Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

It's for my long-term boyfriend (which is why I am posting here, and not singles and dating), and I am looking to spend about $100.
He is into:
Filmaking, movies, cooking, outdoor activites (hiking, cycling, etc.), music (jazz and also Frank Zappa and Led Zeppelin - stuff like that), he dresses well, but does not wear jewelry, is really into Frank Miller and graphic novels, also likes art deco architecture and design, martial arts, and working out.
He is 27, and works as a videographer and graphic designer.

Help!

He doesn't drink coffee, but likes import beer and good vodkas. He also smokes cigars.

2007-11-26 04:02:17 · 3 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife has a towin sister and my wife loves her sister more than me . they are together all the time and when she come house she is tired and i am tired with this situation . what should i do?

2007-11-26 04:01:46 · 18 answers · asked by blue 2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 4 years and it was so bad experince and it end with 2 kids and divorse befor 6 month then i start to look for a new husband i dont know why i get married now befor 3 days just i feel regret now what shull ido?

2007-11-26 03:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by iabousharieha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 03:59:22 · 6 answers · asked by ツ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And how can I change my attitude to become a whole new person? im only 17

2007-11-26 03:59:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i help others . like my friend calls me every night wit problems and i hav eto help out and figure out what to do. everyone comes to me it gets annoying but it helps them. so idk

2007-11-26 03:58:19 · 22 answers · asked by allie 1 in Friends

I am 24 with a 2 year old daughter. I know I'm pretty not to be conceited but I am. Everytime I meet a guy everything is fine until I tell them I have a child. Be completely honest. Would you want to date a woman with a child? If not tell me why not.

2007-11-26 03:58:15 · 39 answers · asked by luxemomny 3 in Singles & Dating

He's a total control freak. We usually all spend Christmas here and have to tiptoe round him 'cos of his moods That's bad enough, but we've just had the week from hell, and he's made it loads worse.

Amazingly he let Ann come alone to help with her sister's children while she was in hospital. Everything started off ok. but the hospital didn't go well, another two close family members were in the same week, one nearly died & my grandson was having his b'day party all very stressful.

He wasn't getting attention so stopped answering his phone, then told her she was thrown out, said he'd put her stuff outside and the dog would die SHE had hysterics screaming down the phone, had to borrow to hire a van, made her sick sister help move her stuff & fixed up to stay with friends . HE did his act, cried & pleaded etc and 2 days later she went back, owing money to friends we have to face here, & leaving us shocked & exhausted, I can't bear to hear his name but she won't come alone. HELP!

2007-11-26 03:55:50 · 22 answers · asked by proud walker 7 in Family

What kinda dress would look good for a bride but the wedding theme color's are white and, red for christmas. So I'm confused on what kinda dress I should get??????????????

2007-11-26 03:54:39 · 13 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Weddings

Do you think that two persons with completely different interests/hobbies can get along?
The girl I love has a completely different interests and hobbies.

I'm looking for a serious relationship, and if it worked out we may end up married, but would it?!

When I imagine myself married, it's always me sitting in a room listening to classical music or on my computer, and she is in a different room reading the newspaper or solving the crosswords, then, I see myself forced to watch the movies she likes and listening to her music just to "spend time together and try to make it work" and vice-versa. We won't have anything in common to chat about, etc.

You see my point? surely not nice huh?

2007-11-26 03:54:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 03:53:32 · 24 answers · asked by MS. DC 2 in Weddings

I am getting married in Oct 2008. We have a price quote of approx $1000 for beer/wine to be served to our 80 guests. My fiancee and I are thinking we can save money by purchasing our own beer/wine for the event. I am wondering how many cases of beer and how many bottles of wine would serve 80 guests.

2007-11-26 03:53:04 · 5 answers · asked by lonelyheartblues77 2 in Weddings

We have a 3 year old and 5 mo. old. When we go to my moms to visit, it seems to upset my step dad alot because the oldest will play with toys and get things out like all other normal kids do. Eveytime we are there my step dad has to say something about the toys being out. Just the other day I heard him tell my mom "she doesn't need to watch cartoons 24-7". It's like he expects her to sit on the couch and not do anything. BTW, we have never once failed to clean up the toys before we have left. I think my step dad is just a grumpy old man.What would you do?

2007-11-26 03:52:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The girl I love has a completely different interests and hobbies.

I'm looking for a serious relationship, and if it worked out we may end up married, but would it?!

When I imagine myself married, it's always me sitting in a room listening to classical music or on my computer, and she is in a different room reading the newspaper or solving the crosswords, then, I see myself forced to watch the movies she likes and listening to her music just to "spend time together and try to make it work" and vice-versa. We won't have anything in common to chat about, etc.

You see my point? surely not nice huh?

2007-11-26 03:51:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i went to my doctors is he able to show me my wifes medical records please

2007-11-26 03:51:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if my ex-boyfriend cheated on me or not. I've been pretty attached with him. Silly or not. Necessary or not.

I've asked people around me if he cheated on me. Some say things like " maybe he's been with other girls and was waiting for the one he loved to come back". But I later found out that she was a liar and really liked to see other people get hurt. So I don't know if I can trust her.

I feel like other people patronize me when I ask. One said, "I found out something about him that wasn't good."

I hate it that they won't tell me the truth.

Anyway, I know it's silly and I want to move on.

Believe or not this is part of my desire to move on.

Has anyone ever been here? What did you do?

I want to be able to face it. You know? Instead of think one minute, "well maybe he didn't" and then the next, "well, what about?"

I know it's worthless and I want to stop it, but contrary to what my friends say "Just get over it" isn't working. I just want peace.

2007-11-26 03:49:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey everyone thanks for the help..
Am married, not really happy, cause of things that i don't agree on with my husband.. He doesn't really talk to me any more, all he does now is go to work an play on games thats it..
Me an him had sexs i didn't even like it.. Whats wrong with me am i a bad person..

2007-11-26 03:48:22 · 26 answers · asked by marie m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well this is what is happening I left my husband like 9 months ago we just had to much problems that we felt could not be solved any more well ne ways I met this other guy that i fell for quick and he is so handsome, but he is to obsesive and he always wants me to be at home and I cant even run my daily earens well now my husband wants to get back together for our kids and us and now I don't no how to let him go I need some help please think of good things......

2007-11-26 03:46:19 · 21 answers · asked by jozlilnanjos 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We spent the weekend with my inlaws. Yesterday, we were all playing cards and I got up to get something to drink. After I was done pouring my drink I turned back around and saw my mother inlaw and husband whispering. My father inlaw was sitting next to them but I don’t think he was paying any attention to them. I asked what they were whispering about in a joking way, and my husband said “I wasn’t whispering about anything” and it said it as if he was placing the blame on his mother. So I looked at her and she didn’t say anything. I sat back down and continued to play cards but I was pissed and stopped talking. Not even 15 to 20 minutes later I was turned around watching the football game, waiting for my husband to shuffle the cards. I turned back around and they were whispering again and my husband was the one talking. He was moving his hands and when I looked at him he played it off. I was livid at this point and about ready to tell him to take me home.

2007-11-26 03:44:52 · 21 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married when I was 17. My grandmother had temporary custody of me when she signed the papers. My father had complete custody of me but was letting me live with her for awhile. He did not give consent, my grandmother did. Is my marriage legal? I hope its not. But I wanted to know for sure.

2007-11-26 03:44:05 · 8 answers · asked by mommauvtwo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is 37 yrs. old, never married, never left home. Let me know of the ultimatium Thanksgiving night. I gave up my apt. had my phone transferred, he knew 2 wks prior and said he kept hoping she would change her mind before he HAD to back out. We had been together 2 yrs.

2007-11-26 03:40:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 03:40:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i kno this was supposed to be asked before school even started but nyways, i still dont kno why but i cant be myself around ppl and girls at school i mean a few of them yes, but not really alot of them and all the time and i feel like everyone already has they own group of friends and im not really in any of them......i mean im nice to everyone i just dotn know how to hang out wit them all the time and get to kno them etc... mos tof the ppl in my class are already tight by now and im not. i mean i act like myself but not my full self if you understand and i wish ppl could see me like that i just dont feel totally comfortable around them and i want to reallly badly. I dotnw ant to make myself but i just need some help....!?

2007-11-26 03:39:15 · 7 answers · asked by lms935 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it only me or is it you too ?? See.. from my childhood I have been falling in love in a strange way..

When I was around 6 I fell in love and desired physically a man over his twenties...

This feels odd sharing this info.. but in fact I have been even masturbating without knowing it when I was around that age, which is six and over.. I had a physical exercise, which i explained and thought was an exercise for stomach muscles, but later I realized this is called 'ORGASM' !!

The entire childhood was full of love stories.. In the first grade I jumped on one boy classmate and started kissing him on his cheek and hugging him and everything.. I must say, he was frightened !!

Then I kept 'falling in love' with people I desperately SHOULD NOT BE FALLING IN LOVE WITH !!! And they are my mother's and aunts boyfriends !!! And the most embarrassing thing is that i cannot hide these feelings, I could sense they knew it !!! And I just wished I or they disappeared !!

And now.. As soon as I get acquainted with a male parson, I automatically start including the ‘crush’ thing !!! And I REALLY REALLY REALLY wish I didn’t !!! It just distracts me from the relationship, the discussions everything to do with that person.. And I hate it !!!

What’s with me for God’s sake ?!?! You don’t have to answer that, it would do good for me if I found you are like that too. I would be satisfied then.

This is a sort of topic that will attract abusive answers, I warn you, I don’t wish to see them !!!

2007-11-26 03:37:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How deeply in love is he with the woman by that time ??

2007-11-26 03:35:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like, at the time you weren't all that interested, but you just wanted some, so you hit it and then later on got interested?

2007-11-26 03:33:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby &I have have just come out of some serious stuff. He began chatting with other women online & txt.this made me insecure &I began snooping. this made the stuff worse coz he just saw me as a woman who had major issues. well, I took care of my issues &he did the same.He never saw this as cheating , but I felt it was. anyway I stopped going thru his phone &things. one of the major things I had with all this is that some of the women, he met online so I told him that it made me uneasy to know that he still has a hi5 profile but I was going to trust him. he said that he was going to get rid of all the women he might cause problems. well ,we just got him a laptop &saturday night , he was doing a lot of research for his upcoming court case. I came to kiss him good night &saw that he was browsing the pictures &profile of a woman on facebook.it kind of took me by surprise . anyway , last night I told him that seeing him going thru that womans pictures kind of made me a bit uncomfortable

2007-11-26 03:32:41 · 37 answers · asked by praise t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I ran into some fnancial problems and we were in danger of being forclosed. He wanted us to tell our families but I told him that I wasn't ready for that. Right now, it's OUR problem and since we seem to be getting control of the situation, there really isn't much to tell. I gave him a few other reasons why we should hold off telling them.

This weekend, just before we walked out the house on our way to see his mom, he says to me "By the way, I told my mom about our financial problems." I couldn't even react. I felt so betrayed and violated. I asked him when this happened. His response -- "last week".

Now he's telling me that I'm overreacting. That he ddn't set out to tell her . . . "it just happened". The more he gave me details & excuses on how "It just happened", then angrier I got. When I asked why it took him so long to at least tell me he'd told her, he said that he forgot. Am I being unreasonable by feeling betrayed and violated?

2007-11-26 03:31:32 · 13 answers · asked by Investor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My so called "friend w/benefits" that I've only known a month has been "sick" this last weekend. He hasn't been calling or texting me like he usually does several times a day. Friday night he told me he didn't feel good and had been sleeping all day. Saturday morning I sent him a text & asked how he was doing & he said ok & I told him if he wanted to do something later to just let me know. Saturday night he sent me a text & he was about to go to bed b/c he didn't feel good. Sunday afternoon I sent him a text to see how he was & he said he's sick as a dog and that he's been out of it all day. I never heard back from him and I still haven't heard from him yet today. He usually texts me in the morning and throughout the day and at night. Do you think he really is sick or is he just trying to let me go? He had said he wants us to be fwb & hopefully grow into something more...he knows I just got divorced. Any thoughts?...maybe I should give him a little more time to see?

2007-11-26 03:30:44 · 26 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking at a problem at the moment. i had already posted a question about this. and from the answers i got, i was thinking.
Is is possible to still live with someone for the time being, until a lease is up or until things maybe work themselves out.
I have a three bedroom apartment, so i would be getting a roommate anyways, but he would have to go back and live with his parents. Which i know he doesn't want to do . I have no where to go , family not in town and no friends with room, so i would have to find a new apartment.
So another choice is... to continue living together, and having him move out of the bedroom... is this even possible... i hadn't considered it until a few people suggested it to me... I was wondering if anyone can speak from experiance.
I still really care about him, hes my best friend... i just don't feel the spark anymore. I don't see this as a forever thing.
I'm 24 and hes 26. SO we are mature working people.

2007-11-26 03:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by TIFFANY H 2 in Singles & Dating