Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

Brother was put in foster care and sister was adopted by another family. I have no living relatives that can give me a start, foster care and adoption records are sealed. unable to locate from ancestry with knowing both parents name. Does anyone have any ideas where to go from here

2007-11-26 04:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by Diana 5 in Family

What does it mean, when he says " I just wanna take it slow" and then doesn't call for 2 wks and expects you to still be with him after that!

2007-11-26 04:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

She said she doesn't wanna socialise with someone that does drugs, but it's not like he will have drugs with him when he is over, and he doesn't ask me to do drugs when I am with him, what should i do?

2007-11-26 04:34:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to buy my friend a christmas present but she dosnt want me to should i get her one anyway or what?

2007-11-26 04:34:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Friends

so like i have this problem.
im 13 (turning 14 next month) and im going to have sex with my new boyfriend.
well i wear padded bras and they make my boobs look HUGE.
since we are going to have sex and im going to be naked (the only way i like it) im afraid he will not be happy with my breasts.
what should i do??!

2007-11-26 04:32:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm bulimic, and have been for a couple of years. i have this awesome guyfriend who says that if i ever need anything or if anything is upsetting me i can give him a call at any time. he's a very sweet guy and i've known him and his family for several years. he notices that i am upset a lot and is wondering what is going on. i wanna tell him but i heard him make fun of eating disorders a couple of times.....what should i do? i'm also afraid to tell him because i already told my best friend but she only made things worse....i dont know if i can trust anybody....

2007-11-26 04:31:18 · 6 answers · asked by horizon 4 in Friends

when I met him I was 16 he was 23 yearsold, it has since then been 7 years and it seems that every year we grow farther apart, he does not hug or hold me? he never makes advances, when ever I try to look nice for him he doesnt even acknowledge my exsistence? I know I am beautiful, and im not trying to sound full of myself or anything I just want to know why he doesnt want to hold me or be intimate with me?

2007-11-26 04:28:57 · 23 answers · asked by bobby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It’s a unique and rare privilege to be able to give a best man speech because you have to squeeze a lifetimes worth of memories onto a small piece of paper and balance it just right to make the most perfect and enjoyable speech.
So I hope your not all expecting much!
For anyone who doesn’t know me my name is (My Name), I’m (Grooms Name) little brother and for everyone who does know me you have my condolences!
It’s an honor and a pleasure to be (Grooms Name) Best Man,
May I first say that there is no words to describe how beautiful (Brides Name) looks today and I’m happy to have her as my new sister in law, and I must also complement the bridesmaids because they are looking great, and there’s a man who needs no introduction, he’s a man who is as good as the come, he’s an inspiration to most of his friends, he’s smart, loyal, got a very witty sense of humor, he’s charismatic and he’s very attractive the women just adore him. But enough about me because this is (Grooms Name) day so I have made a large list of (Grooms Name) accomplishments in life in honor of the occasion!
Now tradition would dictate that this speech impart would be an opportunity to bring up embarrassing moments in (Grooms Name) past in front of all his family and friends, but I’ve got to tell you I’m above that.
I’m not going to tell you about the time when (Grooms Name) came in my room and closed the door behind him which didn’t actually have a handle on it and at the time (because our Dad earlier on the day had been painting the doors) which meant we where locked in together, also Mum & Dad where at a parents evening meeting one of (Grooms Name) college tutors so she could tell them how brilliant and smart he is and as proof of that he came up with the ingenious idea of how to get us out the room, he suggested I jump out the window and try to land on top of the conservatory roof, lets just say his plan never worked out. That would be out of line for me to mention that moment.
So instead to give you all a brief insight into what it has been like to spend a lifetime with (Grooms Name), I am going to tell you all a little bit about life in the 80’s to early 90’s, a time when many of the guys had Afro’s and mustaches and even some girls, Video Cameras were huge and TV’s were tiny and Mum’s always made their kids wear matching outfits no matter how annoying it was (and that fad still hasn’t gone out of fashion)!
One of the highlights of that time had to be going on holiday to the haven camps. It had everything dancing, games, talent contests for the kids and fancy dress contests. Talking about the fancy dress contests it would be wrong of me not to show you all (Grooms Name) in his prime so if you would all please allow me to unveil the photo (Show Photo). I would just like to mention also I won (Show Trophy)!
But on a serious note now (Grooms Name) has always been there and supported me, something that I am sure he will do for his beautiful new wife, (Brides Name).
He’s hard working and affectionate to the ones he loves most.
He has achieved a lot and become a great man and I’m sure he will tell all of you one of his greatest achievements is marrying (Brides Name), they reflect each others best quality’s and I love you both and I wish you both all the happiness in the world.

2007-11-26 04:27:36 · 10 answers · asked by Real Lucido 2 in Weddings

i love a boyfriend i love him i guess how i make him love my

2007-11-26 04:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by nadagazy5000 1 in Family

Or both? Do you feel in competition with them?

2007-11-26 04:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by Private Erin Coolidge 2 in Family

2007-11-26 04:27:06 · 4 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am knocking your house and fortunately u stayed alone in your house.
I introduce myself as gigolo and what u will do ???

2007-11-26 04:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by Arul for U 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is a fair price to give our friend who video taped our wedding? He expects no reward, just did it as a nice gesture for us, but I would like to give him something for his trouble. The video turned out great (for an amateur) and it's so nice to have a memory of that special day especially since it was just a whirlwind of activity--I hardly remember a thing!

2007-11-26 04:26:03 · 18 answers · asked by Honeybee 3 in Weddings

2007-11-26 04:25:54 · 2 answers · asked by Adam T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 04:23:59 · 6 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have discovered information pertaining to his close friendship with this other woman. Not getting in to details, I suspected that there was an affair going on. I asked him if he the situation was reveresed how would he react? He said he would divorce me and would have thought the worst. Is he indirectly admitting that he did cross the line and have an affair or what does this mean? He could have said I would believe you that nothing happend but, he did not. Please help!!!

2007-11-26 04:22:58 · 43 answers · asked by Unsure 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for christmas my son has only said 2 things that he really wants. i told my mother in law that i am going to buy these things because we are the parents and we want the special gifts from us. she went out and bought both gifts then gave them to him already. am i wrong to be really mad at her for this? she only did this because i told her i am going to buy them. for the first time my husband agrees with me that his mother crossed the line.

2007-11-26 04:22:38 · 29 answers · asked by WAG 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m 22 my husband is 32 we being married 2yrs and half. While I was dating him he was totally a different guy, he cleaned, he cooked he did the laundry and we dated for over a year. However, we got married and the honeymoon was over, he leaves his dirty clothes and underwear’s all over the house. He never cleans, cook’s, or even watch our one year old baby. I work full time as psychologist in school and I go to school part time to get my MS. He won’t even baby sit our kid while I’m cooking or cleaning he would leave him in his room or put him in a walker. I feel like single mom but I really want him to be more helpful please help I need some serious advice by the way he won’t go with me to counseling ‘cause he doesn’t believe in it. He has zero tolerant for our baby when the baby cries he goes off on him and tells me to shut him up. I try to talk to him when none of us is upset, he apologize and says he will change but he never does.

2007-11-26 04:22:27 · 11 answers · asked by Izabela 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My father recently suffered a stroke and it has been very difficult for my family and me.

What's really bothering me at the moment is the fact that people I know who thump their chests the hardest about how we're such great friends have been the first ones who've abandoned me when I ask for their help and support.

On the other hand, I've received loads of help and support from co-workers and my more casual aqaintances who've gone above and beyond the call of duty to help my family and me out.

Has anyone else had this experience?

2007-11-26 04:21:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

whats ur views on woman marrying the guy younger than him and shorter than him

2007-11-26 04:17:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to plan my wedding and the EX girlfriend of my husband to be keeps calling, sending text messages, emails, you name it she is doing it. I am trying not to let it bother me, but it's getting old. We have both asked her to stop with the communication. But she keeps on talking trash. SHort of changing our phone numbers and emails, what can we do? I want to get through this planning without the added stress.
Thanks

2007-11-26 04:17:39 · 23 answers · asked by MRS SOLOMON 2 in Weddings

I am trying to forgive someone..

2007-11-26 04:17:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't really realize how much of a big responsibility it is, I don't know what to expect, and the troubles I may encounter.

Actually, I have a feeling that it's a piece of cake! People around me get divorced though, can you tell me why? is it always about cheating or financial problems?

2007-11-26 04:17:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 04:12:00 · 2 answers · asked by Chirisquisquisquis 1 in Singles & Dating

better. or for worse"..I think that is unreasonable...People now a days will NOT put up with crap...1. Abuse. whether verbal or physical..2. proven infidelity 3. guy flat out refuses to work and the bills are piling up....or whatever....the reason...severe brain damage..i could not stay with someone and if i were like that i would expect him to leave me...He would be suffering if he did NOT LEAVE...AND PUT ME IN A HOME. Actually, i knew someone that left due to his wife wanted to move to a different state and he did NOT want to...What is your take on that???...remember abuse was not in the bible at the time....

2007-11-26 04:11:45 · 32 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Doesn it defeat the purpose? Arent you losing out also?

2007-11-26 04:10:21 · 26 answers · asked by Stephen 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i aren't even divorced yet and i can't get along with him two minutes. He has been gone for months with military never called just thought me and my daughters died. Gets bk and i'm nice enough to talk to him about seeing his daughter he just argues i don't want to meet with you ect. I have to keep telling him i don't want to be with you either! Like he doesn't get i'm just trying to give him a chance to see his daughter I tell him bequiet just give me a time he calls me a ***** tells me he has no respect for me ect. He can't set aside his feelings for 2 mins to even talk on the phone.It is very frustrating because i just had surgery and can't afford to file divorce right now. So i have no idea when visits will happen unless he files It 's a big mess and to me he should be anxious to see his daughter not yelling at me it's so discusting!

2007-11-26 04:08:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't believe this by the way

but i just wanna know what people think!!! ;)

xXXx

2007-11-26 04:06:52 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 04:06:06 · 8 answers · asked by Real Lucido 2 in Weddings

I have a real problem; my husband and I have been married for 4 years. Our marriage had been nice, not perfect but nice. He is a good guy and says he is crazy about me. The problem is he doesn’t like to talk. We worked all day and when we see each other at night I like to talk. He does not pay attention nor does he make the minimum effort to talk.

My family lives in a different country so it is not like I can just talk to them. I feel terribly sad and bored. I have opted out to go out with my friends mostly every night. I also get home late now because If I get there early I will be talking to the walls.

My husband gets mad when I go out, but he is not the best company in the world and I feel really frustrated with his lack of interest in sharing with me. I know he does not have problems at work. I have asked many times what’s going on and he says there is nothing wrong. He says it just his personality. HELP!

2007-11-26 04:04:11 · 32 answers · asked by ✿Houston_Girl✿ 4 in Marriage & Divorce