There's this girl I've liked for ages since we worked together and she is attracted to me even though now I've moved to another city, we are in contact now and then. At that time she invited me on a trip but I couldn't go due to short of cash & I was dating another girl. Then recently I went to see her & we hit it off + physically but not complete sex. Weve never had a chat about how we feel (even thoughs he told me on chat before that she was fallin for me but had taken a drink). Now we chat every other wk, usually I start it, but she always responds & its v friendly. She has huge work load so even tho I've invited her to visit..its difficult (also she has to visit her sister at next vacation )so I told her if she wants to see me , I can go to her after the nxt vacn & she said that's cool. last words from her were stay in touch..do you think she is interested in me in a romantic way? I mean we've been physical before..do I have a chance?
2007-11-26 08:50:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you moved away and she is staying in contact with you and finding ways to see you. my answer is yeah but you need to hear those words come out of her mouth. Ask her
2007-11-26 08:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly it seems that you do have a chance with her, except that it won't happen over night. Distanced relationships tend to cause friction between one another causing that unwantedness at times. So when she does offer that she wants to see you it means only good things on your behalf. I mean that whatever ya'll had the last time you saw each other it was good enough that she wants to see you some more and get to know what kind of person you truly are down under. And if you have it in your mind that you want to be physical it'll likely show through your body language, which is hardly ever good "DESPERATE"!!! So the next time ya'll see each other hit her with questions that tell you about herself, her past, her family, if you don't already know. Then without her having to ask you give her your life story, if ya'll haven't done this already. Other than that a strong bond must be built for a relationship to last. Build that and show her that your as good as it gets.
2007-11-26 17:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. She's obviously interested and friendly. And while others may not agree, long-distance romances have been known to prosper, despite the difficulty of getting together. If the romance gets serious, one or the other will have to make the sacrifice to move so the couple can be together. That's really more the issue than whether or not she's interested. Good luck and bon voyage??
2007-11-26 17:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way you'll find out is to ask her...bring it up in a conversation casually and see how she responds...nobody can give u an a true and complete answer but her herself...i think you should go for it...you'll never know unless you go for it and ask...you might b surprised how she responds and she might jus b waiting for you to initiate the conversation
2007-11-26 17:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that you do have a chance. you guys seem like you have known each other for a while and probably know each better than any one else. when you see her next tell her how you feel.
best of luck!
lexiii
2007-11-26 17:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by lexii1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking of sex, yes, she is also thinking of the same.
If you are thinking of long term, it is hard to say.
2007-11-26 16:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-11-26 16:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, confidence in yourself goes a long freakin way with girls.....but i fear you have been friend tagged....if so, you have no chance in hell.
2007-11-26 17:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by john b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋