2007-11-26 00:57:10 · 43 answers · asked by Girlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok i would never leave my husband just need to know that it is ok to have these thoughts, is it normal?
2007-11-26 01:11:44 · update #1
Take your car for an oil change, and say to the mechanic "while you're at it, will you lube me up and grease my nipples?"
Mechanics use the terms "lube up" and "grease nipples" every day, so by using the correct terminology you are sure to get the best level of "service", and won't get "taken for a ride".
If you can't bring yourself to go through with it, or if you'd feel silly saying that to your mechanic, you could maybe masturbate with a spanner, or get your husband to use various car-related paraphernalia on you as sex toys.
2007-11-26 01:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by feeltherisingbuzz 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Here are some facts that will help you decide since you haven't learned them yet:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want honest answers from a man that doesn't
lie anymore.
2007-11-26 05:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it's normal!!! Don't worry, we all have them. Problems can arise however if you decide to act on those naughty thoughts - if you leave them as just fantasies, there's really no problem.
2007-11-26 01:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have all the naughty thoughts you want, just don't act on them. If you can't be around the mechanic and maintain control find a new mechanic.
2007-11-26 01:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by USMC Wife, Pit Bull Mama 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's very normal to have naughty thoughts about someone other than your spouse. Enjoy them for the simple fantasy that they are.
2007-11-26 01:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm that is betraying your husband a little bit (if he knew, he would probably be hurt). My advice: try making up little fantasies in your mind about your husband. Like, you got separated for some reason, and when you reunite you're both so hot and successful and you fall in love again. That's always a fun one to think about.
2007-11-26 03:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. You are bored and falling in love/ being naughty is exciting and easy to do.
2007-11-26 01:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband too much to ever lose him then do nothing,
Being unfaithful is one of those things that u can never take back or sweep under the carpet, it will come bk 2 haunt u time n time again - n the lust will be long forgotten when your heart is broken, i wouldnt like to be in yr shoes at the moment - good luck girl .x.
2007-11-26 01:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to have crushes on others so long as you don;t act on them!
I think it's normal for us to find others attractive. being married doesn't stop that but it does stop it going any further.
2007-11-26 01:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that your thoughts are normal and go about your day. It doesn't say anything about your marriage or you as a person. It just means that you are sexual and that you have fantasies like any other normal person. The greatest sex organ is the brain so use it and maybe it can help spice up your sex life with your husband. Good luck.
2007-11-26 01:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by No one 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
having naughty thoughts are ok as long as u dont act on them because the grass is never greener on the other side. if your marrage is a bit dull at the moment concentrate on spicing things up
2007-11-26 02:25:52 · answer #11 · answered by Vix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋