I mean just because we're there for you and we're not assholes to you that doesnt make us gay. But still why do you think that nice guys are gay and then if they're straight and taken why do you ***** and moan about every nice guy being taken? Maybe if you werent wasting time thinking we were gay and actually tried to get to know us before you made that assumption, you would have us too.
2007-11-26 04:57:06 · 36 answers · asked by Darkstar667 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not saying that EVERY girl thinks that, just some of them......no offense or anything though.
2007-11-26 04:57:50 · update #1
lol no im not gay nor have i been called gay. but almost everywhere i turn around i hear a girl call someguy gay just because he's nice to her...
2007-11-26 05:03:37 · update #2
95% Of women go for the bad boy type, for what reason I have no idea. Some men just have more feminine ways than others and you may be that type. It doesn't make you gay though, just more of a kind hearted and sensitive man. The ones you speak of that are moaning their the ones that went for the bad boys had their kids tied their tubes and then think a nice guy is going to want them. Wrong. Been there done that. I wouldn't even worry about it dude. Let them think what they want.
2007-11-26 05:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny B Good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a nice, sensitive, and respectful guy and I've been considered gay a number of times. The truth is, I'm the furthest thing from gay. I guess because I treat girls with respect and don't go groping them and treating them like an object, I seem gay. That's the stereotypical guy that girls go for. Until girls grow up by being burned repeatedly by the jerk guys, they don't want the nice guys and some of them consider us gay.
The girls that whine about the nice guys being taken don't really want them because they end up going out with a jerk of a guy. Girls need to grow up faster to realize the worth of us nice guys.
When I hear that girls biologically mature faster than boys, I know I'm an exception.
2007-11-26 11:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Intuitive B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, most of the girls think that yes. Your true about girls moaning about saying that every nice guy is taken, blah blah..
Anyways, maybe some of the girls have already gone through bad relationships such as cheating, him forcing you, or him not calling you, being late for date, all that stuff that girls hate..
But, yes there are guys that are nice, not all guys are nice but there are, i guess. I wish I could meet that special someone..!
2007-11-26 05:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like nice guys. I don't care for a** ho*es who think they're prettier than you. So you were right when you said not ALL girls like jerk. But some of us think you're (not YOU in particular Love) gay because nice guys are a little feminine. I love guys like that. My best friend is just that type of person and he gets the same thing. Guys like that are sweehearts though.
2007-11-26 05:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by ღ♥Jess♥ღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you saying and I dont think that every nice guy is gay by any means. We like nice guys!!! Some ladies only pick the shallow ones though.
2007-11-26 05:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by enochsangel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They can cry about all the good guys being gone, but those same ones date guys that end up treating them like crap. It's a cycle that I know several personal friends are in and it will probably not be broken by them anytime soon. It is what it is. Not all girls think like that, though, so no stereotyping!
2007-11-26 05:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by John 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they do or that he must be a wimp or something. Being nice doesn't mean a guy is gay nor does it mean he is a wimp. The most respectful guys I know (including me) would and have laid the smack down when the time called for it (and I dont mean on the woman)
2007-11-26 05:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Young girls seem to be attracted to the ****** type. Then after they get burned over and over again by jerks they learn that the nice guys are worth hanging on to. I personally can't understand why women like jerks, I sure wouldn't want to be with a *****.
2007-11-26 05:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only young girls do. They want a bad boy until they get burned. Then later they wonder why there are no nice guys. Older girls love nice guys
2007-11-26 07:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of girls think that because they got screwed over by the assholes and usually don't realize that the nice guys would be a good match for them until it's too late.
2007-11-26 05:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Briana 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋