Well okay,i've been going out with this guy for a long time.on the 28 it will be six months.and ugh he means everything to me.i have to say i think god made him just for me.He's my first real LOVE and ummm more stuff lol.but you makes me feel like he really does love me.and about 2 weeks ago we were laying on this bed falling asleep and he looked into my eyes and told me he really wants to be with me forever.that no one in the world can make him happy like me.but my friends and famliy say that we won't that hes just my first real love.what do you think?
2007-11-26 05:22:46 · 13 answers · asked by Renee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're living on love, don't need much sleep and want to spend every waking minute together, right? That high adrenaline rush, we're-so-perfect-for-each-other feeling that you have when you first fall in love typically lasts about 18 months to two years.
There is no way that human beings could live that way indefinitely, so no it won't last forever. Reality does set in after a while; however, the relationship could develop into something deeper and richer that will sustain you both for the rest of your lives.
2007-11-26 05:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've only been together for six months? Well, when you're young and you fall in love for the first time, you think you're going to be with that person for the rest of your life. Sadly, in most situations this isn't always the case. You're young, stop worrying about the 'forever', enjoy your time with him and the love you feel for him for the time being. And if it should lead to forever, then so be it. Take it one step at a time, don't rush into things. Good luck.
2007-11-26 13:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by ღ♥Jess♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months is too soon a time to know if it will be forever. Take the time to get to know him. Just because there are love feelings between the both of you does not mean it is gonna last. Relationships are always good in the beginning, time will let you know what you need to know.
2007-11-26 14:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still in the "butterflies in my tummy" stage. We all feel that way when we're in love. 6 months is not a very long time.. yes, the relationship is fresh.. but wait and date longer. Then see where things go. Your relationship hasn't been tested yet. You'll have fights and little arguments here and there. You're still getting to know him, his habits, likes and dislikes, behavior, etc.. too early to tell, and only YOU can be the judge of how far things will go...
2007-11-26 13:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my bf when i was 15 and he was 16. We are still together now after nearly 7 years together so yes it can last, everyone is different, but don't listen to people who say it won't work, it can , and if you love him and he loves you, theres no reason for it not to work!! enjoy the feelings!
2007-11-26 13:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. Enjoy the 1st fuzzy feelings of love 'cause it doesn't last - especially after you have lived together for years and time just trudges on...once that happens, you'll understand why people get jaded when it comes to love.
2007-11-26 13:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by tahnwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forever is a very long time.
What difference does it make if it lasts forever anyway?
If it's a good time now, then let it be a good time. Forever is too far off to think that much about.
2007-11-26 13:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can last forever, mine did so far. he was my first love, met him when we were 15.. i felt the same way. 10 years a marriage, house, dog, and baby later we are still in love.
2007-11-26 13:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you're in your teens like i think you are, it probably won't last because you're stil growing and maturing. If you're not, it might be that you've found your true love.
2007-11-26 13:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by preetip89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well don't worry what everyone else say. If you really love him then stay with him.
2007-11-26 13:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋