Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

Too many illigitamate kids out there. Doesn't anyone respect the Bible or the 10 commandments? I guess the end will be coming sooner than we think at this rate. Wicked

2007-11-21 05:47:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm due around Christmas and this year we made a pact that we will not go over $100 on a gift. There is a necklace I really want that's $300 and i've told him if he can find it on ebay for under $100 I would like that for Christmas. Should he get that as a gift for me having the baby? Or am I expecting too much?

2007-11-21 05:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my gf asked me this quesition. if all 3 ppl knew about each other. we have been having some issues so after she asked me this i broke up with her. and she is staying with some guy that has been a friend of hers for like 3 yrs. something doesnt set right in my stomach.

2007-11-21 05:47:20 · 9 answers · asked by love&lost 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so this guy that i really like finally gave me his number but we only talked once on the phone and then he moved so i have no idea where he is and he doesn't have my number and i can't stop thinking about him!!

2007-11-21 05:45:50 · 10 answers · asked by Esa Chica 3 in Singles & Dating

I've somewhat suspected my boyfriend (we have 2 kids together) of cheating- but everytime i've said anything to anyone they have said, "oh you are just being paranoid" (ever man ive ever dated has cheated on me).. Last night we were at home and I was talking to my sister and a call came through on the call-waiting and I answered it and it was a female. (because it was call-waiting it didnt show up on the caller id the name or number) anyways- she asked to speak with him- he was in the living room playing with our girls. He took the phone- and after a second walked into the front hallway and was pacing around talking. I was listening to the conversation but didn't hear much- and he was talking like, "yes, ok" and "sure" he was more just giving answers... anyways.. then I hear him say something about one of the guys he works with and then he gave her directions to our house and saying what time he thought he'd be out of work. If I heard right- something about 8pm. He didn't

2007-11-21 05:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I simply want the same effort that I give. Is that wrong?

2007-11-21 05:44:19 · 44 answers · asked by Xanadu 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm happily married and we get along great, very compatible. But I have been having these dreams and now keep fantasizing about Marilyn Manson. I have always like his music from the beginning of his career. My husband on the other hand thinks he is the devil. No I don't like worship him in any way. I just like him and yes I do think he is sexy. Strange I know. But I have these very vivid dream about having all kinds of dark sex with him. I am feeling guilty, like I have cheated on my husband. And I try not to think about him while my hubby and I are doing the deed, but can't help it and that brings on more guilt. What should I do, and should I tell my husband about this? Should I not listen to his music? This is serious, and please keep your answers serious.

2007-11-21 05:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my sister left open her myspace account and she lets me go on and search for people, well i read some of her mail and it was about her taking pills and smoking pot. she's 16 and i know when i was her age i was doing the same but i'm worried about her for many reasons. i want my sister to trust me but i feel like i have an obligation to tell my mom. we found out that she was taking pills a few months ago and my mom grounded her and my sister swore she would never do it again, liar! my mom is so laid back and will probably do nothing. i feel like i always have to be the parent with my sister. were 7 1/2 years apart. i need help, i'm soo confused about what to do.

2007-11-21 05:42:54 · 18 answers · asked by annie 3 in Family

My fiance and I are both 22 years old. We're getting married in May. Both of our families are a good distance away. (His family is about 350 miles away and mine is about 100 miles). We really want to spend the holidays together this year. Actually we always spend the holidsays together...at my parents' home. We want to spend them alone together this year.

His family is fine with it. They understand that the distance is huge, and agree that they will see us whenever we have the time/money to come up there. His mother comes and visits 2-3 times year (for about a week at a time).

My parents, however, throw a fit if we aren't there at least once a month. When we try to come up for a day, we're always roped into staying the night (or guilt tripped if we don't).

We were going to do Thanksgiving alone, but my mom threw a fit about this being "her last year" (cause we're getting married this year). Is it too much to ask to be able to be alone together for the holidays?

2007-11-21 05:37:11 · 10 answers · asked by Been here before 3 in Family

im 26 years old, im just wondering what stratagey works with girls aged from 19-28. First i get told that approaching and being confident works. Then i get told, just dont do anything, and wait for a girl to approach me. Which i done that, and i got nothing.Been single for 3 years cause i wont approach. Then i get told to be a challenge and make the women work for my attention. I dunno how to do that. I mean, what really works?

2007-11-21 05:33:31 · 13 answers · asked by ADAcarver 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 05:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Grampa B 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for almost two years and everything I think of, doesn't seem special enough. But I can't buy him anything too too expensive because I'm a poor college student. Anyone have any ideas that could help me out?

2007-11-21 05:30:57 · 2 answers · asked by Androgyny 6 in Singles & Dating

My hubby mom is visiting and staying with us and lastnight he went talk to her in his underware. Is this ok? He said thats my mom

2007-11-21 05:29:25 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For some reason, my friend feels that he has to let everyone know about problems that I may be having and it’s bothering me. He takes a little event and blows it way out of proportion. I just don’t understand the fascination with some people who likes to follow you and monitor what goes on in your life every single second. I did talk to him about it, and he said he apologize for disrespecting me, and that was it. We’ve been friends since High School and he’s help me out many times and I helped him out. The only time he really makes me mad is when he talks bad things about me. Has anyone been in this difficult situation before? How did you move on and still remain friends?

2007-11-21 05:28:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im 16, and male and we've bin going out for a couple of weeks, should i wait longer? Or not?

2007-11-21 05:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by alrog 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 24 yrs old and my bro 17yrs old. My parents got divorced 13 yrs ago and they had an aggrement that my mom would take off spouse support and keep child support. After my dad made bad desicions and now owes years of not paying child support to my bro and I now hes hurting financially with his new wife. My grandparents have gone to my moms house to ask her to take away child support. She didnt and now my dad is taking her to court to make accomodations. My grandparets want my mom to excuse my dad from a responsability that he still has and owes just because hes trying to get his lfe in order. I havent spoken to my granparents since, what should I do?

2007-11-21 05:24:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He and I have no plans to get married. Do I need to have proof of what is mine and his in case of his death in order to protect mysefl financially?

2007-11-21 05:23:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know how to save a marriage when things start going wrong. The guide I found at http://www.helpsavemarriagenow.blogspot.com is good but I have not had a chance to read it yet. Has anyone in here come back from a broken marriage to make it whole again? Thanks

2007-11-21 05:22:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 05:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Lynn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This morning he pushed me away, what should I do ?

2007-11-21 05:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my friend has been cutting herself really really deeply and more frequently now. and she says she'll nvr quit. i told her if i quit she quits. well i quit cutting and she still hasn't quit. i am rlly rlly worried about her. i have been trying to get her to stop for about 2weeks now. she hasn't either. i think one of these times she's gonna not stop bleeding and then not tell anyone and die. i am afraid for her life. so i told my mom. even thou i kinda screwed myself over cause my mom found out i was cutting again then, so i had to go to Miller dwann again. and that wasn't fun. (miller dwann's for troubled children) but i think my friend will not forgive me for telling my mom to tell her mom about her cutting. she needed help, but did i give her help the right way? and do u think she will ever forgive me? i think if i wouldn't have done sommin about it she would have killed herself shortly. but did i do the right thing??

2007-11-21 05:16:09 · 11 answers · asked by Felicia 3 in Friends

hi i am from india and i am a black race and when i was a child i think now that i was too abnormal and my friends told me that when i left my school many girls were saying that i am stupid and mad too but i dont behave like that actually and i am not able to forget the past it was very difficult but now i am ok and now i think that i have lost my life and my life is over my past is too bad no one was my friend help me to forget about this i was crying for that my whole life was over.i am a black race i could i be little bit white actually i dont like indians i like foriegners.help please...........

2007-11-21 05:10:02 · 5 answers · asked by avril 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't be afraid to be honest.. My feelings don't get hurt easily.

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Thanks.. and seriously, be honest. I just want to know because I'm being called ugly alot lately.. mostly on bebo.

2007-11-21 05:08:24 · 57 answers · asked by antonios mama ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband is the type of person that holds grudges for years. Yesterday, after 2 months of no physical contact whatsoever, I told him what is going on. He says he is not an animal that can just have sex. For him sex is a balance of the heart , emotions, blah blah blah. He says I have been bad to him and therefore no sex until I change. WTF! I am so sick of this. I am ready to throw in the towel. He refuses counseling. WHat would you do in my situation?

2007-11-21 05:07:24 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

cause I'm confused at how many people look at me and what it means. i don't really find myself all that interesting, but a lot of guys look at me and i want to know how common that is... does it depend on how they look at you or what? I'm terribly confused and lost.

2007-11-21 05:07:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This happend to my friend he is 30 years old married has two kids and his parents just told him he was adopted. And Since then he has been like a physco. Would you be the same way if this happend to you?

2007-11-21 05:06:12 · 54 answers · asked by Jesus_Is_My_Faith 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 05:05:35 · 6 answers · asked by Cameron Y 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you actually want to hear "oh youve lost weight!"
because i can say theres been times when ive noticed it about female friends, and thought about saying it but then thought if they actually want to hear it. Doesn't it imply that they were fat before.
Ive never actually said it.

2007-11-21 05:04:52 · 51 answers · asked by Laurence F 3 in Singles & Dating

What is really "home"? When you say "I'm going home", where is it that you are going?

Is it the place where you were born? Your parents' home? Or what?

2007-11-21 05:02:05 · 29 answers · asked by Belindita 5 in Family

I went on craigs list to look for a job and all I did was look down, I saw that the w4m under "erotic" was clicked. I could tell it was clicked because it was a different color than the other links. I sat there going through every page until I saw what he clicked on, it was a female, with a pic, looking for fun. I called him at work to ask him, he said "It wasn't me." He even swore on our children, (they're babies). I knew it was him so he finally admitted it, he said he was just curious and clicked on it. I am disgusted, 1st that he lied to be and then that he did that in the first place. He says he was just on the internet and that's all it was. I told him I want out of this marriage, am I overreacting? I'm hurt and upset and hate him right now. I told him why don't we tell your family the story over thanksgiving dinner and see what they think. I feel like I'm going to throw up right now, I have to keep myself composed for the sake of my children, both still in diapears

2007-11-21 05:01:56 · 29 answers · asked by Yasmina 2 in Marriage & Divorce