question about sex?

Question

can someone give me some tips on the girl on top position? Thanks.

Answer 1

if you are on top, you will probably either be facing his head or facing his feet. Facing his head is better for getting the right angle, and staying in eye contact - seeing how what you do feels to him.
Another thing, you will probably be straddling him, don't be afraid to move further forward or further back to get him aimed just right. Before you put him in, it's very stimulating to slowly stroke yourself along his length - rub him between your lips. But bend him UP towards his stomach, not down, I understand that hurts.
don't try to bounce, at least not your first time on top. I can never keep him in me if I try that, it always slips out. rocking your hips back and forth works better. Then if you lean forward on your hands you can raise and lower yourself on him.
Being on top is great, because you control how deep and how fast or slow, and you can get great contact with whatever you want to rub. Take your time and explore the sensations thoroughly. You might get tired if you try to hold yourself up too much.

Answer 2

From a guy's perspective, here are some things I like when a girl is on top. Excuse me if I get a little graphic, but you asked..

1) First, lube up.. I'm a fan of the natural so feel free to give a little oral first. You don't have to do it for long, just enough to tease, get him excited, and most importantly, wet.
2) Grab a hold and put it in. Start nice and slow, get yourself wet (if he hasn;'t already by oral or fingers) and just kinda ride him, up and down.
3) I'm sure it'll take practice but make sure you're going from the top of his penis, down to about 1/4 to halfway down. For me, I don't get much feeling below that. On the other hand, if he is a minute man, going all the way down is probably good cause it'll make him go longer.
4) Throw some girations in there, throw some leaning back in there. Circular is always good and so is changing speeds. At the same time, being in tune with your partner is good. Understanding their sounds or queues of what is feeling good and what isn't. This takes time in a relationship to know what each individual likes and doesn't like.
5) And anytime you pleasure yourself while having sex with him (rubbing your clitoris), not only is he already feeling good, but you're giving an extra visual.. from your perspective, it'll probably make it feel better for you.

Now, other than that in ways to make it feel better for you I don't know. I know most of my exes liked doggystyle because of the angle and all that jazz, but I don't know specifically what they did when they were on top to make it better for them. I always enjoyed it myself and know when they enjoyed but I never asked them what their technique for themselves were. I could always tell when the ex was really getting off and not cause her chest turned red when she orgasmed.

Answer 3

theres only two that come to mind.. girl on top facing you & girl on top with her back facing you (reverse cowgirl position)

& a modification to the regular girl on top position is if the girl has her feet flat on the ground or bed, instead of her on her knees, get it?

& if shes facing you and she leans backward a little bit, it hits her g spot straight on and feels better for her

Answer 4

Climb up, put the key in the ignition and go, girl ! LOL.
Have a good trip.

P.S.: what's the "lazy astronaut position" somebody here mentioned, ha, ha, ha ?

Answer 5

Well you get on top, and ride him good and hard, then slowly sway your hips up and down and back and forth, then grab his hand and cup it over your breast. Then slowly lick and suck his finger while you thrust him in even further!

Answer 6

When your on top, Just move to what feels good. Maybe ask your mate for help, like have him move your hips.

Answer 7

You lean forward for pleasure for him, lean back for pleasure for you..
hooking your feet over his legs, and leaning back , increases your pleasure even more
From there, it's a matter of speed, slower makes him last longer, faster he comes sooner...You work him up, you cool him down.....

Answer 8

give on top! she does most work...u just have to keep her horny rub her nipples, kiss, do stuff to keep her horny and nothing much to it...just let her do the moving..sometimes u could do it for yourself makes it rougher or faster girls like that stuff

Answer 9

what you do is get him to lay flat.. rub him until he gets big.. then sit on top of it penatration.. put it in all the way then what you do id balance your self with your arms infront of you on his chest ..then you move up and down side to side

Answer 10

Yes, give her the tip first...