Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

My girl might call from work, say hi, then we can be silent for like 10 minutes humming beats and stuff. I can say "I guess Ill talk to you later!" she wont let me hang up, she'll find something to talk about.

So we wind up silent for an hour. As men, we call, say what we have to say, then we gone.

2007-11-26 07:15:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Care to share you experiences? Thanks.

2007-11-26 07:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive noticed that a majority of rich and powerful people break the law all the time and get away with it is that how to get rich.
you have got to cheat to get ahead

2007-11-26 07:15:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can there be such a thing as too many coincidences? In terms of a spouse cheating and things that have happened at the same time as the affair, but not related to the affair, even though it looks as though it were. Sorry if I confused any of you. Thanks for your help.

2007-11-26 07:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by PNJ T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yes

i think T.I. is the best rapper alive and he is sexy...

hes the best no one can F*** with him..

i love him.. and he will

get out of jail..

2007-11-26 07:14:06 · 2 answers · asked by shannon c 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean why do they feel one way one moment, and another the next? Please help me!!!!?

2007-11-26 07:13:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This past Saturday was my cousin's weeding, she is not a closed cousin and her parents doesn't have good relatiosnhip with my parents BUT still all the family was going to be there.. So we went (hubby, I & 3 kids) We had just gotten there & my hubby told me something that offended me & got me really mad.SO I decide to leave the party cuz I was uncomfortable. After a big discussion over what he said..I decide to go back alone with my kids but he hide the keys & couldn't go back. Now I have a regret, yes it was his fault, but mine too. I should of stay at the party have fun and then discuss this back home. But I really got mad and offended that I knew I wasn't going to have any fun at all.. Time can't go back & now I regret leaving the party where my family was and had fun except us. I'm still mad with my husband but I still have this regret what can I do.I really feel bad & mad everyone was there except us.. Any advices on what to do or how to release these regret? Thanks in advance

2007-11-26 07:11:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I find that I am attracted to women that are not my race. My folks don't like that. Is it right for me to "look else where"?

2007-11-26 07:11:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 07:07:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

answer from experoence

2007-11-26 07:07:26 · 5 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a lil problem and idk what to do

my husband talks to this friend of his and they are pretty good friends but i dont like her and she dont like me for certain reasons...i told my husband about how i felt and im sure she has done the same about me but my problem is he spends all his time talking to her and he also hides there conversation from me and when i ask what they are talking about its always nothing so i let it go....but everytime im on the computer talking he right over my shoulder reading everything i say and when i tell him to stop he says im talking about him and gets very upset and im not and btw the only people i talk online is to my 2 sisters...idk how i should feel...i dont like this girl...she talks about me behind my back and ot my husbands face and he dosnt do anything and its starting to hurt my feeling and he knows it 2...any advice


we have also been married 4 months

2007-11-26 07:07:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It was happening for 15 minutes. Is this someone who has other woman or am I just stepping in fire which is gonna burn me.

2007-11-26 07:05:31 · 7 answers · asked by Curious Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't work. At the moment he's going to school and says he can't manage to do both. I on the other hand work full time, go to school full time and volunteer about 10 hours a week. I have to beg him to do anything around the house. At first I was ok with being the only one working but I'm resentful now and he still won't get a job. It's not like I make alot of money, we barely get by. It would be different if we were young kids but he's 42! Along with other issues I've been thinking about getting a divorce. I just don't see a point in being married anymore. I'm the bread winner, I manage all the house details, and sex stopped months ago. I wonder if I'm just staying married to have someone to hug me and be there when I get home. I'm a mess.

2007-11-26 07:03:35 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you had to do it all again, would you marry for love or money?

Which way would you choose if you were rich?

Which would you choose if you were a poor single parent just barely making it by?

2007-11-26 07:03:19 · 21 answers · asked by babydoll32 2 in Marriage & Divorce

fights I am not allowed to talk to him. If I choose to say something, I am threatened with a divorce. What should I do? Keep in mind I am not allowed to talk to him until he deems it is time and he allows me to talk to him. This behavior has lasted up to two months or longer.

2007-11-26 07:02:08 · 38 answers · asked by shannie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband hardly pays any attention to me, so I pertty much got use to it, so i figured that he might be having some one else on his mind, we have sex maybe once or twice out of a month and to tell you the truth I dont think I can handle that..Is he out of love? Or am I?

2007-11-26 07:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by zadie 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in L.A., and will be getting married on January 19, 2008.

The church I want doesn't have the popular "3 p.m." time slot open. It's either 1:00 p.m. or 5:00 p.m. Personally I think 1:00 might be a little early--and have too much of a time gap for those waiting to attend the reception. But 5:00 is a bit dark....with no time for pictures and stuff, because we would be rushing off to the reception.

Keep in mind we have a lot of elderly and out of towners attending. If you were one of them, which would you prefer, 1:00 p.m. or 5:00 p.m.?

2007-11-26 07:00:46 · 21 answers · asked by Benji's Mommy 6 in Weddings

I used to let my wife spend all my pay check, but I'm no longer in the mood to let her do that. Now my fair share in our joint account for bills and house hold expense, but the rest I put in my personaly bank account. I just don't feel like I should have to give it up to her just because she wants it. Is this a bad thing or should I be forced to give it up?

2007-11-26 07:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend has a diease and she thinks this may be part of the diease

2007-11-26 06:59:47 · 3 answers · asked by smithsha100smth 1 in Friends

what form does spanking take in your relationship?

2007-11-26 06:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She had offshore accounts. Was it a nest egg for rainy days or something more? What is your take?

2007-11-26 06:58:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Marriage & Divorce

They've been married 2 years. I never want to be an interfering mother-in-law, but I hate to see his marriage end because of his attitude. He told me that since he works hard 12 hours a day to support them, that he should be able to have things the way he wants them. In other words, be the boss. Since they were married, his wife who I a real sweet girl, has lost most of her sight from a congenital eye disease and cannot drive or see to read, etc. Instead of being kinder to her, he is making her feel guilty that she cannot use her degree in business admin. He is extremely strict with the children, the boy likes to read fantasy books which my son thinks will influence him badly so he has forbidden them. He is always laying down "his" laws and being very controlling. He is very stubborn and has always been that way. He will not talk things out in a rational way. His way has to be right. Should I just leave this alone and not interfere? Or should I try to think of a way to help

2007-11-26 06:55:23 · 49 answers · asked by Lean on Me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Maybe taken from personal experience?

(my friend and me were wondering about the best way to get that type of point across--- like what to say or do?--- only for a guy who'd deserve to be threatened like that, of course)

2007-11-26 06:55:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lacy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I lie to my brother(my parents are out of town) that I didnt get suspended when I did. I erased the message but wont e know when I dont go to school tomorrow? How do I keep it from him?(seriously if he finds out I am in so much trouble)

2007-11-26 06:53:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-26 06:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I grew up with an alcoholic father that was physcially & Emotionally abusive beyond belief. At 16 I was thrown out of our "home" and lived in the back seat of a '68 Nove for 2 years. I know what you are feeling, I know the feeling of that empty place and that missing piece...how you feel when you see a great parent and wonder why didn't I get that!!! I know your fear that you'll pass this down.

I want you to know that is a lie..if you choose not to do that. I am happily married and have rasied 3 beauitful children who knew nothing but love & acceptance everyday of their lives.

Here's the key: Give them what we didn't get...give them love, give them lavish love, extravagant love, EXACTLY what we longed for and never recieved. I promise you it will be returned 1000X over. Give when your heart say's to hold back...never withold love, oceans of love!!!

It's making a choice ...you know what they need, you feel this deep inside, don't allow this to rob you anymore

blessings......

2007-11-26 06:42:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 06:37:01 · 13 answers · asked by shannie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He lies about small things and never keeps his promises. Should I just face the fact that I don't trust him and go on or get divorced? I've caught him red handed, just last night in fact he lied about still smoking. He supposedly stopped a year ago and I've smelled smoke before but he always swore he wasn't and last night at 3am when he thought i was sleeping i woke up and caught him. He thinks it's no big deal and wants to know how long i'll be mad. It's not what he lies about as much the fact that he does it and apologizes and thinks that solves everything. I've tried talking to him about it but it doesn't make a difference. I'm at my ropes end.

2007-11-26 06:33:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

cuz, im a nice girl at heart, but noticed sometimes when i treat guys like crap they just come crawling back for more
guys dont mind a beautiful girl beating them up?... and one time i decided it was wrong treating him like crap then after i stopped beating his spirit down he left me...

2007-11-26 06:32:00 · 17 answers · asked by Whole 4 in Singles & Dating

I didn't meet my husband until I was 35 and I thought I was making the right decision marrying him because he is a great guy and treats me well. I liked him immediately as a person and while there was no lust at first it did grow within the first few months. However, now we've been together 4 years (married 3) and the lust has dissappeared so we don't have great sex to hold us together. We still have sex, but I don't really have much of a sex drive anymore. We also don't have much in common I noticed, and while he's still a nice guy who treats me well and cares for me, I find that I'm unhappy with our differences and angry at his attempts to change me to be more like him. I DON'T WANT TO DIVORCE and don't think divorce is a solution that should be used when you make a vow that should be forever. I want to work it out and want serious advice only. I need to know how to be satisfied with my life as it is, or what I can do to build up my love and sex drive for him? Anyone ever been there?

2007-11-26 06:31:44 · 19 answers · asked by stripedbook 5 in Marriage & Divorce