well me and my ex have been broken up for a couple of months and i was the one to brake up with him and that was beacuse he had made it clear that the was getting tired of me well he didnt say it but he would spend more time with his friends then he would with me but any way we stoped talkin and i do still like him and i see him around all the time because we live in the same aptment complex. well yeah like i said we stoped talking and when we saw eachother in the aptments we did even speak to each other he justed looked at me. then a couple mouths later when he was with his new girlfriend he started saying hi to me. and i was like ok whatever you know then after he broke up with her i get a friend request on myspace and its him so i aprove it and he mesged me say hi and we should kick it and stuff like that then i said okay so we kicked one day and he kissed me and now im confused beacuse i thought he just wanted to be friends and i dont know if he still likes me. somebody help!!!!!
2007-11-26 05:38:26 · 9 answers · asked by giggles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he knew that he made a big mistake in letting you go. But ask yourself this, if he got tired of you before, will he get tired of me again? If you know he will, then don't bother getting back together. It's not fair for him to toy with your emotions and get back together whenever he wants. But if you truly do like him and want to get back together then I would suggest taking it really slow. Ask him to hang out with friends and ask him one on one on how he really feels. Make sure he's not just getting back together with you on a whim. Confirm that the feelings are real.
2007-11-26 05:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what you wrote: "he had made it clear that the was getting tired of me well he didnt say it but he would spend more time with his friends then he would with me"
At any point, did you talk to him about this? Just because he's spending more time with his friends does not mean he doesn't care about you; he could just need some time away from you, which is not always a bad thing. If you don't give someone space in a relationship, they start to resent you. So I don't know where you got the idea that he wanted to be just friends based on that.
Just ask him. Every relationship problem can be solved in some way by simply talking about the issue. You saw he had a new girlfriend (do you know she was a girlfriend, or was she just a girl who may have been just a friend?), and he shouldn't be kissing you if he's still dating her.
My advice would be to simply talk to him about it. Tell him it hurt when he wouldn't spend any time with you, and that's why you broke up with him. Ask him if he's seeing anyone now and if he wants to give it another try. If so, let him know that you want more time together. If he says no, at least you'll know.
2007-11-26 13:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because you two live in the same building and when he's not got anything going on with another female he falls back on you..Like having his cake and eating it two..Regards
2007-11-26 13:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have a GF right now and needs some sex.
If you want to bang him, go ahead, if not, don't hang out with him.
2007-11-26 13:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he sees you and he doesnt say hi. i may be a guy but istill have a heart.he all of a sudden kisses you thats kinda random. i think you should dump his *********. *** in hell. hes is just using you. if he really liked you he wouldnt have just ignored you and all of a sudden go kissy kissy.he just wants to f.u.c.k you all night. believe me im a guy i know what hes thinkin. im 16.
2007-11-26 13:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys don't attach like you girls. we can have a good time and forget about it. sounds to me like he was needing a good time and you gave it to him. heck, most of us guys would but he still probably just wants to be friends, or just 'buddies' if you get my drift. =)
2007-11-26 13:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with him if you want to.
if you still like him,just tell him that he has to hang out with you and all and that he can't forget about you..-
2007-11-26 13:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by aamaandaaa! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was trying to make you jealous with his new girlfriend. and now he wants you back.
good luck :)
2007-11-26 13:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2007-11-26 13:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋