I dated a girl for a while and we remained friends for quite sometime. I recently found out that she is sleeping with a married man, and several other men in fact. This angers me so much and I really do not know what to do about it. I know I am not dating her, but why do I find it so bothersome, especially the married man who she works with?!?!
2007-11-26 04:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She definitely shouldn't be doing a married man. That's just sick. If I were in your place it would make me angry too, but there's nothing you can do about it since you aren't dating her. You can try to talk to her if you would like and let her know how you feel, but it may not even help her. You should definitely tell her that the married man thing is bothering you. That's just wrong. Just be her friend and talk to her about it. You never know if your talk will help her unless you do it.
2007-11-26 04:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're angry because you've found that the woman you loved and still care for would stoop so low as to help a man break his vows. You see that she has low morals and it makes you wonder if maybe somehow by being with you that says that you're a no good just as she is. She has no regard for the feelings of other women and will do anything that stands still long enough. That's why you're disgusted and bothered. Any rational person would be. I'd say maybe her friendship is something you could do without, but at least let her know that her behavior is deplorable and what goes around comes around. She needs to think of what she's doing to these unsuspecting women. Someone needs to wake her up. I hope that you say something.
2007-11-26 12:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have feelings for her and maybe the fact that the man she is sleeping with is MARRIED. He has someone he is married to and you want to spend that time with her?.. Its just not a fair situation but I would say if she is that "sexual" you can find someone who is worth worrying about.
2007-11-26 12:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by tasteofink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe deep down you do like her a little more than you think. Or if not, then maybe this anger's you because she is such a good friend and you are just thinking about how the situation could turn out.
2007-11-26 12:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u still have feelings for her and u don't like the thought of her being with another man, and plus your scared of her getting hurt because sleeping with a married is jus asking for trouble
2007-11-26 12:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple you have some feelings for her and she doing things that you don't like. Just move on and don't worry about her, she will get what is coming to her. You need to be just responsible for you. I hope this helps.
2007-11-26 12:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be so possessive of a *****? She's river water. Let everybody drink.
2007-11-26 12:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Naamoku 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah... not to be a dick but she sounds like a s-l-u-t, you should probably do your best to forget about her and move on.
2007-11-26 12:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋