She said she doesn't wanna socialise with someone that does drugs, but it's not like he will have drugs with him when he is over, and he doesn't ask me to do drugs when I am with him, what should i do?
2007-11-26 04:34:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's not an addict, and I'm not gonna drop him cause he is a really good friend, and is never with me when he is doing drugs. I am protecting this guy, because even though we are just friends, I love him very much. Please take this into account, and understand. Thanks
2007-11-26 04:49:45 · update #1
Why do you want to be with someone who does drugs? It is her home, she has the right to say who comes into it. I say listen to your mother and find a new man who does NOT do drugs!
2007-11-26 04:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right to look after your friendship, you obviously love your friend and why should drugs come between you ? I think people are small minded - just bcos he takes drugs it doesnt mean you will.
drugs are damaging but I dont think people who take drugs should be treated like criminals -
drugs have become such a part of society that most people dont realise the seriousnessof them and the efect that they have on the rest of the drug users life.
Your Mum is just looking out for you - dont be mad at her,
2007-11-26 05:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much he is a good friend to you? Its' not worth it in the end. Your mom is only looking out for your best interest. And friends do have certain influence on us. A family member whose been alcoholic for more than 30 years now and yeah, unfortunately, he got into a bad crowd of drunks. His friend had a bad influence on him.
So, there are good people out there believe me that you can be good friends with. For this guy, I would say no. He'll probably likely to take advantage of your kind nature and possibly abuse that friendship as well.
2007-11-26 04:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your Mum is only looking out for you. Don't deceive her by having your friend around while she isn't there, if she ever found out there'd be all this trust stuff going down ....
Of course your pal doesn't ask you to do drugs when you're with him, don't you know how much that stuff costs?
Better he doesn't come over ... and if he doesn't get that and respect your mother, you don't need his type of friendship.
2007-11-26 10:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are smart enough to know your own mind. As long as your friend is not askin you to join in and you feel comfortable around him then i see no problem. If people dumped their mates for taling drugs ther would be a lot of fall outs in this world...
Lots of people go through stages but your friend mite decide that it's not all it's crakd up to be and stop.
2007-11-26 07:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mum is only doing what she believes is best for you. You may feel that you know best and your friend may be a nice enough person, but if you're under 18 and living with your mum/ parents, then I think it would be best to respect their wishes for now. Personally, I'd feel that if I had a child under 18, I wouldn't want them hanging around anyone weak enough to resort to substance/drug using as they could and may influence my child to (directly or indirectly) take drugs too.
2007-11-26 04:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt very much that any mom would want to see their child socialize with a drug addict...If I were you I wouldn't go around with this "Mate" because he or she will introduce you to drugs, sex and violence which you will then get into. This is just a speculation but if I were you, I would back-off...and fast.
2007-11-26 04:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, accept her decision and respect it because shes got every right to not allow a drug abuser in to her home. Nothing silly about that at all. Doesnt matter what kind of drugs it is.
So find somewhere else to hang out.
2007-11-26 04:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Laurence F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry babe, but your mum is right this time. Anyone who does drugs is a loser and he will drag you down with him if you are not careful. I know he is a mate but he is not a mate worth having - drop him!
2007-11-26 08:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to protect you, and keep bad influences away from you.. with good reason. You'd be surprised what you'd end up doing even if you say you never will. Besides, what if you were with him and he got busted and you got in trouble, too? When you're older, you'll understand.
2007-11-26 04:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋