I used to know this girl, I still like her after all these years, but she doesn't like me. Anyway, I moved away and sort of forgot. Anyway, I tried to get into relationships with new girls, but I got really mean with them for no reason and tried to drive them off. I just got bitter and swore off girls. I drove off a lot, trust me, I was really mean. Now, I ran into her a few years ago and realized my problem was that I still liked her, and now I realize I have to move on.
Now, I'm totally damaged goods, I'm afraid to admit it. I'm normal on the outside, but I completely break up when it comes to getting involved with a girl. I usually look like a total fool or end up trying hard to drive them off.
I feel helpless. My family thinks I'm weird, I'm good-looking. I'm even hearing the gay rumors, but trust me, I'm not! I feel like I have to get a girlfriend or risk being labeled a freak, what can I do?
2007-11-21 21:57:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel like its karma for me being an *** to girls.
2007-11-21 22:03:30 · update #1
that answer above had nothing at all to do with your problem...
You need closure. whether its with this girl or with yourself you need to realize that something is wrong and it's not normal for you to be getting pissed when meeting hot new girls.
2007-11-21 22:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Louis K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need a close friend to slap the living shet out of you and tell you to "Wake up, Stupid!". Often times, we can't see what's ruining our lives because something we once thought we had was so good for the moment, we think we'll never get near that feeling again. You're wrong...
2007-11-22 06:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Therapy is needed to learn to deal with your "baggage". Just remember that everyone gets hurt. Some people get hurt numerous times before they find the right person for them. Never give up, and for goodness sake don't take your pain out on girls that do not deserve it. That would make you no better than the person that hurt you.
2007-11-22 06:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you thought about God? you need to find your confidence somewhere, and He's the best one to find it ;) once u begin to love urself, u'll be, not just willing but ready to love others, and of course, that'd include a woman :)
2007-11-22 06:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by ironman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just chill out dood. be yourself and do what makes you happy, forget about what others think.
2007-11-22 06:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by yarr! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋