Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

I know its weird and gross but Im REALLY in love with my cousin.We liked each other since half our lives.btw (his father and my mother are related only by mother).We did have sex before but I did not get pregnant. Everyone keeps telling me how if i get pregnant my baby is going to be retarted or have 5 arms and just keep saying a whole bunch of dumb s*** i dont wanna hear. I dont understand if it is true love should it really matter. Ive tried other people but they just come out to be everything I dont want its like my true soulmate was right there all along and I needed time to realize that.But anyway I need advice true facts and encouragement because this is really effecting my life and Im so hurt over it.PLZ HELP!!!! Also if you know the percentage of having a disabled child because your cousins plz tell thnx a bunch!

2007-11-26 02:30:18 · 17 answers · asked by K0ol-Aid 1 in Singles & Dating

announced he'll be off on a round the world trip from January 28th - our wedding is in March. He's been my fiancé's best friend for years, they went to uni together...and he told me that he was going away not my fiance!! My fiance will be devasted. What can I say to encourage him??

2007-11-26 02:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs Stevo 2 in Weddings

the father of my grandaughter did not want to know her from birth, now after 6yrs he wants a dna test, np, but we know these r going to come back positive but does this give him the rights to just walk into her life when she is settled and happy. she was very premature at birh and nearly died and that is when she needed him most, my daughter does not want him in her life but he does pay maintanence through the csa and i think his name is on the birth certificate. he says he still wants nothing to do with her he just wants to be sure she is his, but im not so sure this is causing alot of stress in our family and my grandaughter does not know who her father is and she doesnt ask at the moment and my daughter is willing to tell her when she is ready or when she asks. thanks for any replies to this we r grateful.....

2007-11-26 02:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by missiongirl1 1 in Family

This weekend my husband had some projects to do around the house and I tried to help him when he needed me. He got frustrated with the project and snapped at me. So I just went and found something to do to stay out of his way. Then when the day was over and the kids were in bed, I made an flirty overture to him and he turned me down flat. He was too focused on this project still. So my feelings were hurt, and I tried to talk to him but he got all angry, told me to go **** myself and "what did I want from him" and "You're acting just like your mother." So the next day I am a little gun shy - not knowing how to act or what to say. I helped my son with his science project and my husband wouldn't leave me alone the whole time (didn't help but kept interrupting me where he hadn't spoke to me most of the day). I was kinda quiet the rest of the night and he was overly attentive then. I am tired of being called needy when I just want a little affection and cussed out for it. Advice?

2007-11-26 02:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Isn't it interesting I posted a question "What are 4 reasons a husband leaves a wife?" and most women given replies such as "new woman, no more sex, etc things that would look men bad (though some women posted more things like infidelity lack of love and in a similiar question "What are 4 reasons a wife leaves a husband?" some women replied by saying infidelity new woman things to make the man look bad

isn't that just interesting how a majority of women have a double standard?

2007-11-26 02:16:45 · 13 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there REALLY such a fact as age is nothing but a number? At what point should age be considered as a factor, or is it all a moot point?

2007-11-26 02:15:48 · 6 answers · asked by raydeeo_face 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, is he grateful or does he just expect it as his right?

2007-11-26 02:12:16 · 4 answers · asked by tiggertoo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

text 2 301-613-7426 youll get a laugh

2007-11-26 02:10:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 02:09:41 · 5 answers · asked by doktorangbaliw 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years we got a son thats 1 n a nother 1 on the way ever since we found out were having another baby hes been weiard and dnt really like to give me a kiss or cuddle wat should i do?

2007-11-26 02:09:19 · 16 answers · asked by SARAH 2 in Singles & Dating

I have went out with this guy for about a month. Then he said that we should'nt go out till we are "ready". That day that he broke up with me was our one month, :-[[[....But that same day he started going out with this other girl. I still text this guy every day. I have asked him if he still loves me like he always said he did, and he said yes, that he still loves me. But hes with this other girl. When I text him I will say wat are you doing and he will say talking to my wife. :-[[[[[

I dont know what to do......HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-11-26 02:08:09 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley R 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres a Cafe i go to, Every night almost with my friend. and the one guy who works there seems to always b looking at me... usually we sit at the back i draw or do homework and my friend does wateva on her laptop, thing is loads of times wenim drawing and look up i c him looking around the corner staring at me, and weneva i order somin like my friend orders hot choc 1 day but wen i wen to order he asked if i wanted cream and choc on top and wtv.... he always says bye when we leave... wats up???

2007-11-26 02:07:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am driving to Shreveport, La in January to meet a guy I have been chatting with for 2 months. He is a soldier in Iraq and will be back in the states in January. We are meeting in Shreveport for a 3 day weekend. I am driving 9 hours and will have my own money to be able to stay in a seperate room if need be. I am just asking for advice on precautions. Has anyone ever done this before? Did it work out?

2007-11-26 02:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me: He drank too much...

2007-11-26 02:07:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u like to chat with unknown people from different part of the world?

2007-11-26 02:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cant orgasm from straight oral sex with no assistance....how common is this?

2007-11-26 02:05:20 · 1 answers · asked by john b 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 02:04:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so its a long way till summer but me and my friends were talking about going somewhere together cause its our lasy yr of school and before we all head off to uni to spend sometime together and stuff anyway i can only go one place since we only got a month off this summer with all the exams and well eather i go with my frnds or i go visit my bf who lives on the second half of the world i want to see him and hes been tellin me how he wants to see me too ...my friend got mad and didnt understand why i was choosing to go see him instead of the trip i wanna go with my friends but i really wanna see him too...do u think im wrong to follow what my heart needs ??? considering i dont see him that much and i need it but i dunno how to explain it to my friends they just get mad saying im being stupid... my bf would come but cuz of the studies he cant so i can but yeah

2007-11-26 02:03:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I asked she was like I tried to delete him. WTF. Then she said his profile was private and she was curious. Bullshit, I looked and it wasnt private. I dont play this crap. Ive been hit on and I dont cover up or lie.

2007-11-26 02:03:20 · 5 answers · asked by David M 1 in Singles & Dating

After 4 years, my boyfriend lives two lives between myself and his 2 teen daughters. When they are with him, I am not allowed to even show my face. If I call, he cuts me short. Granted, their mother is a freak and 2 years ago he spent $30,000 in legal fees to regain partial custody when she convinced the girls to stop visiting him. Because of all that, he fears that their mother's hate for me will convince the girls to shun him again if I'm ever around. Although he insists that he loves me, I think that this is baloney and an excuse to not have to further commit to me. When I ask him to talk to his children about me, he says that they say that they are happy without me around and that he will not force them to change their minds. This angers me, as I know that not too far in the future, these kids are going to have boyfriends of their own, yet because of them I am not able to have a normal relationship with MY boyfriend. Except for this, we are great together. I need some help

2007-11-26 02:01:55 · 18 answers · asked by Cricket 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend for two years that work right now in taiwan confessed to me that he had a ralationship with another girl on the time that he never call me or even sent a siingle message to me,,,i dont want break up with him ,,,the only reason why he confessed to me is that he felt gulity cause even though were apart im still here for him waiting and loving me despite of our long distance relationship,,

2007-11-26 02:01:28 · 6 answers · asked by ghie_84 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently 27weeks pregnant and seem to being having on going arguements and bad feeling with my mother. I am in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend and am very settled. My mother has always been someone who doesn't advise she tells. Since i've been pregnant she has gotten worse. Me & my BF wanted to be the onlypeople there at the birth and the scans she was put out by this as she was there with my sister through everything (her only grandchild til now) but even to the tiny details like nappys I've bought the wrong ones in her eyes because ther not the same as my sister had. Also when she asks my BF his opinion about anything even down to what new carpet were getting in our own house if she doesn't like what we've chosen and he disagrees with her she takes that as hes being cheeky to her and speaking out of turn why ask if you don't want an honest answer. Am i being touchy or is this a common problem with grandparents with the second grandchild constantly compared

2007-11-26 01:58:34 · 34 answers · asked by dora 2 in Family

2007-11-26 01:58:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 01:57:27 · 28 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl says she found the number and decided to call to see how my husband was doing. She left info that she was married with two kids. My mother-in-law told my husband this in front of me. Do you think her motives were innocent (the mother in law)? My husband can't think of who it could be. I'm not worried, but thought it was wierd that she would share such info with us. My mom would never do this. What do you think?

2007-11-26 01:56:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

mwah

2007-11-26 01:56:00 · 22 answers · asked by mike M 1 in Singles & Dating

I think a mans expander is very important to women I could be wrong Correct me if im am wrong
If i am right tell me why she needs this ditch digging rhytmic baby maker

2007-11-26 01:54:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neice married to a boy who was not liked by her mother (my sister). In spite of several request and pray to avoid this intercast marriage by her mother, instead of convincing her mother, she married and called her husband to house. This caused an argument in between her and her mother. Ultimately her mother (my sister ) became so depresed that she hanged herself to death. How should we behave with her and her husband now? We are bit confused. My Neice has no regret for this and says she is economically independendent so she can take any deceision she likes.

2007-11-26 01:54:53 · 23 answers · asked by Pramod 3 in Family

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me about 8 mths ago saying that he felt unworthy & afraid because he did not achieve the things that he promised me. It hurt, but I am moving on. During the summer he left voicemails about how much he missed me but did not try to come back. I did not answer them. Then he later stated that he wanted to work things out but then pulled back saying that he had caused too much pain. He did not feel that his new acting career and trying to fix the relationship would work together. Again, I moved on.

Well he just got laid off and wrote me email to say he believes this is his payback for ruining what we had. I did not respond. On Thanksgiving day he sends another email and states he wants to be "clear". He doesn't know why he "digressed" (?) and sent the lay off email and he is glad I stuck to my guns by not responding. I, again, have not responded to the latest email.

I am tired of the games. Can someone tell me what is happening?

2007-11-26 01:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by Exotica 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad dont know that I am dating this guy that really love me and want to be with me for the rest of his life, I tried to tell him but I just cant come out and say it and I want my dad to know cause I am a daddys girl. I love my dad but when it comes to me dating its like he will not be there for me like he is now he is my heart and my boyfriend is my heart too but I dont know what to say to my dad what should I do about my dad and the crazy thing is my boyfriend is white and I am black help anyone.

2007-11-26 01:50:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating