why doesn't my girlfriend care?

Question

i told my girlfriend that it isnt working out and walked away. but she stopped me and asked me to give her another chance i said id try. so i even kissed another girl when she was passing by but i pretended not to nitice her. she told me by phone that she saw me and she was ok. i think that i wrong. do you think that she is the one that im to keep forever. i dont hate her or anything its just that weve been together for two years so i thought that we had to move along with our lives. do you think she is the chosen one for me.cuz she really loves me. i feel like an asshole for doing that to her. do you think that i should stay with her for the rest of my life. like three months ago she told me she wanted to be with me for the rest of her life. what should i do.

i forgot to tell yall that she got really mad later that day i had to say im sorry cuz idint want to hurt her feelings anymore.i think she is the ine. weve "done it" many times we had a couple of discussions and also we are both in highschool. im 17 and she is 16.

i misspelled one. i nstead typed ine.

Answer 1

Just play-her, playa! Tell her straight up like this, "yo ma, i'm young, and sexy, and need to be free. that being said, I'll stay wit you to see how it goes, but yo, i'm gonna hit up other chicks and what not, with my ski-doodle. So, takes me or leave me babe". And then see what she says, worst case scenario, she says fine it's over, and then you're outty.
BEST CASE: she says cool, then you meet another hot chick, and then both girls realize they want you, and they are willing to "take you" at the same time. Yo boy, it's a three-play waiting to happen. CONTROL YOUR DESTINY !!!!

Answer 2

The big picture, shows this girl moving on with her life.
You asked her to do this. Then you showed interest in someone else, by kissing them in front of your girlfriend, of two years. You wanted to hurt her, make her become jealous or be sickened. As a direct result, she now thinks, spending time apart, after a while in a stagnate affair, would be better.
What you started, back fired on you. What did you want from her, marriage? You should have never said anything. Instead, you should have brought her roses for being with you for so long. You didn't mean to say any of it, in the first place. I am almost positive, you love this girl, who has certainly maintained a certain status of, the chosen one. I hope all this had nothing to do with sex, none of it was worth it.
God bless us all..

Answer 3

It's a weird thing but women love hard and will tolerate a lot. Just don't abuse that anymore. Stop trying to define the relationship and map it out. Don't worry about where it's heading or how long you'll be together. Just enjoy each day and have fun. If she is the one, it will happen naturally, you'll just be going along enjoying life and before you know it you'll be like 50 years old with kids and grandkids. If you continue to worry about how long the relationship is and all that crap you'll never find the one. it will be the same with every girl. Just chill and enjoy her.

Answer 4

Sorry, kenfo 4, but if we are to believe your last few questions,

1. You have TWO girlfriends and a third pursuing you.
2. Your step-sister is after you in a MOST aggressive way.
3. You just got out of juvie.
4. Your girlfriend (I guess one of the two) is cheating on you. You slapped her and got in trouble with the law AGAIN.
5. And now you're breaking up or maybe not.

I don't know if I'm buying all of this.

Answer 5

Honestly honey, you're an a**. Why would you do stuff like that to a girl? Where you her first? If so, that's probably why she's so attached to you. As far as her being 'the one'? You still sound young (not that I can hear you but I gathered that from what I read) you never know what lies ahead. In the mean time, try to enjoy your time with her if you really care for her. Be nice to her, don't be such an a**. Good luck.

Answer 6

If you feel the need to play games or torture somebody who loves you, then duh....she is not the one for you. If you are not both feeling the same, then it'll never work out. Even if you do stay with her, later down the line, you'll start to resent her. Be happy, encourage her and move on. Good luck.

Answer 7

That is very weird....you can decide on who you will spend the rest of your life with. Do you want to be with someone that stays on you all the time or do you want her to turn the other cheek when you do stuff to hurt her. She is a better person than I am cause I probably would have hurt both of you.

Answer 8

You should rephrase your question to "Why DOES my girlfriend care". If you don't share the same feeling that she does, then do her a favor and end it. Don't feel obligated to stay because she loves you. If you truly loved her the way that she loves you, you would not have posted that question. You need to take the time and think about the way you feel about her. Is she worth holding on to? Be honest with yourself as well as with her. Good luck...

Answer 9

well.. maybe it's ur ego thatz hurtin u because she didnt care when she saw u with another woman.. or maybe ur hurtin because u wanted her to care kuz u still care for her.. that was bad tho when u pretended u didn't notice her. no one can answer ur question except you dude.. what do u really feel about her? are you totally giving up on her? or is it just that phase of gettin sick of arguing. cause if it is, dont give up.. we all get sick of arguing about the same **** over and over again.. but that's part of it.. if you really love the person,, well it's like that song.. "id rather have bad times with you than good times with someone else" :).. so if you'll realize that actually didnt wana let her go, show her that it's always worth trying.. no giving up :)

on the other hand,youre sayin that she really loves you.. well, do you feel the same way? only you, can answer that.. maybe you guys are just in a different level.. like you kno,, maybe she loves you more than you love her.. meaning.. she's ready to go to another level of ur relationship.. but because ur just goin with the flow, your decicions and views dont meet in the middle.. hmm sounds like my relationship.. hehe..

anywayz, goodluck..:) only you can decide tho :)

Answer 10

Have an honest talk with her. Perhaps she said she didn't mind you kissing the girl because she is desperate not to lose you. TALK, see how both of you feel, then ACT like you love each other and stop doing stupid mean things to each other. Life is TOO short.