Is it bad to get turned on by a female even though you are married and you KNOW you arent gay???

Question

I love my husband to death, and I have NEVER cheated and dont ever plan too, but he is away in Boston and I live in Cali. I am so frustrated sexually,we used to do it like 5 times a day and lately woman have been turning me on and trying to flirt hardcore, what do I do???
Only mature responses please!!!!

P.s guys......
My husband considers the fact that I am attracted to females as a threat, he is in no way interested in a 3 some, neither am I to be honest.

Answer 1

Perfectly healthy hetero people can be attracted to others of the same sex, especially when 'hungry' and not able to do anything about it. There's nothing wrong with you at all.

I applaud your commitment to your marriage and the promises you made.
The only suggestion I can think of while your fella is away is a comfortable, discreet vibe.

Answer 2

You are probably not gay just sexually frustrated and curious. I can't really tell you what to do without implecating you to cheat. Maybe you should talk to your husband about it, most guys are up for a threesome LOL. Then theres the saying that it isn't cheating if its in different area codes. YOu could be just looking for new experience to. A female will probably give you the best organsm of your life, because they know G-spots that guys just can't hit.

Answer 3

You have a sex drive so high that you enjoy sex up to 5 times a day. It was a big mistake getting married, especially to someone who is not willing to share you with anyone. That leaves the burden of all this required sex completely on his shoulders for the rest of his life. What man can take on such a challenge? You need to be single and get all that wild sex out of your system. Then when you're ready to have sex no more than twice a week, you might want to think about getting married.

Answer 4

Your just at that point in your life when you feel like experimenting. Maybe, you feel that as long as it is with a woman...It's not cheating. If that's the case, let me tell you that it still is cheating. You could just as easily get emotionally involved with a female and that is what cheating is all about. Don't do it. Please don't ruin the relationship your in now just for a few minutes of pleasure.

Answer 5

You are bi-curious. You are heterosexual but occasionally aroused by the same sex and curious what it would be like to act on this.

Some people try it some don't. Be careful in deciding cause it is still adultery and can be a major ego damaging situation for your spouse (even beyond a hetero affair).

Good luck.

Answer 6

You should take care of yourself while on the phone with your husband! If these feelings continue once he's back in town, you might want to tell him and suggest a threesome. It's okay if he's involved and you're honest.

Answer 7

you and your husband should get together and talk about it it will pose a problem if there is no honesty within this relationship. if sexually you do not feel secure ask him to move to cali or you move to Boston, and see how things go good luck

Answer 8

If you weren't interested in 3 some you wouldn't be writing it.
I think you are and there is nothing wrong with it.
You don't have to be gay to get turned on by a female.
You are curious and that's human nature, whether you want to do anything about it - that's you choice.

Answer 9

Most likely these feelings are purely due to the fact that your hubby is out of town. When you are used to getting sexual attention on a regular basis, and suddenly its gone, anything and everyone turns us on. Just remember that your hubby is coming home, and try to save up all that energy for when he comes home! :) Good luck!

Answer 10

Well you said you would NEVER cheat, so there is nothing you can do except wait for your hubby to come home. Maybe discuss it with him. He may be open to you being with a woman, who knows.