me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years we got a son thats 1 n a nother 1 on the way ever since we found out were having another baby hes been weiard and dnt really like to give me a kiss or cuddle wat should i do?
2007-11-26 02:09:19 · 16 answers · asked by SARAH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's probably annoyed with your mood swings, (mine is).. go to him an ask for a cuddle, most people to take a cuddle or a kiss you should never have to ask... he could think that you dont want him to come near you... (my fella thought that too, eh, hello we BOTH have needs).. lol.
jus take his hand step in front of him... (back to him).. place his hand on your stomach turn your head an kiss him....
he could be frightened of hurtin the baby if he comes too close.. or squeezes!!
2007-11-26 02:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by sylv_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Sarah,
I am concerned about you. It is not your mistake to have one kid and another one by the same perosn, both of you have done it together. Now for whatever reason he is not showing the affection towards you, I think he is unreasonable. Please dont let it affect you my dear. You need to remain calm and happy in this state. Try to find something that keeps you happy and go through this ordeal.
In the meanwhile, you need to also be open and upfront with your BF. Tell him you are quite upset that he is not cuddling up with you or kissing you these days, tell him also that you get affected with this and ask him what could be the reason for this. Dont blame him or accuse him and dont let this talk degrade into a fight between you two. I am sure you can handle it pretty well. Try to understand whether there is something you need to correct or you could improve upon or whether this is just temporary because probably he might be worried about morning sicknesses or its effects. Only if you ask you will know, right? First ask, try to find and then decide what to do. But, please have some support for yourself. And take care..
2007-11-26 10:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just in shock?
2 kids is alot for blokes to handle lol. Talk to him and ask hi why he is being like this though i understand why u wud find it hard to have this chat. my bloke often acts like this and each time i bring up the chat it ends up in a big fight.
Just talk to him nicely and if anything goes anywhwre near a fight just back off a bit, point out the arguement is getting heated and cool down, then when the situation is cool again try talking.
Im sure he has a perfectly reasonable explanation for it. It is big news, maybe he is just struggling to come to terms with it.
Good luck hun!
Love Tinks xoxox
2007-11-26 10:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by *T*I*N*K*E*R*B*E*L*L* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop getting pregnant & be prepared to be a single Mom /w 2 kids - thats what you HAVE to do!!!
- Then what you NEED to do is learn how to spell & become educated!!!!
- It's not a crime if your BF just doesnt want to have another kid with YOU, right NOW, or maybe ever - try talking to him within the next 6-7months or when you two are setting up the nursery would also work:)
2007-11-26 10:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Redrum 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing you can do is confront him about it ask him why is he giving you cold shoulder treatment. ask him if he has doubts about the baby being his or weather he wants another baby. maybe there's a reasonable explanation. your not going to find that out unless you sit him down for a chat. tell him you need to know cause it's upsetting you.
2007-11-26 22:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just he way most men are,you should find out if he is cheating on you. or maybe he is a bit bored because you are spending more time with the kids. try and exctie up your love life, like getting some new launderette
2007-11-26 10:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by the bright side of life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels the pressure of having another child on the way. having to support a family can kinda be stressful specialy if the kids were not planned. talk to him tell him how you feel.
2007-11-26 10:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Boggen1210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really weird. I m sure he is thinking if thats his own baby? talk to him about it and u can find out whats his problem
2007-11-26 10:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Niel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and find out what is on his mind. Keep those communications highways up.
2007-11-26 10:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by jmc24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though he's scared. Maybe he doesn't feel that he can manage another child financially. You need to talk to him.
2007-11-26 11:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by proud walker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋