cuz, im a nice girl at heart, but noticed sometimes when i treat guys like crap they just come crawling back for more
guys dont mind a beautiful girl beating them up?... and one time i decided it was wrong treating him like crap then after i stopped beating his spirit down he left me...
2007-11-26 06:32:00 · 17 answers · asked by Whole 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, this is very simple. Don't. Guy's don't come crawling back to immature girls who play games. Keep it straight and throw the mind games out. If you like a guy, enjoy it while it lasts. You purposely being rude, crude mean or downright "bitchy" will only effect you in a negative way and ruin your reputation, preventing you from getting the good guys later on. Everyone at one stage likes the girl cuz of her bitchy attitude, guys are dumb like that. Don't think for a second that that's a lasting mentality. Once you're labeled a ***** you'll always be one and steer away the good guys.
2007-11-26 06:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never been able to get into that mindframe.
It's bullying, and whether it was an adult when I was a kid, or someone with great artistic talent, or someone with wealth, or anyone with a so-called advantage picking on someone without that advantage it just makes me angry.
The danger that I see in relationships working around what you mention is that power is given by the beaten to the aggressor - eventually creates an unequal situation and eventually decisionmaking and responsibility is overloaded onto the aggressor. Then you've got two unhappy campers.
2007-11-26 06:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by lorus_900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good wholesome girls generally are easy to please. Bad girls are a challenge.
There are obviously guys who won't put up with a girl who treats them badly, but some guys will, and even thrive on it.
I don't think this is an issue that can only be applied to guys though. There are plenty of women who have abusive male partners, both physically and mentally abusive, who will stay by their partner's side, despite the hardship it can cause.
2007-11-26 06:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by cannon_lab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody responds in the same way, but there are some people who thrive on abuse.
At one time in my life I was a cold hearted selfish bastard. I had five to ten women I was bedding at the same time. I rationalized that it was OK if I did not lie.
I told one lady that she was number one, but not the only one. Before she came to my apartment she was told to phone. On two occasions she did not and was embarrassed. We came home one time and found another women waiting for me on my doorstep. I just did not care.
As luck would have it I fell in "love" with number one. I gave up my hedonistic lifestyle. Became a devoted fiance. I changed into the loving committed man she always wanted.......or said she wanted !!
She left me literally at the alter.... her explanation.....she was bored with me.
Payback is a bit*h
2007-11-26 06:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kojak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the same the other way around treat them mean keep them keen but it will never be a long term relationship in my slut days i treated all women like shyte and got so much sexual attention it was crazy i was married she f-cked all my mates to hurt me so i hated being to close to girls i just treated them like crap for years then a really good friend took me through the you cant mess with peoples emotions like that its about time you got your shyte together and found some one to be with and show love and be in love with rather than just **** it and toss it aside have respect for yourself and other women they arnt just walking vagina's how would you like to be seen as a piece of meet instead of a person and i changed my attitude and found a love that is the best i have ever known in my partner she is my angel i love her so much i would do anything to make her happy
2007-11-26 06:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The struggle is everything. When something is unattainable, but desirable and not impossible, most will keep trying. When the goal is attained, many lose interest and move on.
It's also a consequence of the Law of Supply and Demand.
2007-11-26 06:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by LucaPacioli1492 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy probably really likes you, is insecure or doesn't care much about being hurt. He probably thinks that if he sticks it out things will get better. Or seeing that he are a good person he still stays for that small glimmer of hope that you;re not that bad a person.
2007-11-26 06:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by Curly Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only immature boys would want a girl to treat them like crap because they think it's cute and they find it playful. They can't think of something meaningful to do so they tend to resort to that kind of behavior.
2007-11-26 06:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't you treat them like you would want to be treated. It all comes back. I never put up with that. When your looks fade you will just have your silly self with nothing inside.
2007-11-26 06:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Neil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bad treatment was a sign of affection and when you stopped, they stopped... it is wrong to treat guys like animals, then some of them will only act like animal when treated that way.... all the best!!!
2007-11-26 06:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lila86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋