Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

been dating a guy for over a month. we have known each other years. he is funny, beautiful an good hearted. i have been hurt bad before, so i took a lot of time out, but i recognise these feelings im gettin when im with him, as feelings that im fallin in love..

is it too soon?
or when will i know if what i feel is real.....

2007-11-26 01:50:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-26 01:49:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jack01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 01:44:52 · 25 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to marry in the early 20s i am 23

2007-11-26 01:44:42 · 13 answers · asked by Aiko 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 01:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by secret 2 in Singles & Dating

my mother in law currently staying in our house for 3 weeks cause she's having problems with her husband. my husband and i feel SORRY FOR HER that's why we invited her. BUT, all she does is critisizing our house from the smallest dust to even unplug our fridge (with our food in it!!) without even asking, says she's cleaning. we're also trying to get her to the hair salon because she looks soooo dulll, so that she feels good and feel better about herself. after getting RUDELY REJECTED (i don't want it!! she said publicly), she finally agreed to do it, only to say "my hair looks good but what's the use i have a sad sad heart". pretty much, she brings NEGATIVE ENERGY to our house and all she does is complain about our house. what to doooo?? i'm getting crazy

2007-11-26 01:42:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband, and his ex have been divorced for 16 years. She has lupus, and occassionally is hospitalized. Each time this happens, he goes to visit her everyday that she is in the hospital. I told him that is disrespectful to me, he is not obligated to her, the marriage has been over for a long time. I don't mind if he visited her once, but he acts as if it's something he's suppose to do.

2007-11-26 01:41:20 · 19 answers · asked by sis-t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When making an important decision is it better to follow your head or heart, in matters such as your future, children, divorce?

2007-11-26 01:41:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

horses ***? is that normal of a grandfather to call their grandchild? What's it mean?

2007-11-26 01:35:58 · 24 answers · asked by kf 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i left my wife for my girlfriend and i also caught my wife cheating on me with my friend. the divorce has been a bitter long and still happening action.....1 child 7yr old boy. i want custody and she always pawns him off to her parents....the problem......the girlfriend is sick of my constant whining and complaining and she wants out. the whining and complaining is due to the lengthy divorce. we are awesome together and i love her with all my heart, but the high stress of my job and being a fire chief (volunteer for this)also stresses it because of a small town thing. i do not want to lose my girlfriend because of the whining and complaining of myself...please help....

2007-11-26 01:30:12 · 42 answers · asked by prison guard 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 01:29:07 · 11 answers · asked by alyssa v 1 in Singles & Dating

i am watching the people's court right now..

a women went to a shelter after being in an abusive relationship... the shelter was paying for her apartment, but she moved out , and before she did her uncle lived in the apt for 2 months.

Judge Millan wouldnt even let her SPEAK!! she was practically screaming at her. i was mortified, she was just yelling and not letting her talk or ask the questions judge millan was ASKING HER!! it was absurd!!!

does anyone think judge millan is completely RUDE?

2007-11-26 01:27:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am only 17 years old.But only 16 when we got married.My birthday in my birthcerticate has been changed to make me 21yrs.old.We got married in Philippines and the marriage has been bless from my parents.My husband is a korean.Is my marriage valid in philippines even though we changed my age in my birthcertificate?

2007-11-26 01:24:21 · 23 answers · asked by Mrs.Ahn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We had been together 6.5 years before we married this past April. In August he told me he was no longer in love with me anymore. I admit we were in a rut, but who isn't after 6.5-7 years of being together. He did not want counseling. Now that I've asked him to go through with the divorce for closure, he decides that he isn''t sure. The thought of losing me forever kills him and thinks that he still loves and misses me. Deep down i want it to work, he doesn't know what he wants, but i know he needs help emotionally. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster that i just want to get off of. He deals with depression and has this "grass is always greener on the other side" attitude.

2007-11-26 01:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now what on earth will happen ???plz any answers will help be kind plz~

2007-11-26 01:21:26 · 5 answers · asked by ladysosureone 6 in Marriage & Divorce

First off: Don't give me that 'that's taboo!' and 'incest!' stuff cuz I full well know the implications of what I'm thinking of and that's what's bothering me to begin with. I know it's wrong but I can't help it. All signs point my feelings out to be true and damnit it's way too confusing.

The problem right now is how to approach this since ignoring it does nothing to help. I'm not looking for a relationship here, just a way to do this right and as much as possible not hurt any involved parties, myself included. Should I consult someone about this? Should I tell her? I'm only 17 you know so I'm still a little inexperienced with all this. Please help me out.

2007-11-26 01:21:04 · 22 answers · asked by Emperor P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When is it safe to sleep with my wife after giving birth??

Thanks

2007-11-26 01:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We see the signs and yet we marry that person anyway and then realize that we should have ended the relationship in the first week. We spend years with someone who lies to us and mistreat us. Why do we stay????

2007-11-26 01:18:01 · 22 answers · asked by OceanBlue0910 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i knew my bf for 2 years now and when we decided to get married his mother refused and we cant do it untill she says ok :-s he's tryin' to persuade her in vein she thinks that im not suitable for him b cuz she saw us kissin' once :-s i mean WTF tell me what to do,anything except leavin him

2007-11-26 01:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since the possibility of pregnancy isn't an issue.

2007-11-26 01:16:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can early marriage induce a sense of responsibility amongst young kids and motivate them to get on their own?

2007-11-26 01:12:33 · 25 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife finally admitted to haveing an affair w/ a married man before we were together. She could no longer deny the trail of evidence I discovered. I accept her explanation that she was in a lonely vulnerable period in her life (she was) and he made her feel good. He is extremely wealthy and seduced her to the highest degree. I am both bothered and grateful that their romance ended when I entered the picture but that they remained friends. I can't get past the fact that they shared this secret past and didn't see the harm that could come by not ending their relationship completely. I have met him several times (w/o his wife) and I feel like I have been betrayed. I know they would have both realized that it was an insult to me to sit down for dinner and have me be in the dark about their history. My wife and I are trying to work it out, I still love her dearly. I can't help but want to put a scare into this man for the disrespect he has shown me.

2007-11-26 01:12:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 01:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i used to go out with this guy and we broke up after 5 months of dating. and we both decided to stay friend there were few times we have problem and i want to walk away but then i regret it. And at the end he always ask me if i stil want to hang out with him.and i stay.
I really feel i can see where this is going now. i feel like at least i can decide where this friendship going . and i really hope for the better. I used to fear that he is going to give up on me but it seems that he won't give up on me.
do u think i can actually take the direction to where i want this friendship going?

2007-11-26 01:09:12 · 1 answers · asked by k_syofyan 1 in Singles & Dating

Going through menopause when married or single?

2007-11-26 01:07:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean we all know marriage can be the pits - but does the shift in hormones, moodiness, and physical changes (facial hair and other bodily changes) put a strain on relationships?

2007-11-26 01:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we love each other but I can't tell her to go against her family. she is confused. we are different religion

2007-11-26 01:02:13 · 2 answers · asked by myroses4u1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 00:57:10 · 43 answers · asked by Girlie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 00:56:48 · 15 answers · asked by Bibi B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 00:56:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce