your loss. Or gain, not to sure.
2007-11-26 06:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋