Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

Everytime I checked his stuff, I found a lot of pictures I drew that I gave him, whole lot of letters I wrote to him, and pictures of me. I thought he gonna threw away but he didn't. All that stuff he kept are from our high school year.

2007-11-26 08:01:22 · 18 answers · asked by lil_shanshan113084 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone know good jokes to make around girls to make them feel comfortable , but i dont want to make bad jokes,,,,, what i waana do is something like cocky funny comments that would make a girl laugh but not make her think im a clown

2007-11-26 07:58:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 07:56:52 · 23 answers · asked by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i'm cool wit this one girl that my friend absolutley hates because she started a huge awful rumor about her so do you think i should be cool wit that girl that started the rumor or not

2007-11-26 07:56:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When one partner starts making decisions based on irrational superstition and the other bases them on logic and reality, it's bound to cause problems, no?

2007-11-26 07:55:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was standing by the locker by myself, Eric and his friends were near my locker.. his friends were leaving (from around my locker to go to the caff) and he turned around and stood right beside me (my locker was closed and i was waiting for my friend to meet me there) and i was standing there beside him too. his friends were not there and it was pretty obvious that he stood there cause i was there.. so anyways we stood there for a good 5 or 10 minutes not saying ANYTHING!! it was silence.. i turned around and looked at him and he just stood straight and was staring into space.. i was gonna talk to him but all i was thinking was.. well he doesnt look like hes ready for me to talk to him cause hes just staring ahead...
thing i dont get is though, is the fact that he left his friends to stand there beside me and said NOTHING!!... i was waiting for him to say something.. but he didnt.. so my friend came and i left him.. and he was still standing there by himself.. and i turned around and

2007-11-26 07:54:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who can answer this question , we know what we want and when we what it but now who will share it with us, me, you ? so will you marry me , never seeing my face hearing my voice.

2007-11-26 07:47:58 · 25 answers · asked by foxy_blue00 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to know how to make someone fall in love with me and how to seduce a lady.

2007-11-26 07:46:02 · 4 answers · asked by BigJoe 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to file for divorce. As a matter of fact, I paid the filing fees and I have a form to mail to her so she can sign it and send it back to me. The only problem is I have no idea where she lives or what her phone number is. Is there anything else I can do? I already spent $374 filing fees. I don't want to hire a private investigator or spend anymore money than I have to. Can I tell the court that she abandoned the marriage?

2007-11-26 07:45:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this girl for almost 8 months now! She is of greek cypriot descent and absoulutley amazing in everyway! pity is she is going out with someone else who is also greek! i on the otherhand am English/Jap! she doesnt love him and is not happy the only reason why she ever started the relationship was because of the family connections between them and how their parents get along so well with each other! i don't know what to do as she wants to be with me but she doesnt want to hurt her parents hearts especially her mother! but she wants to be with me and i can't bare to see her in so much pain! i have tried to walk away but that causes even more issues and she misses me even more! Any ideas how i could get her 2 be more brave and she has even admitted herself that she is 2 scared and 2 much of a coward 2 fight for what she truly wants ..and she is definite on that...that thing being me.

2007-11-26 07:44:59 · 3 answers · asked by Tatan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby got mad for me not paying attention to him since Thanksgiving(that's what he said). We had full home from relatives that where home to spend Thanksgiving & a weeding. But still we were fine or that's what I thougth we even went to the movies alone on Friday. BUt on Sat. we were just arriving at the weeding and he got mad & offended me. We left the party and had a big discusison. Igot really mad because he knew I wanted to be at the weeding cuz most of the family was going to be there & most of them I didn't see them since 2 or 3 yrs ago. I couln't go back alone to the party because he hid the keys so we stay howm. And the rest of the weekend was ruined. I am still ready mad cuz I really wanted to be there.But t because of him we couldn't be..NOW he is sorry & wants to make it up.. the problem is ,time can't go back and I don't know for how long I will be mad. I can forgive but can't forget.. What to do? I feel sad and mad too! Should I just let it go like that & forget it?

2007-11-26 07:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok I really don't have a question, but I just wanted to share that I'm married to the most amazing man ever! He's a soldier in the US Army and he looks so hot in his uniform!!
I've been married a couple of times, but this time I got lucky!
I'm so happy!! YaY me!

2007-11-26 07:40:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it that most women like more/most and expect most from their man in foreplay? Is it touching, hugging, cuddling, tickling, kissing, licking, squeezing, or all? What more? And what usually gives them more pleasure and joy and fun in foreplay? What are the best spots/zones on a woman's body that a man should never forget or pass by?
Prefer women to answer this one.

2007-11-26 07:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day my mother called me & told me that there was one less virgin in our house (my boyfriend and I have been telling my baby sister to wait or she may regret it, she is 15) so automatically i figured she was talking about my sister. We were at the movies & getting ready to head in & I told her i would call her back afterwards so I could hear the story. I informed my boyfriend of what i was told. After the movie i looked at my cell and saw that i had a voicemail from my mom. I listened to it and it was my mother saying she was just kidding they were just joking around. This really upset me since I have been totally serious about the whole loss of virginity, I don't want my sister to be like me & regret it. I began to cry when i called my mother back & was telling her not to joke about that & that she really upset me, she wouldnt stop laughing. That is when my boyfriend grabbed the phone from me (he was pissed) & screamed at her & told her she was a bad mother

2007-11-26 07:38:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a woman 46 who likes to be alone. From a very early age 15, i was kicked out of home & began living alone. I have less than a handful of very close friends but they are lifelong, 30 plus years. My children are grown up. Husband says he does not know anybody like me, he loves to soicalize, can easily spend 4 - 5 hours with people, poss longer. For me it is a strain, i just really am happy to be on my own, i don't care if i see anybody or not, if someone visits i am always aware of time & always relieved when they leave. I like to eat alone, i have a problem when invited to others for meals, i feel i suffer.
It has been that bad that i know i would enjoy to eat alone in a public toilet than to eat with others. I dread visitors in general, i now live overseas so don't see my very close friends only yearly. but i really do love the peace, freedom of being alone, i love to eat in peace & enjoy my food 100%, with others its 10%. Husband said i should not have got married.

2007-11-26 07:36:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I ask because I found out my husband has some strange issues that I cant accept.  I would leave him for them, but we have three kids together.  I am a stay at home mom, and  he has a great paying job.  I worry that if I leave now, I have nothing, and risk losing custody of my kids to him, I have just started my own home business that isnt profitable yet, but I think it looks pretty good in the future. I also know that right now I am with my kids 24/7, and can keep a close eye on them. If I have to share custody they might be with him for weeks at a time without me being able to help them. He has never hurt any children, but his sick habits include fantasy stories with children. I've checked with the police and there is nothing illegal about it, but its gross!! I've talked to him about getting counceling and he wont. Is it wrong to stay with him so I dont have to share custody?

2007-11-26 07:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by crzyldy3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband went out yesterday with some old friends that came to visit us from out of state they left the house like around 1:30pm to visit another friend here in town and he had told me that he wasn't going to be late... well it comes to be that his friends wanted to stop at a bar and watch the football game that started at 8pm but he didn't get home until 3am... now he thinks i'm furious with him, but the truth is that i'm not as mad as he thinks, but i dont want him to know that! because then he'll think that he can do that whenever he wants... now what should I tell him when he gets home from work.... ;)

2007-11-26 07:31:57 · 25 answers · asked by Latinchik 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you're not married, how old are you now?

I'm 21, not married, never have been, and don't want to be until I know I've met the "love of my life." I don't want to just marry any ol' girl. I'm also still a virgin and want my sexual experience with my future wife to be making and enjoying the sincerest love, not just having sex.

2007-11-26 07:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by BlanketyBlank 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where to start...ok i have been married for 5yrs. we have a 4 yr old.I feel like my husband and I are roomates. we NEVER do anything together.ive asked him for 5 yrs to take me to the beach for 1 night...not that much money. i wanted to do it on our wedding anniversary...to celebrate that...he wouldnt.
Ive asked him to take us to the beach for the day(our daughter, me and him) he wont/hasnt. keeps saying he will and wont. our daughters never seen the beach. my cousin offered to take us ab\nd he gets mad(my hubby) he wont go to the park with us....says its not free...it costs money to drive there (gas).
we never do anything together..as a couple or as a family. i do most of the things with our little one.
I am not happy and havent been. im driving a veichle thats not safe but that dosent phase him. he never wants to go see my family . EVERY holiday is with his. says we cant afford to go see mine.
gets mad if i go visit my cousin ....who is 5 minutes away.

2007-11-26 07:29:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do because i know the truth i know are father

2007-11-26 07:27:56 · 1 answers · asked by Lisa S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She was home by herself and took my truck to go pick up her pills, when I asked her where she went, my truck was moved, she said she was going to go get something to drink but changed her mind. I confronted her four times about taking my truck and at the time I confronted her I did not know about the pills. She swore on are children lives that she did not go anywhere! I was left thinking the wrost. I knew she had gone somewhere. I confronted her about the pills and she admitted having a problem with them but still denied taking my truck. After knowing about the pills for over a week I asked her about taking my truck again and at first she denied it but then said that she did take it and went to pick up her pills. I am having hugh trust issues. When I'm with her everything seems to be fine but when I'm away from her I can't stand it. How do I get over this horrable feeling! I love her more then anything and want so badly to trust her again. She will not seek cousoling until she is ready

2007-11-26 07:26:02 · 8 answers · asked by Max 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she cramps up (her upper thigh) every time she has an o* ...that's how i know she can't be faking... eat your heart out Sally!(when harry met sally)

this happens in every position and it ruins it for me a bit, if we're in sync. (which happens more time than not).

what can i do to keep her from the cramps?

2007-11-26 07:25:41 · 16 answers · asked by KJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

we have no internet at home. please boys answer my question, from a boys point of view. is it me. The thing is we have a more than excellant sex life. he said it was curiosity, but wats he curious about? and is that just an excuse

2007-11-26 07:24:53 · 39 answers · asked by JESSICA H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

basically been hanging out with this girl for a couple weeks now, we've slept together and spent the night a good amount of times together, and first two weeks we didnt know what we were and we basically acted like we were together, and now she is saying that she is scared of being in a relationship because she has been in 2 serious ones and been hurt and ive been in one serious one and was hurt and i feel the same but i really like her and am not sure how to go about this ordeal im in. like should i say lets either date or not be friends? or just be friends and see where it goes? like im so lost and confused right now....

2007-11-26 07:23:26 · 4 answers · asked by SMillionST 1 in Singles & Dating

during that time of the month. Is this something normal? Do you do it during the monthly visit?

2007-11-26 07:19:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who snogs girls alot when she is drunk. It may seem like simple fun but it gets to the point where it is no longer a dance but she wants to kiss. It isn't for attention or for the boys because sometimes there are no men there. It is a regular occurance. Is this normal?

2007-11-26 07:19:14 · 37 answers · asked by May B 1 in Singles & Dating

Well last weekend my bf of 3 years went to a strip club for a friends birthday. Didn't have a problem with that, and dont have a problem with him having normal female friends. However i did have a problem when he came home with one of the strippers numbers. I txted him yesterday and said that I wanted him to txt the girl infront of me saying he does not want her to contact him or vice versa then delete the number. Well he comes home and claims he already did it, i ask to see the txt he say he deleted it because he sent it early in the morning before i told him to show me & that his 'inbox' was full. I ask to see the contacts, and her name has been deleted & he says he swears honestly he has deleted the number. Do you think he actually has stopped txting her? Do u think its strange he did not have the txt to show me, or am i just bein paranoid? Please be serious, this is a serious issue to me.

2007-11-26 07:17:57 · 21 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he lives with myself and my partner. he has very mild dyspraxia and now he has gone through puberty he has improved a lot, but he is ver imature.
he is now 16 and left school, and is at college doingengineering. he seems very keen to do well after scraping by at school and hating most days there.
he is driving me mad though as he just takes things and does with them what he likes despite 9our repeated requests that he doesnt. when i say take i mean for ex, he decided to turn our shed into a den for him and mates, while we were at work. he carried my partners telly down there, god he could hve dropped it and has also dragged seats down there from the house that dont belong to us. ive asked him not to have his mates inthe house while im at work (i work full time andpartner does too) but he just carries on inviting them in. shud i expect him not to have friends around. i have tol him i dont mind when im there. he used to leave dishes around but he is learning to tidy them away

2007-11-26 07:17:57 · 25 answers · asked by anni333 2 in Family

I asked my classmates and now I'm asking you girls and guys, Would you rather be rich and only be able to live to the age of 55 or would you rather be poor and live to be 105. Explain (And yes I know it's in the wrong section I couldn't find a place for it)

2007-11-26 07:16:29 · 3 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My little sister is in a mess!! I won't go in to detail the only thing I really need to know is as far as JOINT CUSTODY goes..if she is at her Dad's and her Mom wants her to come home .... does she have to? Can her Mom "make" her, legally?
She is 15 years old if that is a factor.

2007-11-26 07:15:46 · 14 answers · asked by ke ke 3 in Other - Family & Relationships