I went out with this guy for about a year and out of nowhere he just disappeared. I recently found out that he had a girlfriend the whole time he was with me. I have gained weight and haven’t date since. I guess I'm scared of getting hurt again. But most of all disappointed in myself.
2007-11-21 22:23:24 · 15 answers · asked by Fall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he'snot worth for all your time being depressed.... he's not worth it! loose weight, try to maintain your beauty and date again! show him that you're not a looser and that he's not the only guy!!!!!!!! go out and have fun sistah!!!!!!
2007-11-21 22:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by c bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be disapointed in yourself? He's the one that you should be disappointed in. You didn't deserve what he did to you. The best thing you can do is learn from that experience.Don't hide yourself away any longer. Your still letting him hurt you if you do that. Noone likes to be hurt,but you have to get back in the game. Don't let weight or anything keep you from being happy.
2007-11-22 06:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Karebear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to force yourself forward, and trust in you friends to help you through this. I had a guy do that to me, though i lost my virginity to him, and he freaked out. He changed his phone number on me and just dropped off the face of the world. I recently got a hold of him and he told me he had a girl friend at the time. I'm telling you, just move on. Sometimes, just sometimes, you'll find a good guy after this. I did. Best of luck to ya
2007-11-22 06:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by otep0289 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault... Dont let the f***ker get to you! He's an a**hole...
Just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and remember:
Not all guys are like him... You'll meet someone really special, who's gonna treat you well...
Concentrate on yourself for the moment, go get a facial, a new hairdo and a manicure and go on a shopping spree... Then get yourself out to a club (in the sexy new outfit you got yourseld on that shopping spree) and knock 'em dead.
2007-11-22 06:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by antiluv01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy and i am 18 yrs old....now trust me on wht i am tellin ya...guys of my age(well, at least all the ones that i've come across..n me myself..lol)dont give a damn to wht our girls really feel..before ,during or after the relationship..well, not too much atleast.so if hes my age, trust me (n TRUST me) he'll NEVER b thinkin again bout u regardless of whether or not hes seeing any1 right now...so my advice to u wud b just to jog on n forget anything that hppnd..now how u do that, its upto u totally..for a start u can do some workout to get back to shape n then get ur life back on its tracks...if u still thinkin u want him back, then its only u whos in for a loss....trust me gal
cheers n gd luck!
2007-11-22 06:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you learn from your mistakes, don't let this get you down, people will hurt you all the time. It's up to you to pull your self up by your boot straps and move on. Moving on and showing this doens't hurt you, is the best revenge, as well as LOOKING GREAT! Happy Thanksgiving!
2007-11-22 06:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take few months for you to move on!
Hell , boys are like that !! Most of them are cheaters ! You'd better stop dating unless you find the right one .
let the memories go
Good Luck
2007-11-22 06:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by mona_atraki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most great wisdom comes from painful lessons, and this teaching will enable you to make smarter decisions in the future. Use that wisdom and give meaning to your life.
2007-11-22 06:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know this is tough... but you could read some of these links that will help you work out your feelings.
check out this link and search through all the stuff in there.
http://www.coping.org/relations/content.htm
2007-11-22 06:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Quinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's just say...for all we know...he's in the bed as we speak...going downtown with some lady.
Get over this jerk and see him for the loser that he is....you deserve better!
Given enough rope (in life) he'll hang himself before long anyway. Watch and Learn!
2007-11-22 06:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋