I'm really confused as to what I should do at this point. I got mad at him Saturday night because he wanted to go to this party and I was tired and looked like gross and I didn't want to go because I felt that I didn't look good to go in front of a bunch of ppl. But he could go I didn't care..so I sat in the car and talke on the phone and he got pissed for some reason because he thinks i dont like his friends or whatever..and last night he broke up with me and then we're back together again...my emotions and body is totally confused..and im totally hurt he would throw 2 years down the drain for i dont even know why??? how do i approach this situation to find out what the freak is up with him??? he was totally cold last night and totally was a different person?? idk.. im so confused and i want answers and i have TONS of questions for him?? how do i go about talking to him?? should it be on the phone today at lunch or in person?? through email?? plzz neeed advicee..
2007-11-26 04:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by Destiny Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also..im scared to approach the situation because i dont want him to break up with me AGAIN...he has never acted like this before idk what is wrong with him
2007-11-26 04:57:25 · update #1
I have this feeling inside me like i dont even love him anymore...like he seriously broke my heart....and my body and everything is so confused on what its feeling..i cant explain it.
2007-11-26 04:58:41 · update #2
I think you need to see him in person and have a heart to heart with him and let him know how you feel. Ask him whats going on. Let him know that you do like his friends.
2007-11-26 05:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LS♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot to learn. This guy is not going to be the only one in your life. There will be many more before you find the right one.
If you are going to talk to him, it is better in person. You can't see the truth over a phone or e-mail.
It sounds to me that he is 'looking to see if the grass is greener on the other side.'
The 2 yrs down the drain, it was a lesson that you learned from. Stay out of serious relationships and try just dating.
The relationships are always better. The guy is always on his best behavior.
I hope I helped you in some way.
IN PERSON - LET HIM DOWN EASY - He'll come running back- Than you can have the upper hand, but, I say "Dump him!" and play the field.
2007-11-26 05:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by puzzled 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, you need to confront him in person then you can see what his reactions are when you ask him your questions. If he gets mad at all the questions that you are asking him and he can not give you a truthful answer then he is not worth your time. He is just going to hurt you in the long run. Now you said that this all happened because you did not feel well and did not want to go to a party with him? What the h***? And you told him to go by himself? There is really something wrong with him. I would go and not complain about it if I were him, and have fun and then come and hangout with you. That is how it should have been.
2007-11-26 05:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by joseph b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to break up with you but you won't take the hint, so he had to resort to doing it in a way that hurt you. Take the hint and go find someone else. It doesn't matter why he wants to break up, maybe he is interested in someone else, the chance it is something you did is very remote.
If you want to talk to him, do it in person and just say you are confused. Don't take blame for this, perhaps it is just time for him to move on and you too. You are a worthwhile person in your own right and don't need his approval nor his presence to prove it. Move on.
2007-11-26 05:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all always remember that everything in life happens for a reason and for you two to break up and get back together was not a good move.Do whatever action makes you feel the most comfortable
2007-11-26 05:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him as soon as you feel ready, whether it's in person or on the phone. If he's worth anything he'll have to listen to you because you're his girlfriend. If you're still worried he'll get mad just say to him that you don't want to make the same mistake again. It might make him feel a bit less angry if he thinks you're just trying to do something for him, if that makes any sense.
2007-11-26 05:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Samm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know how you feel my boyfriend and i broke up last night..for the last time..its some thing we have been doing for the past 4 + years.. and i finelly told myself no more..its not worth the pain and if he really loves me it wouldnt be like that..he would treat me with more respact...anywoman is to beautiful to be with an
***hole so just think about what u really want and go with your heart..life is to short to be unhappy...
2007-11-26 05:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by bubblez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him in person, and ask him the questions u need to ask, if he can't handle it, u don't need him, a relationship is about talking and communication and most of all honesty, so tell him how u feel
2007-11-26 05:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you don't really care for him at all.So, y bother
2007-11-26 05:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soooo...what are you 14?
2007-11-26 05:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by bombreakker 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋