my wife has a towin sister and my wife loves her sister more than me . they are together all the time and when she come house she is tired and i am tired with this situation . what should i do?
2007-11-26 04:01:46 · 18 answers · asked by blue 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you talked about this? It is possible that it not that you are loved less, just differently.
The relationship between twins is more intense that most siblings. They have shared almost every moment. They are used to talking and sharing everything.
How strong is your communication skills? Do you even care about the things they talk about? Or are you just jealous of the time they spend together?
If you want some alone time with your wife, ask her out on a date, take her away for a weekend get away. Don't have money? Every city has free or cheap museums, parks etc.
Court your wife. Build your relationship with her.
2007-11-26 04:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the wife first.. then if she will not help..and you know the sister is usually the leader in this kind of thing.. even if subtley... discuss it with her ..make sure that everything you say and think is NOT backstabby. That is just junk . Make sure you accurately portray how YOU feel things are going along betwen them. write it down to keep it straight in your mind. and if that does not work. get the mom involved and ask for help.. even if she does not directly say anything inflamatory about it ( hopefully she would not do that to your marriage ) to the girls.. perhaps she can put a suggestion to the sister who is not your spouse.. to kind cool it for awhile..sometimes people can BE manipulative even if they don't want others to know they are..kapish?
2007-11-26 05:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your wife why she's married to her sister instead of you....
Adultery definition:: ANY interest or acitivity that takes up the time that should be spent with a spouse...
Its not the time together..its the AMOUNT OF TIME being spent with her sister that is the problem,,,,,
Find out whats up with her preferring time with her sister over YOU.
If she isn't interested in addressing this issue go to a counselor...
2007-11-26 04:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dog Rescuer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate to your wife about how you feel and see if the two of you an work anything out, but don't try to come between the of them. Set a date night up for just the two of you and let your wife know that it is going to be just the two of you going to it and see how it goes form there. if the results are positive then set a certain day out of everyweek and make it just for the two of you at that time.
2007-11-26 04:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that your wife has been with her twin since before they were born. She may not realize that she is leaving you out. She may just be defaulting to her normal behavior. Talk to her (do not whine) and tell her you would like to be included in her daily activities more.
2007-11-26 04:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Edub_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twins are close....from the very beginning. I think you could ask her to spend more time with you, but not be critical of her sister in the asking.
2007-11-26 04:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first guess is they were twins before you married on of them. they probably have always been really close.
talk to your wife about your feelings and tell her you selfishly want her to save some energy for you.
if that doesn't get what you desire, whining definitely won't
2007-11-26 04:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, just talk to her about it,
I mean its her sister, and its her TWIN
I would be with my sister everyday if I could aswell,
Why not give her a baby, this way she has a distraction....
M
2007-11-26 04:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
comunicate with her. Are you serious?
Tell her this. How you feel... What you want... And why you feel like this.. Should'nt be married asking these question to strangers, about your wife we do not know.
2007-11-26 04:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a towin sister? Oh well....tell her how you feel.....
2007-11-26 04:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋