I don't know if my ex-boyfriend cheated on me or not. I've been pretty attached with him. Silly or not. Necessary or not.
I've asked people around me if he cheated on me. Some say things like " maybe he's been with other girls and was waiting for the one he loved to come back". But I later found out that she was a liar and really liked to see other people get hurt. So I don't know if I can trust her.
I feel like other people patronize me when I ask. One said, "I found out something about him that wasn't good."
I hate it that they won't tell me the truth.
Anyway, I know it's silly and I want to move on.
Believe or not this is part of my desire to move on.
Has anyone ever been here? What did you do?
I want to be able to face it. You know? Instead of think one minute, "well maybe he didn't" and then the next, "well, what about?"
I know it's worthless and I want to stop it, but contrary to what my friends say "Just get over it" isn't working. I just want peace.
2007-11-26 03:49:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to hate on girls but they are jealous and miss having you around so sometimes they'll say stuff to make your relationship bad and possibly break up so they get their friend back, or sometimes they are just miserable and don't want anyone to be happy if they aren't. This happend to me and my girlfriend, one of her stupid friends put the idea in her head that she heard we weren't doing so good and to be honest we had a few fights at the time that were all pretty close to one another and so then it caused my girl to think i was airing out our realationship to other people and since then its really caused us to fight alot cuz now she doesn't trust me that I'm not telling people about us. The sad thing is I don't talk to anybody about my realationship cuz I don't want anybody involved but now she doesn't trust me and wonders what else I'm hiding or who I talk to know. My advise to you is go w/your gut and if you think something is up then confront him but until he gives you a reason to think otherwise then just believe him and tell your friends to but out, its a 2 person realationship and thats it those 2 should be the only 2 involed....
2007-11-26 03:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Spud Pendelton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. i would say... get over him, he's an ex for a reason.. but if u really can't get over him... if u really need the truth... confront him... ask him if while he was with u... if he ever cheated on u... tell him, that u really need the answer to that question, in order 4 you to move on.... and that regardless you just really need 2 hear that, because you have closed urself and aren't giving urself the opportunity to be with other people, cuz u affraid they lll do the same , and u will always be wondering if they be cheating on u or not... -i personally think that's stupid, but if u can't move on... the way i see it... he's the only 1 who knows what he did and what he didn't, when he did if he did, and where he did if he did, and who he did if he did...
2007-11-26 11:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey-he is not very trustworthy if you can't ask him these things yourself.You guys never had a real relationship if thats the case.Don't rely on others(especially girls) to give you straight answers about YOUR man.Chances are he doesn't care or else HE would have already confronted you on your feelings and reassured you ex or not.He obviously isn't ANY kind of mature-so just roll on girl.You are way better than that and he doesn't deserve another iota of your time or worry.The sooner you realize that the sooner you can move on.
2007-11-26 11:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by berlytea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was there once.... but i got over it, i desided that if he had cheated on me he would of told me in the argument that split us up... or the many arguments after.. he would want to brag about how he got away with it soo if he had cheated you would of heard by now.
the love of your life is just around the corner... jus take a peek...
2007-11-26 11:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by sylv_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know if he cheated on you when you were together?
Move on. It makes no difference.
I am completely over my ex. He probably cheated on me but I don't even care to find out. I'm just glad to be gone from him.
2007-11-26 11:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just forget about him and move on. I have been in the same situation and I heard things form other people and I didn't think it was true..but it was. So yea if it wasn't true then people wont be talking about it.
2007-11-26 11:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will just make you angry if you find out. And as LAME as it sounds, yea, move on.
Dont let him hurt you no more.
2007-11-26 11:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its that much stressful, get out.
2007-11-26 11:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by SR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋