Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

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"Rivers Run One Way"


Do you ever wonder why rivers run one way,
have you sat in silence, a special place you stay.
Many thoughts abound, yet spoken words not heard,
Alone or lonely, a choice we make, how it seems absurd.

Thinking of the past, seeing success and failure too,
sitting close to GOD, is what I vigilantly must do.

Winds of change appear, yet rarely do we see,
the forest through the trees, as winds lift you and me.
This chatter that I hear,, makes my stomach turn,
living everyday for him,, a new love that I must earn.
Look,, there's GOD,, In the wind, the birds, the wind, the trees,
Painting pictures by the river, always there to please.
You are like my river, in my heart you stay.....
Do you ever wonder,,, "Why Rivers Run One Way?

GOD knows,,,, Tom Caswell

tommy_caswell2000@yahoo.com

2007-11-21 06:39:43 · 3 answers · asked by tommy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

first we should be very close with our friend.
then we should create a confident on us.
like this we should be a good friend.

2007-11-21 06:37:57 · 3 answers · asked by rekha mani s 1 in Friends

My ex boyfriend told me that he moves with his ex babymom because his kids need him because their age is that true that he just moves because of that? or he went back with her?Or is possible that their making love eventhough they broke up long time ago?

2007-11-21 06:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by tu nina linda! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is in his late 40's,he was the one who asked me to go on the pill,but would he just ask me to go on pill so i would'nt dump him for not being able to give me a child?i met his son and i found it strange that his son asked if i ever want kids,am i being paranoid?i really want a baby with him when the time is right,he said he wants kid also but dont know what to believe as guys tell you what you like to hear?

2007-11-21 06:34:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Under the fact that "we tell each other everything"

he tells everything even that .. is it normal between couples ?
i dont know .. i never got married before :p

i mean i wouldnt buy a present to someone and then tell them how much it costs i find that rude .. but when two are married ...

Is that normal ?!
If not how can i change that ?

2007-11-21 06:34:36 · 17 answers · asked by Maria 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean if I praise it, the beast gets even more awkward. Should I punish 'im severly occasionally, or mildly frequently?

2007-11-21 06:31:58 · 12 answers · asked by Perseus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

three years ago i meet my gf by chating in yahoo's room
after a while she told me that she has had a boy friend and asked me to let her go.
to tell you the truth i had never had a gf and was so happy to find one and after a while i aseked her to marry me ,but she saild that she wants to marry her first bf not me and after a while she did.
they got married,but after a year they divorced,
a few days ago she called me and explained the story of her bf's evil's behavier
on the other hand i still love her and in dilemma whether to get marry her or not.
what would you do if you were me?

2007-11-21 06:26:58 · 18 answers · asked by arash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Then we broke up. Now the want to just date. So what sould I do. I love him so much. I still want to married him, but he want to just date, and want to be single , so he could find himself. He told me he was scared to be in a longterm. relationship. Please tell me what I should do.

2007-11-21 06:26:09 · 7 answers · asked by paige 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 06:23:48 · 32 answers · asked by lisa J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

CALL DOCTOR PHIL, RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

2007-11-21 06:23:08 · 13 answers · asked by Po 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 06:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by viraj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does youth prefer love marriage than arrange marriage

2007-11-21 06:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by Divya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a horrible fight w/ my hubby this morning and I am still fuming. What happened was, he went out to the bar last night and didn't come home until 3:30am. So we have this rule that has been in effect for years that when he comes home very late on a day that I work that he sleeps on the couch. Because I have to wake up at 7am to go to work and I am a very light sleeper. So last night, he didn't come in and wake me up, but he did come in and take my blanket off of me (I had 2 blankets on 1 fluffy 1 heavy, he actually lifted the fluffy one up (which was on top) and took the heavy one.) So I woke up about 1/2 hour later shivering in the cold (it got below freezing last night). So I go downstairs there is my hubby sleeping on the couch with my heavy blanket!!! The linen closet is full of blankets just a few feet from our bedroom! So I bitched at him this morning and he said i was overreacting, that i was hogging blankets and why did i need 2. What do you think, would you be angry?

2007-11-21 06:13:05 · 25 answers · asked by kallista 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 06:12:43 · 6 answers · asked by Swetha s 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I have a few:

Alan (Boyfriend) Mum & Dad (Mum and Dad) Josh (Brother) Jenna ( Half sister)
Ommg basically familty!! lol

2007-11-21 06:11:41 · 13 answers · asked by DaisysMumma13 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Axe spray, and Bod spray, and Tag spray .
They STINK !

2007-11-21 06:09:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true that though you love ur spouse, can you still lust another person? If so have you acted on it? would you?

2007-11-21 06:08:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to know whats it like after they you wed and days after that.

Doesnt it get boring after a while?

2007-11-21 06:06:45 · 27 answers · asked by jake101free 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am close to filing for divorce. I have tried the counseling, my husband refused to go with me. He is just an unreliable, undependable, self-centered, narcassistic man. We fight constantly and I know it must be tearing my kids up (7 and 8 yo), but I am scared what divorce will do to them. I know its not sane to live in a house where there is no love at all. Are they really better off with us divorcing? My husband comes from a divorced family and I honestly think that is the root of half his problems.

2007-11-21 06:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by Paula M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 years. He recently was put In jail for 90 days and just got released. During our 5 years of dating he hasn't held down a job for 6 months. When he was incarerated I went to college and work paid all the bills and took care of my children. Since he's been released he acts as If he doesn't want to go out and look for a job, but just want to have sex. Well I have too many things I want to accomplish In my life and having sex isn't one of them. I want to become a nurse. I just don't know what to do or say to get him to see the light. I just want to be out of this relationship with him, he's seems so lazy! He seems to have no goals, ambition at all. What can I do? Serious answers please. Thanks.

2007-11-21 06:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by Kari L 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this sport i do which I am pretty rubbish at even though i've been doing it for a while, and I find absolutely no enjoyment in it whatsoever either.

I want to quit it but my parents won't let me, and won't even sit down with me and discuss anything.

I can't just quit either because my parents are blackmailing me into doing it by threatening to not give me any money if I don't.\

I am in very good shape.

Any suggestions?

2007-11-21 06:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by J J 1 in Family

I am 30, have no kids, and am not married (I have a bf). I have always had this nervousness about having a child. I'm not nervous so much about the labor and everything that happens during labor but am worried (and have always been) about what guys think when they're watching this happen?

My aunts husband freaked out after the birth. He is a surgical asst. so you'd think he'd be okay with all of it but they RARELY had sex after she had their son because he was "grossed out" by the delivery. I can't help but wonder how many guys get really grossed out and maybe see their wives differently after seieng her give birth. I know that some fall more in love but some feel less attracted...

what has your experience as married people (with kids) been?

2007-11-21 06:00:12 · 25 answers · asked by laura1977 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother and his girlfriend are getting married soon, but they're going to the virgin islands to get married. its not enough that she's mean to me and hates me (im only 16 and she's 21) but she said im not allowed to come down to the wedding, and my family didnt say anything!!!!!! THIS IS SO SCREWED UP. i need advice. should i just ignore my brother and his girlfriend and my family, since they dont give a crap. so much other stuff has happened with her and i know my family likes her more.im they're daughter and my brothers sister!! you'd think they'd show more of a concern....i need lots of advice pleeeeeeease.

2007-11-21 05:58:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay I know this question sounds weird, but when you're kissing do your lips match up top lip to top lip--bottom lip to bottom lip or is it like...his top/bottom lip between yours?

No rude answers please

2007-11-21 05:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am sure that it is possible to give an honest unswer without being crude, rude, or disrispectful to the young person parents

2007-11-21 05:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by Loretta M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i just answered someones question and i wondered if my answer was reasonable or not i mean its the truth but does it make me crazy to think this way. the question was about if you train your guy.... I said that to me life is about choices and consequences i gave an example that if im guy went out with his friends and didnt come home till i was already asleep then the consequence of his choice would be no home made dinner and no sex.......do other girls think this way or im I being crazy? should i wake up to make food and listen to his story about his night and um... pleasure him as i would have had he been home when i went to bed?

my ex thought I was irrational but honestly him and his buddies were attached at the hip and he was always out with them so our sex life was pretty depleted by the end of the realtionship. just wondering if we would still be together if id done what i am ask about?

sorry........ reposting but im really kind curious about it now

2007-11-21 05:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 05:55:11 · 14 answers · asked by viraj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 05:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by bodyandsoul37 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf just broke up. but i want him back i love him and i know he still loves me! he says to give it some time but he has been hanging out with this other girl (who is the girl who trys to get guys to show people she can get whoever she wants). he said his mind can change back to me very quickly he says he still likes me. he told me he wants a challenge he like how at the beginning he had to try to get me he doesnt want it just handed to him. we were going out for 11 months. what do i need to do to get him back for good? and is he just trying to make me jealous? answer both please! and also please provide me with anything that could help me. no stupid answers please

2007-11-21 05:49:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering because i'm happy with the people around me right now, but i was curious about you all...:)
thanks!!
but i do miss the people at my school.

2007-11-21 05:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by blueyedblondie2323 4 in Other - Family & Relationships