I have known this girl for almost 8 months now! She is of greek cypriot descent and absoulutley amazing in everyway! pity is she is going out with someone else who is also greek! i on the otherhand am English/Jap! she doesnt love him and is not happy the only reason why she ever started the relationship was because of the family connections between them and how their parents get along so well with each other! i don't know what to do as she wants to be with me but she doesnt want to hurt her parents hearts especially her mother! but she wants to be with me and i can't bare to see her in so much pain! i have tried to walk away but that causes even more issues and she misses me even more! Any ideas how i could get her 2 be more brave and she has even admitted herself that she is 2 scared and 2 much of a coward 2 fight for what she truly wants ..and she is definite on that...that thing being me.
2007-11-26 07:44:59 · 3 answers · asked by Tatan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I HATE teaching people how to manupilate but in your situation I have no choice. Here intentions are NOT to hurt her parents, fine, you've got her there. Because if her parents truly care, she should do what makes her happy, not them. Her doing this is counter-productive towards bring meaning in her life, its hurting her, and her choicing this path is actually in the long run, saying that she doesn't want her parents to be happy. Look at it, if the only thing they share is the family connection hows that soppose to last forever. Tell her, how much it would hurt her mother to learn that 5, 10, 15, 20 years done the line that she got into at the least a neglectful relationship just for her moms sake. Take logically with her about this, becuase if you make her see, she isn't being logical. I know its the heart, but she thinks she is, use that against her..... or rather to help her.....
2007-11-30 07:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first-class factor to do is get to a risk-free position first. Act like you're going to paintings however you are going to a peers or household participants apartment for defense. Call the police or cross to the police station and inform them what occur final time you attempted to go away him and ask them to escort you for your dwelling to get your matters. The police are required to do that as a civic obligation. That means your husband can't act out b/c the police is there. Also, ensure that you just get a restraining order on him when you get your matters. He sounds frightening. Remember you defense comes first. Good Luck!
2016-09-05 14:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that if she love u , she have to get ready for anything . because to be with some one it not easy their are some difficult way to pass though
2007-11-26 07:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋