I like playing sax as I am a musician, like building stuff, dont like to go out much tho. I cant dance or sing, nor will I try to out of respect for mankind. I like go kart racing and movies. Im not in clubs, radio, tv or pop culture in general.
Problem is Im 26 goin on 40. I act like an old man, in my interest only though. I'd like to find someone my age fairly attractive, but nothing anyone does in my age group interests me. I really dont want to have to start hitting on older chicks. I need help
2007-11-26 05:33:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like the woman your looking for doesnt exist. You should probably lower your standards or consider men. Stay away from the old chicks.
2007-11-28 18:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you don't like to go out much is it because you're shy, because you don't like the scene that most people do, or because you don't like spending money?
Unfortunately, you're going to have a hard time finding a woman of ANY age that doesn't want to go out once in a while. I'm almost 40 and if my boyfriend didn't enjoy going out, we probably wouldn't be together. It has nothing to do with age.
There's nothing wrong with taking a girl out on unconventional dates, like to museums, festivals, arcades, etc. (I'd skip movies for the first few dates with a woman, there's no way to get to know each other) but you will have to *actually leave the house* to find women.
Where to meet these women? Take classes at your local community college. I have taken classes in photography, jewelry making, archery, conversational Japanese, cooking and cocktail mixology. All were fun and most had single women in attendance. If you're interested in art, the art classes seemed to be the ones most populated with younger, single girls.
2007-11-26 13:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The things you describe may seem to be age-related, but there are plenty of women like you out there; it just might be tough to meet them in the usual ways people your age do. Continue doing the things that interest you and be willing to strike up conversations with women you encounter in those activities. Get a buskers' license and play your sax in the park some day and see who takes notice...
2007-11-26 13:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Otter 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well "Stupid", you sound as if you are everything but, and pretty ideal to me. You are not the only one out there who is young in age and a tad older at heart. I suggest you look for a young lady much like yourself, we all know they are out there. Many woman love musicians and guys who are not into the club scene. There are so many ladies out there in the same boat you are in...you find yoursef one!
Answer provided by...judysweetfunnys daughter Linda.
2007-11-26 18:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you aren't looking at all the good things these women have to offer you are looking at all the things you see them do just because they watch a bit of t.v you can ask them to go for a walk alot of girls would rather a nice stroll in the evening than be sat inside on rainy days bring them to the movies who doesn't like to see whats new rather than re-runs of a show they have seen before sometimes its not what you don't like doing it's what you can do with someone insted. try it you'll be surprised of how many people would like to try kart racing but haven't been given the chance.
2007-11-26 13:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by emcc19 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be looking for someone that makes you happy. Someone like you. You remind me of an ex of mine, a good guy, just about 19 going on 30. Look for a woman with similar interests, really she's out there & she might not be your age, but women hit their sexual peak later and guys, younger. Don't push it, you'll know when you find her.
2007-11-26 13:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Love Me Or Hate Me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You dont need to hit th eolder chicks just change the places you hang out at where the women there are more refined and driven. There are plenty of women your age that aren't into the whole partying thing. You'll find her just look harder
2007-11-26 13:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You want help to stop being yourself? That makes no sense. You are stuck with who you are, and honestly you are just a boring guy. You need to find a boring girl. I know lot of older ladies who like to get out and have fun, so don't think that age is the determining factor. Temperament is what we are talking about. You need somebody who will either tolerate your temperament or has one like it.
2007-11-26 13:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by callawak2 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should find women who share some of your interests. There aren't going to be total, 100% matches, but keep your head up.
You might have to put down some money for some really good Internet dating sites, unfortunately.
2007-11-26 13:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be open minded. try hitting on men your age. Just kidding, maybe attend a music class and meet women your own age at school or something. Or take a class in something else that might interest you, lots of women at school. there you'll meet women of similar interest (maybe a photograpy or cooking class- women dig men who know how to cook)
2007-11-26 13:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋