My husband hardly pays any attention to me, so I pertty much got use to it, so i figured that he might be having some one else on his mind, we have sex maybe once or twice out of a month and to tell you the truth I dont think I can handle that..Is he out of love? Or am I?
2007-11-26 07:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by zadie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys need to change it up so you can have a better marriage. Try doing things you guys use to do together before marriage. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-11-26 07:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older you get the less you get. Once or twice a month I can live with that. Or once or twice a day is even better. Once in 5 years becomes a real problem for me.
2007-11-26 07:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is cheeting on oyu with someone elseor he has simply fall out of love with you. To have sex only twice per month is harse for a couple. he hardly pay any attention to .You need to sit and talked with him find out what went wrong and how you can correct it, girl you need to pay attention to your man,if they dont get it at home them they will look somewhere else. A good man pay attention to his woman and never ever cheat
2007-11-26 07:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly kl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called being comfortable. Why are you so quick to think someone doesn't love you if you aren't the center of their world? Do you give your husband attention? Do you try to initiate sex more? Do you do anything to show him how you feel? Or do you just sit and complain about what he doesn't do?
2007-11-26 07:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys just fell in a rut. Don't assume he doesn't love you. Sometimes people get caught up with other things and we forget what is important to us. Try to talk to him about your feelings.
2007-11-26 07:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by greatgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bored with each other, stopped trying,water becomes stagnant if it does not move, emotions go invard, talk about it and see if you can rekindel the flames
2007-11-26 07:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Loretta M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go look in the mirror, if you need to get fit, then do so. If he comes home and you were naked, what would he do?
Tease him some.....
Get a new hair style, some sexy clothes, red lip stick.
2007-11-26 07:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is partly a decision. Try counseling and start going to church together.
2007-11-26 07:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by LadyD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how it feels and trust me going out and finding someone else is NOT an option, especially if you have kids. I would recommend that u meditate. i know this sounds stupid but it might help.
Please read this article and do as suggested ..
http://www.mindpowernews.com/CreateYourOwnReality.htm
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2007-11-26 07:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by MICHAEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love first then seek love
2007-11-26 07:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by john.n544 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋