Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

i have a bad habit of keeping my true feelings bottled up. anger, pain, guilt... it's nothing. Sometimes it hurts. But I'm just too afraid to talk about all of it. How can I let go?

2007-11-26 08:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by fierce charm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

MOH , has been giving troubles ever since she was asked to be a MOH ... she has a bit of a jelouse streak ....always a bridesmaid never a bride thing....so much so that other people see it and make comments. she has said such things to me as .don't order that food i don't like it, or your cake is OK , Oh you should pay for open bar ( when I explained the cost she said " well i guess i wont be drinking" when i showed her the flowers she would carry wich is a ball of roses she took the and told she was going to carry them down the asial like a bride. and gave me and example. then took it by the strap it hangs from and swung it around her head .. she told me I stole her flowers for the wedding she doesn't even have a boyfriend

with that being said I have been patient not said a word
Now she is pregnate with a random guy ( one night stand) she will now be 6.5 mth preggy by the time my wedding happens the bridesmaid dresses are strapless chiffon and short. believe it or not

2007-11-26 08:53:27 · 10 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

If so, why?

If not... ummm... no need to explain yourself, really.

2007-11-26 08:51:31 · 84 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 in Singles & Dating

How many breakups does it take for a guy 2 stop taking u serious and wants to stop trying to work things out?

2007-11-26 08:50:37 · 13 answers · asked by Tootsie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl I've liked for ages since we worked together and she is attracted to me even though now I've moved to another city, we are in contact now and then. At that time she invited me on a trip but I couldn't go due to short of cash & I was dating another girl. Then recently I went to see her & we hit it off + physically but not complete sex. Weve never had a chat about how we feel (even thoughs he told me on chat before that she was fallin for me but had taken a drink). Now we chat every other wk, usually I start it, but she always responds & its v friendly. She has huge work load so even tho I've invited her to visit..its difficult (also she has to visit her sister at next vacation )so I told her if she wants to see me , I can go to her after the nxt vacn & she said that's cool. last words from her were stay in touch..do you think she is interested in me in a romantic way? I mean we've been physical before..do I have a chance?

2007-11-26 08:50:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is up with this guy?!?! I cant take it anymore! in homeroom our desks are in groups and i sit next to girls i dont ever talk to and then in front of us there is just these empty desks. Then theres this group my crush is in with my two good friends. In study hall i am totaly alone cuz the people i sit next to are gone doing sdomething else. IM like so alone. and then today my teacher put on christmas music and he was like signing to it and all my friends were laughin but after he would do it he would always look at me! He also started talking and laughing REALLY loud. my crush and i are pretty good friends too so we do flirt alot in like every other classAnd i have DEF gotten signs that he probly likes me. But my main Q here is this. Is he trying to make me jelous?

2007-11-26 08:49:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wanted to go anywhere with him, he liked vacations, the beach and the ocean, i hated them all. i was a homebody, like shopping and playing on computer and doing stuff with my daughter and going to family functions. he didn't like any of that. i yelled at him a lot. now he left me. do you think he had a good reason to leave me? he said i'm still beautiful though

2007-11-26 08:48:54 · 27 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Marriage & Divorce

sleep,some of yous out there has said that is rape ,what i want to know if it is rape ,we have been with each other for 14 yrs so how can it be rape,

2007-11-26 08:48:02 · 51 answers · asked by dazzagirlfriend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I know that i just asked in my other question about my guy friend. but today, my other friend who i have a crush on (does that make me a whore?), asked me to be his girlfriend. he's really sweet and i like him a lot, plus it says something about his courage to get up the guts to ask me out. but the thing is, he is a pothead. im not kidding, you may think oh theyre just kids they probably dont even know what pot is. i do, and he gets high every day. i told him i would think ab out it, becuase(and i told him this) i dont know if i want to get the feeling of being hurt and let down every time we have to cancel going somewhere because he is to drugged up to be taken out in public. he looked hurt and said that he wants to stop but all his friends do it and he feels like a pansy if he says no. i told him that it would have to be his decision. cus who wants to deal with that? did i do the right thing? was i too nasty too him? should i call him? what should i do?

2007-11-26 08:48:01 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs. Unlucky 3 in Singles & Dating

what is a good retaliation for a guy playfully twisting my nipple?

2007-11-26 08:46:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, so my parents were initially the ones going to pay for our wedding, so I was going to have the wording for the invite be something like this:
Mr and Mrs. _____ _______
request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter
_________ __________
to
_________ __________
Son of Mr and Mrs _________ ________

But now, his parents have decided to chip in the wedding also, not a lot, not even half, but like 1/4th the price. So do I still word it that way or would i have to put now that both parents are inviting? I feel like if I dont put his parents name, it will seem like they didnt pay a thing, but I also dont want it to seem like our parents are both inviting and splitting the cost!

2007-11-26 08:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-26 08:45:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,im 14 and i babysit my 2 little brothers(ages7 and 3) and my little sister(age 1 1/2) from 3:00 to 10:00 while my moms at work,i clean the living room,and cook for them how much a week should i get for allowence??

2007-11-26 08:44:07 · 39 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Family

My boyfriend is being a P e r v, but he's my 1st real boyfriend, and he is really hot and I've been crushing on him since 1st grade and im in high school (i know its a long time...) I dont want to get rid of him, hes not a jerk, he is just saying "wrong" things... so what should I do??

2007-11-26 08:43:25 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Singles & Dating

My mom is elderly. I still do suffer greatly from all the family abuses--they threw me away, they don't care if I'm dead or alive for decades now. My family is in abject denial--they transmit all their "good news", never acknowledging horrible abuses--I wished for a family but I was the throw-away. I cannot bear to weather the final blow which will be to omit me from any inheritance justified by fake-self-righteousness; in short my mom is crazy to perpetrate and condone such abuses, she just "didn't like (me)"--as if that's OK, she took away my foundation of self-respect. I can either do something or nothing, if only to shatter their comfort that I am defeated--for what they did some should be in jail. Do I just have to cope with their final gloat?

2007-11-26 08:42:23 · 3 answers · asked by SQD 2 in Family

can someone give me some tips on the girl on top position? Thanks.

2007-11-26 08:41:08 · 35 answers · asked by kristy 1 in Singles & Dating

I like flowers....I'd like to have a whole garden of flowers....

2007-11-26 08:41:01 · 20 answers · asked by Tx Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't think I'm emo or anything but I was crying last night. My mom was thowing a HUGE fit. She was messing up the house and throwing stuff at my dad and she looked like she was gonna kill him. She was crying a little and tellign my dad about soem stuff from the past. I wasn't born yet. She was telling him how he alwasy left me at home at night wen my mom was at work the whole day. He goes to foxwoods. And how he promised not to drink beer ever again but he's drinking more now. But my dad has some really really good points too. Like more good ones than bad. but...he promised ALOT of things to my mom and has been lying to her for years. My mom is like tearing apart. She doenst do drugs or alchohal so it drives her nuts bout my dad. He doesnt smoke tho. My mom was hitting my dad like crazy. I was scared and felt so lost. my mom asks my every year about moving way from him. i always say no and she always accepts my answer.but i feel like im killin her cuz of my choice. she begs me. help??

2007-11-26 08:39:45 · 4 answers · asked by the carefree asian ! 3 in Family

I need to know alabout it hellp me

2007-11-26 08:39:09 · 1 answers · asked by Lisa S 1 in Friends

the worst thing is she has told her friends and family and now im in a pickle we have only been together 1 mnth shes not even pregnant

2007-11-26 08:37:28 · 53 answers · asked by mark p 1 in Weddings

You know it's true. Most just seem to quit trying, and it let's skip the "because their husband quit trying first" nonsense.

2007-11-26 08:37:17 · 24 answers · asked by Fred S - AM Cappo Di Tutti Capi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy when visiting friends at another college, we had a connection, hung out. Exchanged numbers, the whole deal. I didn't think anything would come of it. But he's actually kept in contact for over a month.

He texts me sometimes randomly during the day and we've talked online. But usually, I'll get a bunch of texts from him late at night when he's out at the bar. Or he'll call me on his way back after he says he's been drinking.

We've talked a few times sober-- I called him and we had a good conversation. Afterwards, he sent a text saying that he loved the random call and to do it anytime. But he seems to only call ME when it's late or after he's had a few to drink..

He's mentioned coming back to visit so we can hang out. My friends know him and say he's a really sweet guy but he's kind of shy...so maybe that's it? But part of me wonders why only when he's drinking or after 1 am...?

2007-11-26 08:36:30 · 10 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

he works full time and i go to school full time and am unable to get a good paying job that wants to work around my schedule! he keeps kind of scaring me with the fact that i dont have a job and no money and custody of her, he just keeps throwing up in my face how much time each of us will have her... i dont want to lose my daughter becasue im trying to go to school and better myself and becasue i cant get a great paying job at the moment!!! does anyone know what the laws about this stuff are??CONFUSED?!?! SCARED!!!??

2007-11-26 08:36:20 · 3 answers · asked by youknow!!!!!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my husband to death, and I have NEVER cheated and dont ever plan too, but he is away in Boston and I live in Cali. I am so frustrated sexually,we used to do it like 5 times a day and lately woman have been turning me on and trying to flirt hardcore, what do I do???
Only mature responses please!!!!

2007-11-26 08:35:06 · 16 answers · asked by SalsWyf07 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and what age would u say that a person should consider moving out of the parental home...

2007-11-26 08:34:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love!! What a thing. We;ve been dating for 5 months. We haven't exchanged the sacred words yet....but i know its there. I'm in love with her, more than anything. She says things like; "i wish i could be next to all the time", i just want to be close to you, i love how you look at me. is she feeling the same as me, but hasnt said it yet? ladies help me out.

2007-11-26 08:34:47 · 3 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes or No?Explain why or why not.
Will you marry person who has seizures fits.Its an arranged marriage & no,im not shallow.

2007-11-26 08:34:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my bf for almost 4 months now, and we are both completely in love with each other. He asked me about a month ago about moving in together. We finally planned it out and will move in together in June 2008, when both our rent contracts are over. He is definately sure he wants to live with me and I am too. Hes always at my place or I am always at his, so we kinda are already living together. We both currently live an hour and a half away. We planned out where we want to live, which will be near my school, cuz i still have 1.5 years left to graduate as an engineer. We have great communications skills between us. Im sure we will both do fine living together as he says so too. He wants to make sure we can live together fine before getting married. What are your guy's opinion on this ? Also my parents will flip out and will not agree with me doing this, they are catholic, but when would be a good time to tell them i wont be going back home anymore since i will live with my bf?

2007-11-26 08:33:45 · 3 answers · asked by sg 1 in Singles & Dating

not that i don't

2007-11-26 08:31:04 · 35 answers · asked by Keep your head high. :) 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged since Jan 1 , 07 but we keep flip flopping on a date. I am still in college and he is in the real world but we live together. We somehow cant come up with a suitable date. We can't agree on who pays for what either as I am a broke college student and he is working full time.

2007-11-26 08:30:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings