WHY would this dude I just recently met lie and tell me he is going to wear a condom when we decide to have sex.. then he doesn't AND he cums inside of me.. TWICE!.
I met him about 2 weeks ago.. just had sex twice this morning.. I told him a few days ago that I am not on B/C of any kind and he says "well then i'd for sure wear a condom if we have sex".. well.. he didn't!.. when he got done.. I said.. "omg omg omg" and he is all "what?" I said.. "uhhh.. you came inside of me!". he is all "yeah.. but don't worry cause its very hard for me to get a girl pregnant because when I was younger I got hit down there with a baseball bat".. He got an ex of his pregnanat when he was 19! (he is 24 now). (she had a miscarriage)
He keeps telling me how he really wants to be in a relationship with a girl.. because he has been single for 10 months and is lonely and sick of it.
SO.. what I think that he is thinking is.. he WANTS to get me pregnant so I have to be in his life.
2007-11-26 05:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have told him a few times now that I am NOT wanting to rush into a relationship because I was once married and have a 1 year old son.
what do you all think? NO RUDENESS PLEASE. I know I am part to blame too.. for having sex the SECOND time with no protection.
2007-11-26 05:50:44 · update #1
well.. he seems that he does indeed like me A LOT.. a little more for my liking since we only met 2 weeks ago!.. he is like so clingy.. and telling me things like "I wanna keep you around forever" and " he already introduced me to his stepdad whom he lives with".. I dunno.. I can't really read him. He just dropped me off at my apt a little while ago and he kissed me goodbye and says.. "i'll call ya.. Bye"
Like after he and I had sex and i was freakin out.. he told me the thing bout the baseball bat and a slim chance gettin a girl pregnant (which is bull cause he did get an ex pregnant only 4 or so years ago).. he didn't even care tho!.. he wasen't even freaked out when i told him there is a great possibility that I am knocked up now.. He just shrugged his shoulders and was all "I don't freak out that fast"..
wow. I dunno. : (
2007-11-26 06:00:12 · update #2
wow, that is a messy situation.
1st off if you're going to continue having sex with him, buy some condoms! i don't mean to be rude, but yes he should have brought some and used them, but now you know he's not going to follow through with what he says so if you're going to continue with him or anyone invest in condoms!
2nd i'd have some serious concerns about him because he
a. he said he would use one and he didn't,
b. said he got hit with a baseball bat, please that is an old line and odds are not true,
c he wants a serious relationship because he's lonely I haven't heard many 24 year olds say that except for when they want someone to take care of them, if you want to take care of him go for it.
d he didn't seem to concerned that he didn't use a condom.
3rd, go get yourself checked for STD's, both of you! Before you consider having sex with someone get yourselves tested you said you have a child you want to be around for this child so keep yourself healthy.
4th, well nothing else, just look at what his actions are not his words in this situation.
oh and dump him.
2007-11-26 06:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by carrie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you stop him when you realized he wasn't wearing a condom? You should have been able to tell.
Don't believe his lies about the baseball bat, or the condoms, or anything else he tells you. Go pick up the morning-after pill and cut off all communication from him. I don't think he was trying to get you pregnant so you'd be in his life; I think he was trying to get laid, which you provided, without regard for you and your wishes. Move on and quickly.
2007-11-26 05:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a freak. Yes- sure sounds like he's trying to get you pregnant- and lying to you to do it! Stay away from him!
2007-11-26 05:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by just me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice.... get rid of him if he is gonna lie to you then whats the point and also go to planned parenthood and get the mornig after pill i think it good the first 48 hours.. hurry!!!!
2007-11-26 05:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is your responsibility..and you should rethink your life. And learn to respect yourself a little more.......Good luck
2007-11-26 05:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋