Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

This is not something that is going on in my life. But I was married to a man similar to this 13 years ago and know where she's coming from. But a friend of mine, her husband is so jealous of her and she would never cheat on her husband. He does things like check the milage on her car, and whenever she gets off from work he knows it takes her exactly 18 min to get home. She cant be over 20 min. If a car rides by their house more than once then he assumes they are riding by to see if he is home and looking for her and she will not even know who they are. She will be somewhere in public and he will acuse her of starring at another guy and she has no idea what he is talking about. Why would someone put there self through that? Sitting and wondering all day what there wife or husband is doing all the time. To me that is not a healthy relationship and it does not seem like love. More like possession. Your opinions please

2007-11-21 22:30:37 · 21 answers · asked by rene1695 5 in Marriage & Divorce

In general

Ignore my icon also, I'm not a guy, comments are meaningless too.

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What do guys think of girls? like behind our backs they talk about sex and stuff and watch porn and fart and stuff lol. I dunno, I kind of feel, do they have any respect for us or view us inferior-ly.

2007-11-21 22:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

it's funny what you hear on the radio

2007-11-21 22:28:37 · 2 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Friends

This girl who's a friend of mine is really close to me but she likes fun loving guys and jokes from them. She tells that one of her friends is really nice to be with as he makes her laugh and she can't feel the time passing with him. She didnt tell that im boring but i feel a little sidelined when compared with this guy whom she spoke about. Im jealous about her comments and i think im boring compared with other boys who know how to joke and make women laugh. It really takes them close to them so I fear i might lose her friendship for other guys...pls.help...

2007-11-21 22:26:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a very emotional girl.....i find myself getting moody/jealous or worried about the smallest things.....
examples are....my boyfriend not replying when i txt him....or him acting a little distant - i can turn that into him going off me and i can worry myself sick that its soon gunna be over...and i am losing him

I am always obsessing over what i cant have, and this makes me moody...i came back from uni this yr and dont have alot of mates in the area...id like more and i get jealous of my bf as he has a massive group of mates and they are constantly wanting to see him.....
im feeling in competition with them alot of the time,although its me making me feel like that not him...i feel my life revolves around him alot and i dont like that but i dont have alot of mates so its hard to change that.

Anyone got any advice for me, i need to snap out of it as im causing issues with my bf, and i dont want that as hes really great....i think hes the one which is why i wana sort this out!

2007-11-21 22:23:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went out with this guy for about a year and out of nowhere he just disappeared. I recently found out that he had a girlfriend the whole time he was with me. I have gained weight and haven’t date since. I guess I'm scared of getting hurt again. But most of all disappointed in myself.

2007-11-21 22:23:24 · 15 answers · asked by Fall 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 22:22:37 · 12 answers · asked by AnnieG 4 in Weddings

ive been with my girlfriend for a year and 1month now and in a few months were gonna get married,but our phone coversation is dyin out. she told me that she always starts of the conversation and she tired of it n she wants me to talk now coz im always listening.when were together we dont get dat problam its jus on the phone and at the begining of the phone conversation its aiight but after like 45mins it dies out i dont know wat 2 talk about and i know its because of me and im worried coz i love her alot n i dont wanna loose her.please help me out anyone please i love this woman

2007-11-21 22:21:39 · 4 answers · asked by omar 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story cut short, my husband's parents are coming over for thanksgiving. I do not mind these people normally. However I feel that my mother in law mentioning that she always had their dinner ready EARLY (around 2 pm) was like asking me to rearrange my thanksgiving dinner plans, and I'm rather offended. I do not like eating dinner at 2 pm and I will not eat dinner at 2 pm as I am used to eating thanksgiving dinner around 5, 5:30 at the latest. Also she did not have any plans to come over and "hang out" with her youngest (of 2) sons. She literally asked us to call her when dinner was about finished!! I think it's so she can come over, stuff her face quickly, then leave me with dishes for five people (DH will be asleep on the sofa inevitably.) Nevermind that I have lots of cocktail finger food available and would enjoy having them over for football and munchies.

I'm exasperated at this point, and talking to my husband does absolutely nothing but put him on the defensive. HELP!!!

2007-11-21 22:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by bostongirl_1981 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I change work? Should I ignore him? I am getting pathetic and my self-respect are affected and becoming so confused.

2007-11-21 22:18:17 · 13 answers · asked by Maverick P 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this is my idea....

we go to a chinese resturant and we're eating having fun yada yada.... then we open up the fortune cookies(which i had prepared).... i open mine... she asks wut i got or sumthing and i read.. "will you be my girlfriend?" and then i ask wut her's says and she reads.. "yeah!! about time." lol or sumthing like that....

i can do it at the resturant or i can take the cookies go to a differnent location then say "oh wait i got the fortune cookies!!" then we open it there...

if she opened her's first then i can then read mine and then it would make sense to her and then i can add something cheesy like "you knew your answer even before i asked.. " .. lol

tell me wut you think..

2007-11-21 22:16:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 22:16:08 · 13 answers · asked by blink182 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be really cheeky and think that everything that I got I deserved, as in material things and love etc. As I've grown earlier I realise that my mum and dad have given so much to me and that I dont deserve to have it all.

They have given me everything that I ever wanted growing up and I only remember being a stroppy teenager not thanking them for anything.

I also had a boyfriend at 17 and I just rebbelled from school etc all the while my mum and dad were supporting me etc. I feel so bad.

Now I am in second year uni I feel so guilty for being like this and I just want to make my mum and dad proud.

I also dont like things about myself and I know my mum and dad wouldnt like my uni way of life sometimes. The way we go out, all the boys etc. I feel as if I need to be perfect.

What do you think?

2007-11-21 22:15:50 · 6 answers · asked by lozziebach 1 in Family

hi!!I really need your advice!!I have been in love with a boy for about 3 years now(i am 17 and he is 19-20)I know its a long time but i can't forget him!!He was at my school(but now he has graduated)we had been met one time(by one friend of mine who is also a friend of his)but he was really shy with me(he looked down) (only with me)and we hadn't talk since!!I don't know if he is interested at all!!What do you think??Plus,one time(when he was at school)his friends pushed him to me and then he told them:'what are you doing you ********?'what do you think that it means??Did they push him to me because they had realised that i liked him or because he was a bit interested??Please help me out with this one!!And please don't tell me to forget him because i can't!!I am so in love with him!!!What should i do??i want serious answers

2007-11-21 22:14:38 · 3 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend (a girl) but she's not my lover. Anyway whenever she talks to other boys or joke with them i feel terribly jealous. I dont know why. May be im too possessive and compare myself with other guys. She tells me that a certain guy friend of her's is extremely nice to be with as he jokes a lot and he has good wits and all that. I was upset and jealous when she told that and i felt really insecure. She sometimes tells me that im so boring unlike other guys who're energetic an funloving. I too am funloving but I like to be myself and I dont know how to make her laugh and stuff like that. Please help me to come out of this jealousy syndrome..tks..bye...

2007-11-21 22:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like this guy and his best friends keeps saying that he fancies me. But I doubt he'd like me back. Well anyway, all of his mates keeps saying that we want to go out with each other which is really stupid because I never said that, whereas they're saying I did.
So one of my mates is making stuff up about us and my other mate is telling everything i say to him. This is really stupid but it's really getting on my nerves too. What should I do?

2007-11-21 22:11:00 · 14 answers · asked by diamondeyesx 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok to make a long story short, my man of 10 1/2 yrs cheated on me with a known homewrecker(she purposely goes after only taken men), anyways we decided to stay together and work it out, and he has told this girl, but she wont quit calling and texting him and me. She leaves some pretty scandalous messages, and they are mostly lies.(I know cuz she will say he is right there next to her or whatever, but he is really with me) and I tell him to tell her, and he says he has, yet I never have heard him do it. And he will say he doesnt have to prove anything to me. (HELLO YES YOU DO YOU BURNED ME IDIOT) LOL but 4 reals, how can I get her to stop?

2007-11-21 22:10:51 · 22 answers · asked by desire69666 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you fall in love again after a failed relationship,is it possible to start a new romance,how can i do that,will some one tell me please.i need to be loved again.

2007-11-21 22:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by Susan 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 22:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Layla 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 21:58:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to know this girl, I still like her after all these years, but she doesn't like me. Anyway, I moved away and sort of forgot. Anyway, I tried to get into relationships with new girls, but I got really mean with them for no reason and tried to drive them off. I just got bitter and swore off girls. I drove off a lot, trust me, I was really mean. Now, I ran into her a few years ago and realized my problem was that I still liked her, and now I realize I have to move on.

Now, I'm totally damaged goods, I'm afraid to admit it. I'm normal on the outside, but I completely break up when it comes to getting involved with a girl. I usually look like a total fool or end up trying hard to drive them off.

I feel helpless. My family thinks I'm weird, I'm good-looking. I'm even hearing the gay rumors, but trust me, I'm not! I feel like I have to get a girlfriend or risk being labeled a freak, what can I do?

2007-11-21 21:57:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive gotten into some organizations to help the physically handicapped. And now ive found that my friends... well so called friends ive grown up with... are betraying me just because im hanging out with the physically and mentally handicapped. Its not right... I dont see why people dont understand things the way I do...What can i do?


d.michael.reed@gmail.com

2007-11-21 21:52:12 · 16 answers · asked by hobiesailor07 1 in Friends

ng a s l @g. or that maybe at 27 i should be looking for something more meaningful?

2007-11-21 21:42:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right... I'm 13 years old and i'm off school today..


A couple of months ago me and a friend were playing around and then i hit her mouth with a book gently in the game and she went off laughing.. then i hear i made her cry.

But now my best friend just texted me saying these two girrls in my year want to beat my up because of what i did.


I'm really scared.
Please someone give advice

Thanks ox

2007-11-21 21:35:22 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah Babiee 1 in Friends

When I was 16 I had a best friend and a boyfriend. My best friend first liked my BF, but somehow I ended up going out with him (no, it was not my devious plan and I think she was ok with it plus I was 16). Oh yeah and she had a boyfriend as well.
She really was my best friend, but I moved away and didnt see neither of them for 4 years. Since then, they both started going out and seem to be pretty serious about marrying each other. I am very happy for them. I have been married for the last two years as well and also plan to keep it that way.
I am going back to that place now to spend my Christmas there and would love to see how both of them are doing, because I think it has been a very long time and everything worked out for the best. However, I have written about 2 emails and one message two my friend and got no reply. I have always considered her my friend and we all used to hang out together. I dont understand why she is ignoring me... should i call her?

2007-11-21 21:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I accidentally found my son's suicide letter when i was cleaning his room and he is planning to end his life this christmas....

i dont know how it would end up like this where my son his having counselling now but its like i finally realised my son is a completely a different person from the person i know since his birth after i read his letter..... my son's name is Alex and he is always a happy and optimistic boy as our family knows it and everyday back home he would tell all about his happy things about school and all about his friends except i found out he made up it all up after revealing it in his letter in his letter he thinks of this world as cruel and cold but we never knew he would even think about that... maybe i did not put enough care for my son but i just dont know why Boys tend to keep all their feelings inside them....

now I am worried my younger son which is only 13 this year im afraid he would turn into his brother later...Please Help us???

2007-11-21 21:29:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last week ,My Friend arranged the party in his home during midnight !
We had a great time with my college friends.The problem is our class mate(girl),got hang over and slept in his(my friend's) bedroom.Later, my friend too got a great hangover and went to that bed.Without conciousness they went intercourse(not safe).
Now she is asking me what to do ! If her parents come to know They will take some strict action against her.My friend saying that it was not planned one.

YOU & ME are in the Position to give suggestions to the both

PLS HELP!!!!!

2007-11-21 21:28:25 · 9 answers · asked by Arul for U 2 in Friends

we are playing music outside of an apt. Should we turn of the music, cause it's pissing people off.

2007-11-21 21:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's out of this world hot. She's a biology major though, and kind of a science geek. Why wouldn't she have a boyfriend?

I'm confused. Explain.

2007-11-21 21:26:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im thinking i should start a diary

2007-11-21 21:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family