Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

Like why does society give them the mid-life crisis & he's just a typical teenage boy reasons for screwing up?They seem to have an excuse for every stage of life.What about us woman?Why what is acceptable from men not acceptable for women?

2007-11-26 05:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by Sadie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend and I are going to get married by court because her parents are real stricked and will say we are not ready so they can not find out we are getting married untill we have a wedding in a church.

2007-11-26 05:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by lakerssoftball92005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I realize that at this time of the year, family meetings can
be a little tough. Especially, if you and your family
members, are at odd, with each other. Fussing, fighting,
and carrying on, with the usual drama. It can be a bit
stressful around the holidays, and all. And even more so,
with married couples, who no longer share, that deep,
fire driven passion, they had a kids..... So, I was wondering,
how was the family dinner, at Thanksgiving ? It wasn't
strained was it. Come on now, be honest. Or was it
a meeting for the ages ? Best answer wins. *

2007-11-26 05:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm getting personalized MMs for our wedding favors. The container I've bought for the MMs are going to hold alot more MMs then what I had thought, so I'm looking for another candy that would taste good with MMs, be around the same size as MMs, and look okay with silver and lilac MMs!!
All suggestions are appreciated!
Thank you in advance!! :)

2007-11-26 05:24:23 · 14 answers · asked by britt 4 in Weddings

Well okay,i've been going out with this guy for a long time.on the 28 it will be six months.and ugh he means everything to me.i have to say i think god made him just for me.He's my first real LOVE and ummm more stuff lol.but you makes me feel like he really does love me.and about 2 weeks ago we were laying on this bed falling asleep and he looked into my eyes and told me he really wants to be with me forever.that no one in the world can make him happy like me.but my friends and famliy say that we won't that hes just my first real love.what do you think?

2007-11-26 05:22:46 · 13 answers · asked by Renee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 05:22:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey ok my ex boyfriend justin davis just broke up with me a few weeks ago and i miss him alot. He is a really nice guy and i don't know what went wrong the first month was beutiful he was crazy abou tme but then one day he stoped hanging out with me he always use to give my hugs in the hallways but he stoped and he stoped calling like he use to then like 2 months latter he broke up with me with out telling me he had his friends tell me well i don't know if he wanted them to but they did and his myspace changed no mor eme and he broke up with me before i had the chance to tell him how much i was in love with him what do i do ???? HELP

2007-11-26 05:22:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have tan lines on my back from the summer, and my wedding dress is backless.

how can i cover the tan lines? should i get a spray tan?

2007-11-26 05:22:12 · 8 answers · asked by Loon-A-TiK 4 in Weddings

just asking

2007-11-26 05:19:03 · 1 answers · asked by bubblez 1 in Singles & Dating

My older sister is engaged! I'm so happy for her & he is a great guy. We are diff as night & day tho. She didn't want to have bridesmaids, which was fine by me. Well now she changed her mind & has asked a friend to be her MOH. That didn't bother me--but now she has asked my cousin's child to be a flower girl (who we only see at Christmas) & another cousin to do the guest book. I am very upset at this. I told my mom that asking cousins & cousins once removed to be in the wedding instead of your only sister is an extreme slight & I am very hurt.

I was married about 2 years ago & my sister was my bridesmaid--but due to her nature, I didn't have her as my MOH. On average she is 3 hours later to every big event & has missed graduations, Christmases, and most birthdays. She turned it around & was actually a great help to me. Since then she's straightened her life around--but I know she felt slighted. Is this merely to get back at me?

Or is my mom right to say it's No Big Deal??

2007-11-26 05:17:40 · 18 answers · asked by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 in Weddings

Tomorrow im planing on doing it w/my boyfriend for the first time (im 18yrs)I m really excited but ....What should I expect?Should I shave down there?How long will it last ?Will it Hurt?
Need tips please and thanx in advance!

2007-11-26 05:16:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

4 the past 6 months I been messing around with this guy we do everything couples do, but we never say we in a relationship I like really like him, and he like me I see him all the time. Should I just take my time with him casue he did tell the reason in don't want 2 be in a relationship cause his ex's cheated.

2007-11-26 05:13:34 · 29 answers · asked by citythang20 1 in Singles & Dating

this friend is supposed to be a healthy woman running a yoga center and what not

2007-11-26 05:12:16 · 29 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Friends

Please, no answers from those over 30. I'm trying to ask us young people here.

Would you date a single parent who has kids via a previous relationship or marriage?

What if they did live with him/her?
What if they didn't live in the house - were in custody of the other parent or someone else?

Personally, I *never* would - In my opinion, that kid is some other guy's problem, and no matter what the circumstances, it's unnecessary drama.

What about everyone else?

2007-11-26 05:12:00 · 21 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I are on a budget can anyone help with finding a place that is beautiful but on the cheaper side for getting married in Florida

2007-11-26 05:11:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay i have a huge delima !I really like this guy and he is so sweet and Cute and funny and i really like him .But He is white and im black. is that the reason he dose not notice me. IS that a problem.Do guys care about stuff like that? Do guys have some special code or signal for them relise that we are intresed in them? Some one plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-26 05:11:48 · 8 answers · asked by Missy J 1 in Singles & Dating

i went back last weekend (it was a big plan) and he took me out for a surprise meal to my favourite restaurant to celebrate my dissertation proposal, it was lovely but as luck would have it my body chose that day to be horribly ill. I could ahrdly look at my food let alone eat it. I felt awful and still do and was really dissapointed :(

He has managed to get a day offwork next week and has said he'll pop up for the night, i've decided to cook a full three course meal, my main question is can anyone give me any food presentation tips, to make it look really posh and gormet...

for my starter im making goats cheese rarebit. i was wodering what type of salad dressing would go well with this and any type of dressing that will look pretty and taste good.

Any herb garnishes etc....i like the effect of dusting etc, but cnt think of any herbs etc that go with savoury things...

Any tips on making our night in extra special would be welcomed as well.

thanks in advance :)

2007-11-26 05:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ya whoever is 22, tell me what you like that would be under $30.

2007-11-26 05:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by Megan 1 in Family

Part of the reason why I am staying in this unhealthy marriage is because I don’t have anywhere else to go (literally) and I don’t want to ruin my credit (now that it’s starting to improve) by just walking away from the house. We bought a new house almost eight months ago. Neither of us can afford to pay the mortgage alone, and it’s too early to refinance the house. Even with refinancing the house it still won’t reduce it enough to where either of us would be able to afford it. I would love to stay in the house and make the payments, but I can only afford around $800 or $900 per month maximum (and we’re paying $1,525 per month including insurance and taxes). We are with Countrywide. Does anyone know from experience or from working in the real estate or financial industry what can be done? If I want to keep the house will they work with me to come up with an affordable monthly payment, or will I be forced to sell it or walk away. We’ve made every payment on time.

2007-11-26 05:09:17 · 13 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he misses me and stuff like that. but he says he getting married . i told him its not good for us to talk but he calls still ive stoped taking his calls besides he dumped me for her.

2007-11-26 05:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a weekend binge drinker (2 1/2 fifths a weekend) who gets pretty mean sometimes. It never really bothered me alot because I know it's just the booze talking and I sometimes spend the night in a motel to get away when it really gets bad. He's always sorry when he sobers up but lately, he's being hateful even when he's sober.That bothers me alot because it's HIM talking. He really hurts my feelings for no reason I know of. He's been twice to rehab so he's not going to stop but I don't want him being so mean to me all the time. Why is he being so mean all of a sudden when he's sober? We've been married 4 years.

2007-11-26 05:08:20 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married since June of this year. Well i decided that it would be best to have seperate checking accounts because it seems to always be an issue about Him payin most of the bills, so i opened my own and said i will go half of every thing. We he thinks that is completely wrong that my money is his money and his money is mine but when we had a joint account it was always him sayin well I pay all the bills. Am I in the wrong for opening my own account??

2007-11-26 05:07:48 · 18 answers · asked by Shomama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. working 2 jobs about 50 hours a week in retail, fastfood,etc,
and spend all your time at work and traveling between both jobs on the bus,spending most of your life in an ugly work uniform, and only making enough to pay the basics (no frills or shopping), and no time to spend with your family or friends, no man, etc.

2. work part time, have time to spend with family and friends, etc while having a relationship with a man who takes care of you, buys you stuff, takes you out, etc, helps out financially,etc. in return you are his "little girl" and maintain a sexual relationship with him (he;s not a bad looking guy, sucessful and has time for you).

I pick the second one as the first choice sucks

2007-11-26 05:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by hothumid 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were the type of girl to propose to your guy, what kind of ring would you get him?

Guys: If your girl proposed to you, would you expect a ring? What kind?

2007-11-26 05:07:24 · 2 answers · asked by V 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 05:07:23 · 4 answers · asked by jason d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i wrote this for a woman whose husband was killed.. what are your thoughts...

I am a woman lost
For the love I knew is now a memory
My eyes are still like the night
I lay on the ground crying to the earth
Crying that heaven would hear my cries
Praying that somebody would hold me
Somebody would protect me from my fears
Shattered that I have to face this injustice
And smile when my soul is full of gloom
Challenged to make the most of what I have
But how can I when half of me is gone
I am awakened by visions of that fateful day
Wondering if this nightmare would ever stop
If my life will ever be the same
I despair, I cry, I fight
I want to give up
But I look around and see my children
For them I must survive
I have to survive and with them comes a second chance
To make a change.

2007-11-26 05:06:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She makes me feel warm and tingly all over... Oh wait, my leg fell asleep... Well warm anyway. And DFA and Squirrel Cage... Unless it's a "Congratulations", your retarded jealous comments are not appreciated.

2007-11-26 05:04:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just so mad I saw my ex who I haven't seen in 4 years and he just laughs at me!! The nerve! The thing is I have no Idea what he was laughing at?? I wasn't looking funky..I was with my 2 year old son.. maybe he's just mad that he got dumped but anyway I was embarrased because i felt dumb when he laughed at me. Then I thought about it and like I shouldn't have felt that way...He's the one with an obese spouse and if you aske me I think I look the bomb after 2 kids.. :)

2007-11-26 05:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told my girlfriend that it isnt working out and walked away. but she stopped me and asked me to give her another chance i said id try. so i even kissed another girl when she was passing by but i pretended not to nitice her. she told me by phone that she saw me and she was ok. i think that i wrong. do you think that she is the one that im to keep forever. i dont hate her or anything its just that weve been together for two years so i thought that we had to move along with our lives. do you think she is the chosen one for me.cuz she really loves me. i feel like an asshole for doing that to her. do you think that i should stay with her for the rest of my life. like three months ago she told me she wanted to be with me for the rest of her life. what should i do.

2007-11-26 05:02:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

long story short. the kid is now 14 and just a few months ago we got a phone call from the mother saying my husband of 7 years might be the father. i guess she has spent 14 years trying to find the father and has done DNA testing on dozen of men. well my husband is the father and now she wants the judge to make us pay thousands a month in 'back' child support ! we didn't even know ! nor did she ! is there any way we can get out of paying 'back' child suppor. i know for a fact that the mother will not use this money to put the kid threw college. its in FL.

2007-11-26 05:01:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce