If so, is he grateful or does he just expect it as his right?
2007-11-26 02:12:16 · 4 answers · asked by tiggertoo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me explain, for two years i've been paying £400 every month, a figure i came up with coz i felt guilty about leaving him. I gave him the house and my children are 18 and 20, i ve also been paying half of their college and university education on top of the maintenence. as a result i m now in massive debt but that's life and i can cope with it. i had to say that i can't pay the monthly maintenence but i will still send an allowance to my daughter at university and pay for all my son's education. My ex has consequently started threatening me and came round to my new house shouting abuse and hammering on my door. I am not bitter or regret anything, just wondered if anyone was in the same situation.
2007-11-26 02:36:02 · update #1
oh and he is quite capable of working, just has the attitude that he won't work for anyone for the basic minimum wage.
2007-11-26 02:38:23 · update #2
I paid temporary spousal support while we were separated (since under the law we were still married). He felt it was his right, he may have felt grateful but never said so. I also pay him child support and that will continue for many years to come, I am fairly sure he feels it's his right under the law, which it is.
2007-11-26 02:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jen70 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not me it's the other way around here, that's the least he can do for me after 31 years of B/S !!!!!
2007-11-26 10:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
my ex wife was order to do so to date she hasn't paid a penny neither did anyone go after her, while my friend didn't pay a penny to his ex wife and he nearly got jailed for it. welcome to america.
2007-11-26 10:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by DJ M 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Expects it as his right....why not, if it was reversed then the woman would expect it as well.
2007-11-26 10:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋