Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

I'm having a birthday party Saturday and I have been super male deprived lately. Plenty of guys my age (14) are coming and I want to kiss someone. I've made out before so I know how. Ijust want some tips on initiating it or him initiating it. And maybe some tongue-tips too.

2007-11-26 05:01:34 · 19 answers · asked by Niki V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 04:59:45 · 33 answers · asked by Greg G 1 in Weddings

Is there somebody know about free legal sponcership immigration services office or people?
I will really appreciate your respond.
Thanks.Have a nice day

2007-11-26 04:59:45 · 1 answers · asked by snowwhite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I say inexpensive because I don't want the person to think I am trying to buy their affections. This could even be an action. I am running out of ideas.

2007-11-26 04:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Weddings

I mean just because we're there for you and we're not assholes to you that doesnt make us gay. But still why do you think that nice guys are gay and then if they're straight and taken why do you ***** and moan about every nice guy being taken? Maybe if you werent wasting time thinking we were gay and actually tried to get to know us before you made that assumption, you would have us too.

2007-11-26 04:57:06 · 36 answers · asked by Darkstar667 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so im going to be 18 in a couple of years and my parents are divorced... i go to my dads for vistitation and stuff but what do i do when i turn 18? stop going? im still going to be living with my mom and going to school.

2007-11-26 04:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by Kieri Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm really confused as to what I should do at this point. I got mad at him Saturday night because he wanted to go to this party and I was tired and looked like gross and I didn't want to go because I felt that I didn't look good to go in front of a bunch of ppl. But he could go I didn't care..so I sat in the car and talke on the phone and he got pissed for some reason because he thinks i dont like his friends or whatever..and last night he broke up with me and then we're back together again...my emotions and body is totally confused..and im totally hurt he would throw 2 years down the drain for i dont even know why??? how do i approach this situation to find out what the freak is up with him??? he was totally cold last night and totally was a different person?? idk.. im so confused and i want answers and i have TONS of questions for him?? how do i go about talking to him?? should it be on the phone today at lunch or in person?? through email?? plzz neeed advicee..

2007-11-26 04:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by Destiny Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 04:56:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife's brother's wife is the most irritating, self centered biatch, idiot I have ever met. She always has a feud going on, now the biatch is attacking my wife. My wife is an working mom, with an executive level position. The biatch thinks mom's should stay home taking care of the kids. Everyone knows she is jealous, but she is causing a rift in the family by accusing my wife of being rude to her when her father died 3 freaking years ago. Now the biatch won't show up on holiday's and family occasions. She is causing her husband to miss time with his family. He is a wuss, definetly p***y whipped. He will be cut off if he takes a stand. Should I confront him and tell him to grow some ba**s and straightern his wife out?

2007-11-26 04:54:41 · 21 answers · asked by Bob 3 in Family

I have a few questions to those who do....
Are you married to someone that has children older than you or are your children older than your spouse?
How much older?
How do the step children feel?
What do they say?
Do they know your real age?
How does the other members of your spouse family feel and how does your family feel about the age gap?
Thanks for answering...any info is helpful :-)

2007-11-26 04:54:16 · 2 answers · asked by Doubtful 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do we have sex ed at skool , i have it every tuesday and its embarrasing and boring i mean really really boring...they try to stop u having sex but if u wanna they convince u not to....its stupid in my opinion

2007-11-26 04:54:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was really drunk one night and hooked up with a guy I just met. [I've never done anything like that before and I know I shouldn't have been so forward, so please don't judge.]

It's been about a month. He's been in touch ever since. He texted the night I left to make sure I made it back to my friends place safely. Called the next day. He hasn't gone more than a day or two without texting/messaging me and we've talked on the phone several times, sometimes for over an hour.

He's said things like:

"You really need to come back and visit."
"I love talking to you, seriously call anytime"
"You're so funny, I'm all about seeing you any time you can. I'll make time to see you"....etc.

Our personalities click. I'd like to see him again but it makes me nervous that he might have an ulterior motive to being nice, since I put out the first night we were together.

What do you think? Is he being genuine?

2007-11-26 04:53:39 · 24 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is going through a rough spell at work, little money coming in - which we have been there before, I know things are going to get better and I am as stressed as he is and I work too. So lately he has been very disinterested in the bedroom and seems to be turned off if I come on to him. Never had this problem before - used to have to fight him off. Like this weekend he was remodeling the bathroom and I tried to help but he became frustrated because he messed it up. He snapped at me and I brushed it off. Then at the end of the day I tried to flirt/mess with him and he just couldn't be bothered. My feelings were hurt and it turned into a big fight and him telling me to go **** myself, "What do you want from me" and "if you can't accept me just leave me". And all I wanted was a little attention. Then when I back off and give him time to think he is all over me, which was what I wanted in the first place! I keep doing the same thing expecting a different result. Please advise me!

2007-11-26 04:53:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You know the saying "Always a bridesmaid, never a bride"? Well, I'm having problems dealing with the fact that I'm never a bridesmaid and always a guest.

I don't want to sound conceited here, but my friends always tell me how I'm such a good friend to them and how much they appreciate me helping them whenever they need it.

I've helped so many of my friends when it came time for their weddings and have probably spent more than thier bridesmaids when the brides asked me if I could help with this and that. I even planned one of my friend's bachelorette parties for her because she couldn't trust her MOH with it!

A good friend of mine told me this weekend that she and her boyfriend of 8 years are getting married this Friday and having a big ceremony next year. She's as sweet as she can be and I can't see her asking me for too much, but once again I'm not a bridesmaid (the groom-to-be has already asked my boyfriend to be one of his groomsmen) and I can’t help but feel like this will be the same thing all over again because it happens every time!

How to I deal with this jealousy?

2007-11-26 04:51:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Let me give you some background info first. I attended a church for 15 years. During that time I volunteered endlessly and gave of myself, often sacrificing family time to do so. I had few needs but there came a time my mother passed away, not one friend came from church. Just the retired part time pastor and his wife. My actual pastor did not call, visit or attend the funeral. It was very sad not to receive that support.

I forgave and moved forward. Then a year ago my husband was seriously ill, needed more than one surgery. I put in prayer requests and not once did my pastor call. One of his associates did but they never followed up and eventually they left the church. I put in another prayer request when things got worse and my pastor never phoned me.

During this time I was volunteering at the church every week, he would see me and walk right on by. A friend commented on how disgusted she was by him and his behavior and she and her husband left the church.

2007-11-26 04:51:04 · 17 answers · asked by Jazzy 4 in Weddings

My boyfriend has some feelings for his ex. Which is a serious problem. I also feel like he wants to do more smoking than be with me. Please give reasonable answers. :]

2007-11-26 04:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by brittbeez666 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 04:48:18 · 41 answers · asked by Sadie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok I have been with a 23 yearold since I was almost 17, I am 23 now and have completed college, have an excellent paying job! and have given birth to 3 wonderful children, when I ask for a question to be answered I dont expect someone to come out and call my husband a pedophile! we have accomplished alot together, I just wanted some ideas on how to rekindle the fire geeeeeez! thanks alot for the rude comments!

2007-11-26 04:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by bobby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you believe it can you comment or give me an example

2007-11-26 04:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This new girl just moved into my class yr 2 in d university..it is obvious she is into me,she tells me she like this or that about me she says things like "hey u r breaking my heart or dont u know u r my main person" main person? what d ***k is that? we have lots of fun together, but today when i avoided sitting close to her in d bus, she landed the bomb .that she has a bf out of town,and she told me his name! ! then what does she still want from me? because imediately after this she invited me 2 her room 4 d first time (tommorow) saying she wants to cook 4 me and help me with some school work....so Girls what should i do?..all my life, all d girls i connected with, always say something about their bf when ever i act a little different then mayb after one year they all tell me i was their "Love" eventhough they still have their bfs..so what should i do? i dont wanna loose this girl too? i wanna kiss her 2mrw out of d blue? nd if she hates it, then i would leave 4eva..should i do this?

2007-11-26 04:44:57 · 2 answers · asked by Sly 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter is getting married next week and we are on a supertight budget

2007-11-26 04:44:54 · 17 answers · asked by msdee 1 in Weddings

I feel as if i dont give him some love or ask him to show me some love there wouldnt be any love he says im over reacting and i always wanna be on top of him when he is relaxing what do u think please help

2007-11-26 04:44:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my girlfriend's yahoo answers account she left herself signed in at my house so i figured I'd use it and ask a question.

I'm a freshman at a community college and my major is chemistry. I took 4 courses and dropped 1 because I didn't feel like taking it. Now Im failing 2 of the 3 classes I'm taking.

My girlfriend is taking 5 classes at a university about 2 hours from home. She's coming back to community college next semester to be closer to me and because she hates her college. She's taking 5 classes next semester as well.

When she found out that I was only getting 4 credits this semester she flipped out. She asked me what i planned to do with my life and i told her the truth continue working at shop rite until I finish school.

All she keeps telling me is how dissappointed she is in me.
In high school I had a 3.2 with an 1500 on my SATS.

She told me she is starting to re-think
this relationship because we are going seperate paths

WHY IS SHE SO UPSET WITH ME???!!!

2007-11-26 04:44:24 · 11 answers · asked by Nnay 1 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking about doing this, would it be recieved well, I know I like the clean look on my lady, I hate getting hair in my mouth.

2007-11-26 04:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law tends to be nosey, judgemental, and rude. For example: She came to visit us last Friday & brought 6 of my husband's nephews. She never mentioned brining all the boys & I barely had enough food.Somehow, they ended up staying the night. I wasn't prepared. I was bothered but kept my cool but when she came back to get them - I stayed in my room.

She is a single, born again Christian who gossips a lot. She used to be promiscuous & abused alcohol & drugs.

Since she lives in LA & we live in San Diego, we don't see her too much. In December, my husband & I are going on a cruise & she'll watch our daughter. I feel like I have to hide our bills when she stays @ our house.

My question is - when she pi$$es me off - should I just take it or stand up to her? I feel like if I take it, she'll keep doing it but if I stand up to her - it will cause problems between my husband & I.

It was worse before we had our daughter & I would avoid visting her.

2007-11-26 04:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by SpringChick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a girl for a while and we remained friends for quite sometime. I recently found out that she is sleeping with a married man, and several other men in fact. This angers me so much and I really do not know what to do about it. I know I am not dating her, but why do I find it so bothersome, especially the married man who she works with?!?!

2007-11-26 04:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you pull a girl??? my friends keep saying my gf is ready... but im not sure excatly what there on about

2007-11-26 04:41:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 04:38:53 · 5 answers · asked by Something_Else 1 in Singles & Dating

We talk on the phone every night and we talk all the time at school.
He always wants to give me hugs and holds me.
He came to all my soccer games and held me when we lost in the state semi finals he was there'
He is always there when i need some1
He flirts with me all the time.
I just dont understand he is sending me mixed signals

2007-11-26 04:37:26 · 5 answers · asked by CcSsOcCeRcHiK14 1 in Singles & Dating

It's her birthday and I want to get a blanket embroidered. Any ideas what it should say? Something short and sweet.

2007-11-26 04:36:38 · 29 answers · asked by TheWanderer 2 in Singles & Dating