ng a s l @g. or that maybe at 27 i should be looking for something more meaningful?
2007-11-21 21:42:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gemma r - I have a very good job thank you! i think you need to re read my question!
2007-11-21 22:04:09 · update #1
I get the feeling some of the people who responded telling you to do things like get a job are young & naive, & don't realize the "benefits" are sex, not monetary support. That aside, you are just at a point in your life where you want a relationship that you can build on, & that's okay. If your "friend" isn't on board with taking things to that level, then just go out & start trying to find the person that you can build a relationship with that will mean something more to you. If that's truly what you want, anyway, & not something society has put in your head. I've been down that road a few times, & then the girl I'm dating screws with my head, messes up my life, & I go back to the booty calls for a while because they're much safer in the long run than staying in a relationship that is destructive. So, whatever you truly want, go for it & make the decision that's best for you.
2007-11-21 22:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be looking for what you want, and if you don't want a meaningful relationship right now, great, go for it. If you aren't satisfied with your current situation change it. By the way you aren't being that, I think it's fine, you probably want a change or maybe you do in fact want something more meaningful. But you aren't doing anything wrong, to some you might be but those people need to understand this is a different era. Do what you feel you want to do, for you.
2007-11-22 05:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tragedy Crept 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a booty call. I hate that term "friends with benefits". Either a girl made it up to try not to feel guilty about what she was doing, or a guy to make it sound more like some kind of a extra special relationship.
At 27, I would think that you would be looking for a partner to settle down with. It is your choice, however.
2007-11-22 05:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to be able to look yourself in the mirror at the end of the day and be proud of who you are. So I think you should take some time and look inside your own heart, and ask yourself what you really want. You know the answer deep down. Just be true to yourself, and you'll be ok. Go after what you really want - you deserve the best out of life!
2007-11-22 05:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sadie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what feels right. I had a few friends with benefits & when i found the right guy i knew straight away & stop all the sex with the others.
But until you find that person, why not just have fun! x x
Happy S*H*A*G*G*I*N*G!
2007-11-22 05:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's about choice, and if your happy and your friend is happy then there is no problem.
Who says all relationship have to be based on love, commitment, etc?
Do what you feel is right to you and don't be worried about what others think.
2007-11-22 05:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time to explore your feelings. Talk it over (if you can) with someone you trust to just listen and not judge. Why does this relationship nake you feel bad? If it makes you feel bad why continue with it??
2007-11-22 05:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by RayT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 27 you sound like a kid in a mans body! what logic!
2007-11-22 05:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More meaningful than this question I hope.
2007-11-22 05:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by ORC 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't feel bad as long as no-one is getting hurt and you two are having fun there isn't anything to feel bad about...
2007-11-22 05:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Seth G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋