been dating a guy for over a month. we have known each other years. he is funny, beautiful an good hearted. i have been hurt bad before, so i took a lot of time out, but i recognise these feelings im gettin when im with him, as feelings that im fallin in love..
is it too soon?
or when will i know if what i feel is real.....
2007-11-26 01:50:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Being out of the loop for as long as you have could make it a bit harder for you to recognize it. Let me assure you, you are in love. Express your feelings. Both good AND bad, make sure he understands you don't want to be hurt again but that you are willing to put yourself out there for him. Good luck.
2007-11-26 01:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a wonder to me that true love, is felt. It is a feeling in your gut area. Most of the times it makes us sad and melancholy when true love is the issue we are facing. Some of us are romantically challenged, especially if you've felt jaded by love in the past. Once bitten, we tend to over dramatize any new attempts at new found love.
We sabotage our own destiny this way. It's like love lives on, never forgotten and most likely to be compared to other relationships, for a long time, if not forever. I hope this is what ever you want it to be. It is good you were friends to start off with because, when a relationship starts off hot it can only cool down. This way you guys can build from a strong foundation. You say you think you are falling in love because of the way it feels, from experience this feeling can intrude in your life, like sleep deprivation, eating disorders, wandering thoughts, unable to focus on duties. There are times when the feeling is a good one but usually love hurts. I hope it is returned to you in the same manner of which you've described it to be for you. May God be present in all your choices and make this human tragedy bearable for you in planet school. Good luck and God bless us all...
2007-11-26 02:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know. You should talk about it because he may feel the same way. I would give it a little more time and see if you are getting the same vibe from him, you dont want to scare him away by saying I Love you after only a couple months, Good Luck
2007-11-26 01:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by boxergirl16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too soon to fall in love because you never know when it will hit you. You know when it hits you. You will know when he is the one. I remember people saying this that you will know and couldn't understand it till it happens to you. And although you many have intense feelings give it time because it might just be LUST and not love.....love takes time and history. Real love that is.
2007-11-26 02:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that it is love and can stays for rest of your life in your judgement of less 2months.
The time isn't the measurement here but is he the real one as in,he take you and respect you as your are.Can you take his habit...sorry,did you know his habit?(the bad habit) Don't rush fall in love cause the chances of get fallen out very high.Get in love and feel that bad habits of his and then let him and yourself be more sure to race in the marriage of thousands winding roads together.
The sure thing is,tell him you are not ready for sex before marriage and if he respect you at it and never ever run to another bed,and he will tell you he love you for sure.
2007-11-26 02:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation as you and I can feel myself falling in love too but I havent said it to him yet as I know its way too early and it would freak him out!! but if you think he might feel the same way go ahead and say it but if your not sure then wait til he says it first. you cant rush love, give it time!!!
2007-11-26 01:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by dillydream07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait lady, ya can't possibly know if this is true love or a fling yet, just wait get to know him better and before ya get married or anything try living with him first, oh by the way make sure this is for real and don't put yourself out thier to get hurt again it sucks.
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2007-11-26 01:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by starcraft961 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about taking chances. You can not win if you don't try. yes, you might get hurt but then again you might get the Love of your life.
2007-11-26 01:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too soon -
Only regret what you have not done yet
not what has passed.
Life is right now, and only now.
Give it a try.
2007-11-26 01:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by nadia n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. There isn't a timeframe on love. Could be that you are falling in love with him.
2007-11-26 01:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋