would u be put of if u met a guy and he still lived with his mom at 29?

Question

and what age would u say that a person should consider moving out of the parental home...

spelling mistake - off not of......some smarty pants and pick up on that!!

Answer 1

In some countries were people live very long you are actually looked as odd if you do not live with your parents well into your thirties.. Hey also you dont know what situation people are in, I mean we all know in America that nobody wants to live with there parents at 29, so if they are they probably don't have any other choice.

Answer 2

I tried dating a man who was/is 35 going on 36 and still living at home. MAJOR, MAJOR, MAJOR negative. At first I looked past it but as time moved on nothing changed, and there was no sign of it. I asked him why are you still with living with your parents? Answer was why not? His job was paid under the table, and not steady. Needless to say I moved on.

If you can't be out on your own by 25, at the latest, then what is the deal. Sure sometimes people are sick, or taking care of parents, or something, BUT nowadays too many men are milking off of their parents.

I don't know, my opinion is age 29 - you should be, and moreso want to be out on your own, not with your parents. Good luck. Go with your gut feeling.

Answer 3

Hi ,The age really depends.It depends on why the guy would be living with his mom.I knew a guy and still do that lived with his and his mom was getting on in age.His dad was deceased & he helped take care of his.There may be some though that for whatever reasons are living with theirs..It's up to the individual maturity and if you're going out with someone that age or considering it ,it's up to you as to what you make of it after doing so.It does take usually a while to get to really know someone unless they are "noticeably dense"........catch my drift?.....Some can be young but be mature enough to be on their on,look at people going to college.Only thing is usually there the parents are helping with money.

Answer 4

I don't get put off if I meet a woman who's still living with her parents at 29.

I live with my family now because I lived on my own for 6 years, and due to the changing job market it wasn't wise to keep up the living arrangement, so I moved back in so I could save up more money.

It all depends on the situation. How do you think someone else would feel if they were in a relationship with you, and you were still living with your parents? If the situation doesn't interfere with the relationship, why care?

Growing up sometimes means you have to know when to step out, and when to step back in again.

Answer 5

YES!
I mean its not totally unheard of, but to me independance is a huge componant that builds character. I moved out at 15 (not the age I'd recommend, but for me a necessity) - He's been leaching off his parents for over a decade more than that! But someone who's lived that sheltered a life is probably not going to have enough life experience to enrich mine. That is, however, using the box... Everyone's different.

Answer 6

It depends on why he is there if he has a good job and is saving money by living with his parents then it would not bother me, especially if I had my own place. Now if he was a 29 year old moocher I would cut off all ties.

Answer 7

no i wouldnt be put off as long as he wasnt intending to stay there for ever, some men move back in with there parents after a live in relationship has gone wrong , and the woman kept the house and the man has no where else to go

Answer 8

Wow it depends if he is living with his mother or his mother is living with him and what the circumstances may be but the age should be at 23 so the person can have a new life and feel comfortable.

Answer 9

Depends on the circumstances. If he's living with his mom because she's old and needs full time care, that's one thing. But if he's just freeloading, pays no rent, or doesn't have a job, I'd be put off, sure.

Answer 10

my mum lives with me but it is my own house i think it is time for you to move out mum can't do your washing and cleaning forever time to grow up and be aman i lived on my own for a long time butmy mum became ill so she moved in with me i have a bigish house so has her own space and i have mine it works out great but i am planning on moving in with my fiancee in the next 6 months.but as for what you said i would not date a man over 35 who was living at home but your only 29 but i must say one thing move out and start to have a life you can't take women back for a night of love and your mum is there.