i help others . like my friend calls me every night wit problems and i hav eto help out and figure out what to do. everyone comes to me it gets annoying but it helps them. so idk
2007-11-26 03:58:19 · 22 answers · asked by allie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You, like myself, have let yourself become a safe haven for others. You allow anyone to confide in you and give anyone advice. This is not a bad thing, it means that you are a good listener. However, do not let it bog you down. From my own experience, if you let people call you at anytime for any reason, you will never sleep and you will just start taking on their stresses. Continue being a good listener, and, in my book, a great friend. But be careful, and tell people that you need "you time". Give yourself time to recharge.
2007-11-26 04:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a good friend that is willing to be there when your friends are in need.
This is an amazing quality, don't change it. I am the same way but have come to realization that some of my friends are not the same and I end up helping a lot more then receiving when I'm in need.
However, I don't really mind. I enjoy being a good friend and a good ear to listen when people are in need.
2007-11-26 04:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a counselor in training...next step is to go to college get degree..........and then get paid !!! So make sure you are learning from your practice. Yes, you do get tired of it for awhile but that's when you have to realize that, that is the signal that you need some "you" time and to regroup yourself so that you can then come back and continue to be there for your friends. Unless that friend is becoming totally dependent on you for all their emotional needs.........then that is not a healthy friendship/relationship. : )
2007-11-26 05:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by mochastuff81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you are a good friend. I know, sometimes it seems like you are the only person in the world people come to with their problems, but trust me: it pays off in the end. Plus, you can end your day knowing you made someone else's life a little better.
2007-11-26 04:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by JJK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a comforting friend who people look up too when they have problems , yes some peoples problems can get a tad bit annoying but remember its for a good cause , at least your friends look forward too you , thats what i like in a friend
2007-11-26 04:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a good friend but it sounds like your burned out. you also need time for yourself. maybe you need to get out of the house so when your friends call your not always available. maybe this way they can solve their own problems and come to you when its only necessary
2007-11-26 04:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider your self special because people go out of there way to call you for help.
2007-11-26 04:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur the helping friend like a advisor u have to tell everyone that u cant always help them and theyll understand if theyr really ur frnds theyll understand
2007-11-26 04:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Girl_Next_Door_Forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good one
2007-11-26 04:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel annoyed you r such a good friend. they r lucky to have you trust me. not everyone gets a friend like you who they can count on wen they need someone.
2007-11-26 04:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by kk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋